DOTW - 28th march:fragile ego of elders.. (CLOSED) - Page 5

Originally posted by: divi4u

haa d next DOTW SMP pe.....thn i'll lead tht one😳😉

mai bhi bahut kuch likh sakti hu na experiance kab kaam aayga😉😆 but ye sencer se bach lena😆

Originally posted by: madhaviben

mai bhi bahut kuch likh sakti hu na experiance kab kaam aayga😉😆 but ye sencer se bach lena😆

hum kya bole..??? yahan par toh sabne thesis likha hai..mera toh dimaag hi nahi chal raha likhne ko....i will be enjoying reading it..😃

Originally posted by: Tafseer

hum kya bole..??? yahan par toh sabne thesis likha hai..mera toh dimaag hi nahi chal raha likhne ko....i will be enjoying reading it..😃

Originally posted by: divi4u

mera b yahi haal hua tha....k kya likhu....sab toh hai yahan😃

bt i enjoyed reading all this😃

arrey upar se kal se i am having a headache too..neend ki kami yaar...isliye IF par zyada the bhi nahi kal raat se..
abhi raat mein baithke i will read these posts..theek se poora padhe bhi nahi yaar..

Originally posted by: Tafseer

hum kya bole..??? yahan par toh sabne thesis likha hai..mera toh dimaag hi nahi chal raha likhne ko....i will be enjoying reading it..😃

Abhi thesis jaari hai, paper deadline 3rd ko hai. Poori raath baitke padna padega. Kal phir se agar sar dard hogaya tho Kaumadi ko pakdke peeto. I have 2 more pages to read, just pray I don't get started after I read everyone's opinion😆

correction - 4 more pages to read

Originally posted by: Tafseer

arrey upar se kal se i am having a headache too..neend ki kami yaar...isliye IF par zyada the bhi nahi kal raat se..
abhi raat mein baithke i will read these posts..theek se poora padhe bhi nahi yaar..

Akshara has self respect like all of us; but there is one difference between us & her. We will never compromise it. However her threshold for compromise is very high. At what point will she feel that her self respect is being compromised? I would say she will never feel that way coz she feels obligated to suppress that feeling coz her only goal since she got married it to be a perfect bahu. She truly believes it is all about keeping the family happy. She believes as a wife her responsibility is to make sure her husband is well fed, maybe occasional SMP's upon request😕

In the quest to become a perfect bahu she has let everyone trample on her ego, her self esteem. However she is unaware of that fact coz it's not important to her. Her self respect is at the bottom of her list of priorities just like being the perfect patni. She honestly believes that by achieving the perfect bahu status everything else will fall into place & this includes Naitik. What she doesn't realize is that for Naitik this will be a compromise since he is married to her; accept her for who she is. That is exactly what is happening now; he is giving in to her pleas and doing exactly what she wants. In the process his ego is taking a backseat to keep the relationship alive & healthy.

Akshara is changing a little since the batwara & taking care of Naitik's choti choti khwaish but that is temporary coz maa ne usse alag kiya😕 Once she is back with her maa, Naitik again takes a backseat

Originally posted by: Tafseer

hum kya bole..??? yahan par toh sabne thesis likha hai..mera toh dimaag hi nahi chal raha likhne ko....i will be enjoying reading it..😃

Originally posted by: FLGators

Akshara has self respect like all of us; but there is one difference between us & her. We will never compromise it. However her threshold for compromise is very high. At what point will she feel that her self respect is being compromised? I would say she will never feel that way coz she feels obligated to suppress that feeling coz her only goal since she got married it to be a perfect bahu. She truly believes it is all about keeping the family happy. She believes as a wife her responsibility is to make sure her husband is well fed, maybe occasional SMP's upon request😕

In the quest to become a perfect bahu she has let everyone trample on her ego, her self esteem. However she is unaware of that fact coz it's not important to her. Her self respect is at the bottom of her list of priorities just like being the perfect patni. She honestly believes that by achieving the perfect bahu status everything else will fall into place & this includes Naitik. What she doesn't realize is that for Naitik this will be a compromise since he is married to her; accept her for who she is. That is exactly what is happening now; he is giving in to her pleas and doing exactly what she wants. In the process his ego is taking a backseat to keep the relationship alive & healthy.

Akshara is changing a little since the batwara & taking care of Naitik's choti choti khwaish but that is temporary coz maa ne usse alag kiya😕 Once she is back with her maa, Naitik again takes a backseat