Perfection lies in imperfection - 22 June - Page 4

Vasu,fantastic Post as always👍🏼

I really don't have much to say,since everyone has said almost everything 😊 coming to ur question ,yes i believe in soulmates,they do exists & i have found mine 😳. coincidentally my hubby's name is RAM😉.so whenever i watch this show,he makes fun of me saying u have ur own Ram at ur personal service,leave that Ram for Priya😆.

Thanks for the precap pic...🤗

Originally posted by: fuzzyface

 

Ram isn't the perfect man and I don't think there such  a thing as perfect. Like your title perfection lies in imperfection as in  beauty lies in the flaw. What makes Ram attractive is his blind love and faith for his family as well as his ability to admit ok I made a mistake, move on. Actually I find his odd habits quite endearing 😳 

 

Priya on the other hand, I think she is so used to being rejected and getting crumbs, so when something good comes along, it a but too hard to digest. I think it's also because she doesn't think she deserves something that is so called perfect, so she is hesistant.

 

I agree 100%, if something appears to be too good to be true, it probably is and everything shld be taken with pinch of salt.

 

As for soulmates, I do believe they exist but not necessarily we end up marrying our soulmates. To me a good marriage is two puzzles coming together and trying to fit in, it may not be the perfect fit but the foundation is there and the pieces come together with time.😊

 

I love your analysis as always, great post 😃

wonderful post and some interesting things you mentioned which I can relate to...

Vasu
i go by all that uve said there and honestly ...y'days episode didnt impress me as much as the precap. That 2 secs precap was more impressive than that entire 20 mins Episode.

Vineet - I have my doubts over him. Someone cant be so perfect. This fellow seems too good to be True. But then there have been things which seemed genuine. Sply his interaction with Priya was quiet good.

We know Priya n Ram are gonna be togethere now when i think of reasons as to why Vineet-Priya wont work :- i come to following conclusions
1. As Niharika is wanting Ram to get married to one poor n needy girl so may be she thinks of Priya. And she puts a clause that she would approve for Nats and Karthik's marriage only if Priya marries Ram(CHances are less)
2. College students have seen Ram-Priya togethere, So chances are that now this news comes out in media that Ram is in a relationship with this female who happens to be lecturer in one of the Couching classes and this forces the 2 to get married and Vineet moves out of the Frame

apart from this i dont find any reason for RP to get togethere. I dont know if Ekta Maiyya can justify this in a better way. I wish Karthik n Nats had proposed Ram-Priya for marriage directly than having all this XYZ factors. That would have been more simply n nyc to watch

Originally posted by: Mahi623

 But, how much more interesting would it be if there isn't a problem. If Mr. Perfect is truly perfect. He is the guy that Priya is looking for. And she still doesn't want him. Not because she wants Ram (I am really happy that this thought has not occured to anyone, but Niharika is like only one gossipy society matron away) but because she does not want Mr. Perfect, for all those reasons you mentioned. Lack of challenge, lack of conflict, lack of growth. How does someone perfect grow anyway? And isn't one of the best parts about loving someone(not necessarily romantically) watching them grow and change, and realizing that you love "crayon breaky" Willow and "scary veiny" Willow and all the stuff in the middle.

Mahi, I too hope that there is no real problem with this guy; that he hasn't been brought in by Ram or Niharika or whoever. Simply, there is no pull towards him. Aisa hota hai, real life mein, that you meet people who are lovely and friendly and tick all the boxes...except the one that matters. And you simply cannot give yourself to them fully, because they don't excite you in that way. 

And love how you brought in the Buffy reference 😆 but I do agree with you. Tara and Anya aside, I believe that Willow and Xander were each other's true soulmates. Their friendship went way beyond every thing that had happened to them - despite all their fundamental differences, the only thing that mattered was that he had stolen her Barbie, and she was his yellow crayon Willow 😆

 

 

If Mr. Perfect was indeed molded by Ram, it does seem to show that Ram knows Priya pretty well. But it would mean that Ram was as manipulative as his mother, which seems to go against his character.

 

I have officially let go of the idea that Nuts is clinically insane. She is now just a spoilt little brat who has lived a consequence free life. Also, one who apparently feels no physical pain. *theme from Psycho playing in my head* 

 

Is it me or did i detect a subtle irony in the scene when Niharika says don't mess with Ram's private life? Or am I giving thhe writing staff too much credit? I'm not sure if Niharika is capable of irony 😆 as it is it seems like every word that comes out of her mouth is ironic, only for us to realise she is serious 😆😆