DOTW - 28th march:fragile ego of elders.. (CLOSED) - Page 6

Originally posted by: gutky

but now im eagerly waiting for SMP thesis by DIVI...😆 plz i request next dotw shld be related to that topic... she will explore right from the basic concept to the introduction.. its types... its functions.. its merits .. its demerits.. its procedure.. n finally conclusion...🤣

Originally posted by: divi4u

Ab tu pitegi haa Vini😳kya yaar kitna embaress kar diya😳😳😳

n one more thing........ye colour ok hai yaa lite/dark karu😉

hope u gt wht i wanna say

Originally posted by: gutky

the colour is PERFECT... 🤣

EGO - although a three letter word.. engulfs everything that comes in it's way.. all the love.. all the affection vanishes in a second when ego comes into play.. and wat's worst is.. it kills the human in u.. u become unaffected by all that's happening around you.. and ultimately.. it's none other but you and your dear ones at lost..

This is what its doing in case the current track??DJ is doing all the things out of ego only??.on the day of holi whn Naksh wr leaving it was clearly shown from DJ's expressions k he don't want naksh to go?..but he didn't sd anything and remained quiet coz uski so called beech mei aa gayi

1. There's a difference between self-respect and ego.. what is it.?? when daddaji separated naksh.. what do u think came into play then.. his self-respect or his ego.??

Obvs. its his ego?......naksh did everything 4 his respect?.k if police cm in thr house to it will affect DJ ki reputation and he will also feel bad?..but in return wht did he do??.naksh ko alag kar diya?y.y.y?..just bcoz k they are concerned abt u

2. "Confronted by outstanding merit, there is no way of saving one's ego except by love."

how true is this statement in case of naksh.. or akshara in particular.?? is she trying to treat daddaji's and gayatri's bruised ego by love or is she lowering her self respect.. as said by many here.?? what do you think you would have done in this case.??

I feel she is lowering her self respect G3, DJ and BM k piche piche ghoom ke???hmmmm??nice qeus k what would I hv done in this case??..frankly speaking thoda bura toh lagta as hamesha se joinnt fam. Mei rhne ki habit hai??but apni iss freedom ko apne hubby k saath fully enjoy akrti?..woh bh jab hubby naitik jaisa ho??.oh sorry sorry naitik ho😳😳😳

3. what are the possible reasons for daddaji's and other members of singhania's such high standards of ego.. does generation gap have a role to play in it or it's just that since daddaji's authority was never questioned that his ego is so much fragile.??

Exactly??.u urself hs given the ans?.. since daddaji's authority was never questioned that his ego is so much fragile??ab saara ghar sar jhuka k jo bhi who khe de usse maan lega toh budhdha sab se ye expect jkarega?..but he hs to think k now-a-days world is changing and children want thr own space??..n esp when they are married

4. naitik too has ego.. what difference is there in his ego and egos of other family members including nandini.?? how has his ego undergone a change after his marriage to akshara.??

Naitik too has ego I agree n he also hd paid for it in the past??.whn Aksh lv house coz of tht nandu case??.n many more instances??.but he is changing himself with the situaiton??.n even in the batwara tym ,,,,,he is nt like k if they r not talking toh mai bhi aisa hi kaurg???bt he is doing so coz DJ nahi chahte k who kisi se baat kare??..n he is also samjhoing akshara k nw we have to accept the situation

N main Nandu k baare mei kuch nahi bolungi?.grrrrrr😡😡😡

Haa toh kaisa laga mera reply???I knw its nt tht gud?.bt this is just my thinking??n nw tym k u gv me points😛😛

Originally posted by: Tafseer

arrey upar se kal se i am having a headache too..neend ki kami yaar...isliye IF par zyada the bhi nahi kal raat se..
abhi raat mein baithke i will read these posts..theek se poora padhe bhi nahi yaar..

Originally posted by: FLGators

Abhi thesis jaari hai, paper deadline 3rd ko hai. Poori raath baitke padna padega. Kal phir se agar sar dard hogaya tho Kaumadi ko pakdke peeto. I have 2 more pages to read, just pray I don't get started after I read everyone's opinion😆

correction - 4 more pages to read

Originally posted by: divi4u

EGO - although a three letter word.. engulfs everything that comes in it's way.. all the love.. all the affection vanishes in a second when ego comes into play.. and wat's worst is.. it kills the human in u.. u become unaffected by all that's happening around you.. and ultimately.. it's none other but you and your dear ones at lost..

This is what its doing in case the current track??DJ is doing all the things out of ego only??.on the day of holi whn Naksh wr leaving it was clearly shown from DJ's expressions k he don't want naksh to go?..but he didn't sd anything and remained quiet coz uski so called beech mei aa gayi

1. There's a difference between self-respect and ego.. what is it.?? when daddaji separated naksh.. what do u think came into play then.. his self-respect or his ego.??

Obvs. its his ego?......naksh did everything 4 his respect?.k if police cm in thr house to it will affect DJ ki reputation and he will also feel bad?..but in return wht did he do??.naksh ko alag kar diya?y.y.y?..just bcoz k they are concerned abt u

2. "Confronted by outstanding merit, there is no way of saving one's ego except by love."

how true is this statement in case of naksh.. or akshara in particular.?? is she trying to treat daddaji's and gayatri's bruised ego by love or is she lowering her self respect.. as said by many here.?? what do you think you would have done in this case.??

I feel she is lowering her self respect G3, DJ and BM k piche piche ghoom ke???hmmmm??nice qeus k what would I hv done in this case??..frankly speaking thoda bura toh lagta as hamesha se joinnt fam. Mei rhne ki habit hai??but apni iss freedom ko apne hubby k saath fully enjoy akrti?..woh bh jab hubby naitik jaisa ho??.oh sorry sorry naitik ho😳😳😳

3. what are the possible reasons for daddaji's and other members of singhania's such high standards of ego.. does generation gap have a role to play in it or it's just that since daddaji's authority was never questioned that his ego is so much fragile.??

Exactly??.u urself hs given the ans?.. since daddaji's authority was never questioned that his ego is so much fragile??ab saara ghar sar jhuka k jo bhi who khe de usse maan lega toh budhdha sab se ye expect jkarega?..but he hs to think k now-a-days world is changing and children want thr own space??..n esp when they are married

4. naitik too has ego.. what difference is there in his ego and egos of other family members including nandini.?? how has his ego undergone a change after his marriage to akshara.??

Naitik too has ego I agree n he also hd paid for it in the past??.whn Aksh lv house coz of tht nandu case??.n many more instances??.but he is changing himself with the situaiton??.n even in the batwara tym ,,,,,he is nt like k if they r not talking toh mai bhi aisa hi kaurg???bt he is doing so coz DJ nahi chahte k who kisi se baat kare??..n he is also samjhoing akshara k nw we have to accept the situation

N main Nandu k baare mei kuch nahi bolungi?.grrrrrr😡😡😡

Haa toh kaisa laga mera reply???I knw its nt tht gud?.bt this is just my thinking??n nw tym k u gv me points😛😛

Originally posted by: madhaviben

HI kamudi mere marks nahi mile aabtak?😕kuch to dati. i was so exited ke bahut saal ke baad marks milenge or tune mera popat bana diya. school ke din yaad aagaye. koi nahi mai apne aapko mark dedungi. and mujae bhi next dotw smp per chahiye😍😉soch padhneme kitna maza aayegana?

Hey Kaumudi, accept my paper, cut marks for lateness but don't fail me altogether if I appear repeating ...but better late then not...so here's my rent...😕

His display with 'principles' strangely turns into a fig leaf for an egotistic denial to accept an unpleasant, suboptimal position where he'd been forced to accept a temporary help from someone they perceive junior in their relationship. His observation about Naitik's desire to implement modern ideas is not entirely out of base. But to turn that 'detection' into a pretext to bolster his 'disapproval' and then justify his whip was opportunistic. It was more like he wanted to punish them for a long time (since Buaji's hasty departure?) and he seize the opportunity. This take bears out on two scrutinies...1.) If we remember the nature and circumstances of 'help'…it was ad-hoc, discrete and not entirely untold- in fact they had pleaded and even gave up on it earlier. But later on, the circumstances had become alarming. Moreover, now the security and reputation of entire family was on stake, not only Dj's principles or its preservation (again, by its temporary nature, they are not actually violated)... all these plus a dictatorial edict -separating an adult son from his parents...2.)Later on, his spite in everything, - patty isolation in all things- not extending a simple participation on two major occasions where all other social relations are called (significantly not Maheshwaris at beginning, so much for the principled 'equality' status). But children are distinctly made to feel unwelcome or ignored, even when they are looking for token clues. Or worse, now actively inciting a mother against her son! Where ran now the high horse of principles?!

So interpretation is bound to be an egotistic- not principled stand, even though Cvs may not have intended it so. They may yet come up with some hodge podge conjure up that all these were done on some noble motive on his part, like making Nakhs independent, responsible or in a deference to Naitik's ambitions (unlikely though).

ans2...Akshara,

Cvs' Akshara is now irritating. If a growing maturity is their intention, they are messing up badly- unreal and artificial. While I don't want her to be vindictive or rancorous, even as some injustice is done, her abject grief or a complete surrender to something arguably unjust- a feeling of guilt- is a reverse victim psychology not befitting a maturity track. Again, I don't want her to be sulking or uncompromising or a blockading one. But patch up at any cost is like sucking up too much. She could have shown some dignity when not actually at fault. The trouble is- she does think herself at fault. And hence, unbearable squirms and facial twitches (not suiting Hina as an actor either) with floodgate tears. Here is a good scope for showing Dadi's traits but all they are showing is a younger Rajashri delivered untampered. So shaking head at this farce, tasting the patience of viewers....