Originally posted by: psawyer
Dearest Anu-maan,
Just to prove that I really did intend to write a reply to your post 😆 Vasurina, TODAY you replied...yesterday also you didn't...I had my reasons to wonder😛
I totally agree with this bit. The writing was terrible; she went from spitting made to sad and conciliatory in a matter of seconds. To be honest she seemed weirder than Nuts in that scene. LMAO true...heck Nuts toh is off my radar in general...I had expectations from Priya but wow were they shot to hell yesterday or what.
And as others have pointed out, this is two public outbursts for her at two of her rokas/engagements. For someone who often bemoans her unmarried state, she does not make things easy for herself. Neither of the actual situations were her fault or her making - agreed. I would still say that in the first one she did behave with more dignity, attributing no more blame to Ram than he deserved. Yeah first one was understandable...but even in this one she added one line about, "mujhe plan nahin karna aata...nahin toh ab tak meri shaadi ho gayi hoti"...W*F was that?? Hello why does she need to turn this around to act all bechari about why her shaadi didn't happen?? How does this dialogue even make sense for a woman who just a day ago gave a big lecture ki WHY does a woman NEED to be married?
But this one was totally out of the blue. She should have stopped to consider the fact that in everything that Ram has said to her up till now, he has never even hinted at the fact that he wanted to marry her. And, knowing his personality, if he DID want to marry her (as opposed to being forced into it) he would have called her up and told her himself. So the fact that she believes he specifically wants to marry her/Ayesha is more than a little jarring. Exactly...I'm not saying she already knows him so well or whatever but the day of the roka, they showed she felt a hint of connection and understanding...and uske baad she believed THIS? In Kartik's case toh bada phone kar rahi thi to clarify stuff with Ram...and what about now?? So easily she believed he wants to marry Ayesha...the rest of the family is dumb anyways but Priya too bought into this? Such pathetic writing.
And add to that the fact that she knows that Niharika came to see Shipra re: this matter, and so her rightful anger should be at Shipra, and at worst towards Niharika also. There was a very strange disconnect between Priya and her parents in this episode - neither did she reprimand her mother for misunderstanding the situation, and neither did her parents tell her off for behaving like an uncivilised, uneducated fisher-wife. Exactly! The parents are just standing around like useless statues! What the hell?? She was acting like a total shrew and no one had anything to say?? Total disconnect as you said cuz Priya got this info from her MOTHER...and Shipra saw no need to speak up? I guess not since this was the Priya show...all of a sudden the parents fade into the wallpaper😆
My only half-hearted reasoning for her outburst is the fact that she has suffered shock after shock after shock in the last week and so that has addled her brains somewhat. But it really doesn't excuse the fact that she behaved in that appalling way to a man who essentially has done nothing wrong. She should have completed the roka ceremony and then taken Ram and family aside to clear the confusion. Begging off the wedding then would have been a far easier and dignified way of doing it, rather than giving the world yet another reason to talk about you. Yeah I too tried to find some reasoning...that maybe she was just too shocked so she reacted in anger...see I could understand if she'd been GENERALLY angry about the situation...but no, she basically turned on Ram and the WAY she spoke with him...the CHEEZ line and "INSE"...all that...didn't expect this kind of arrogance from Priya...Ram has never done anything so bad to her...the accident issue has been put behind them anyways and seriously then what was the rain scene about?? Even after the engagment fiasco, Ram was SO nice to her even as she was taunting him...and for THAT man, she spoke SO horribly...I thought Priya had some compassion in her...but what I saw yesterday was some alien version of Priya...WHAT is her "understanding" of Ram is beyond me...I felt so horrible for him by the end of that scene with the way she basically udaaoed dhajjiyaan of all his self-respect...what has he ever done to her to deserve THAT? And she has NO guilt...it's amazing...her little spiel to Ram about respecting him just didn't come across as genuine cuz of the way the scene flowed...
And now I just don't know how I feel about RP since we know they will be selecting engagement rings soon but how Priya can go from the way she spoke to him HERE to doing THAT is something I'm not being able to see.
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