Why to blame only Nani

hey friends before everybody start throwing eggs on me i want to clarify tht i m not Nani supporter and not defending her😆😆. but whn i was reading some post a thought came in my mind, if people can not only try to understand the main vamp of the show, but supporting her with all means, thn why i sd not try to understand Nani, who is blamed for all crime done by Tapu.😆 first of all Nani is a illiterate, old fashioned, rudhiwadi thakur woman, who born and brought up with teaching tht Naukars r not human being (as we hv seen some example in this forum too), they r born to serve rich peoples. she is taught rit from childhood, thn if Tapu can be justified by the same reasoning thn why not Nani??? becoz she is not young and beautifull and she hs not chemestry with young handsome person😆 wht Nani poisoned to Tapu, tht Ichha is stealing her parents love????? so a lot of people in this forum also thinking so. thn where is Nani wrong. if Nani is wrong thn those who think so also wrong😊. why Nani is Devil????? if only creteria tht if a person doing crime bt she hs feelings thn she is not devil (on this basis Tapu is defended) thn Nani hs also feelings. she really love Tapu and whtever she is doing only for Tapu and not for herself. thn why she is devil and Tapu is not. if u people remember she was against the Masoom plotting case and she scolded his sone for doing so, she was also shocked to hear Tapu attempt to murder plan. thn why blame Nani and defend Tapu. if Nani can b blamed thn those people too who support her by giving same reaoning which Nani used to give. Tapu hd gone far away from Nani in doing crime. i remmber in her post Tiny jiii mentioned tht initially Tapu was not following Nani advice, and was not jealous to Ichha, but it all started whn Ichha developed her own personality and started doing better thn her and was more popular thn her. thn her jelousy started. even whn they grown up her jealousy again started whn Veer started giving more costly gifts and again Ichha started getting more attention. till tht time she was enjoying her friendship. so i think Nani is only a bali ka bakra for defending Tapu crime.
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Absolutely...Tapasya is Naani ki naani, she doesnt need guidance for crimes and criminal activities....she is self sufficient..

ankit....yeah...you are right....nani is old fashioned lady who believes that servants are menial creatures who are bound to serve their masters.....but tapasya???....she is educated...earlier tapasya was fond of ichcha but when ichcha started becoming popular, tappu got jealous....i admit that that phase comes in everyones life....here nani tried to force her values on tapasya.....agreed nani is responsible to some extent......but nani didnt teach her to plot murders.......yes nani is to be blamed but even tapasya's crimes cant be washed cuz she was influenced by nani......


btw....nani does have someone to romance....but she doesnt give it a try...

@ankit111

Here is my take on this.

I condone anything that either Nani or Tapasya did . Inciting a child is as bad as committing the crime.For me as a mother the early formative years of a child are the most important years for teaching values and Nani need not have liked D and Ichcha but to fill a child's (Tapasya) head with all those stories and specially an unstable child as we saw. Not good. Nani fuelled every insecurity that Tapasya had until it became an all consuming hatred and this was not helped by T watching Jogi give so much love to Ichcha not that Jogi ignored her but in her twisted mind that is how she saw it.
Ichcha and Tapasya were friends even if it was a long time ago and Nani was the one who changed that relationship.

Also if Nani is not guilty of incitement then by that analogy we must excuse Tapasya for inciting Vansh. (Nani was a willing player in all of the tamasha between, Vansh, Ichcha and Veer). Frankly I cannot excuse either of them.Maybe Nani may not have stooped to actually committing murder.
Illiterate she may be but my goodness for an illiterate person her mind works super fast when it comes to making trouble.

I neither defend Tapasya whose actions have been indefensible for me nor can I excuse Nani's role in all this. Where did the love for Tappu go when Tapasya was being thrown out ???? Nani was only thinking of her own comfort just as she was when she found out the her son was the troublemaker. Her first thought was Jogi would throw them all out.Maybe in her own way Tapasya is the only one she loves but whereas I wouldn't go to the extreme of calling her the Devil she certainly is very twisted.

Both Nani and Tapu were equal patners in crimes b4 but Tapy baby has gone past her Mentor and as we know many of her evil deeds even surprised Nani (who was not even aware of them) 😆

Originally posted by: shyams

Both Nani and Tapu were equal patners in crimes b4 but Tapy baby has gone past her Mentor and as we know many of her evil deeds even surprised Nani (who was not even aware of them) 😆

No doubt about that but once you have created someone so negative then who knows where that negativity will spiral off to. Yes I agree that Nani was not aware but she is not really the last word on upbringing - look at her own son.

@groucho- i m firm believer of everybody responsible for their own action. and i m not justifying any way Nani. thts why i added ONLY nani word in my title. but my problem is tht why to blame for all Tapu crime to Nani, if Tapu is poisoned by Nani thn Nani was also brought up with such ideology. in real life u will find a lot of Nani around u. if there was Nani to poisoned, there was Jogi too to give gd Sanskar. its Tapu choice to choose between thm. even now, after suffering so much a normal people wd hv learn lesson and repented, but Tapu choose only negative things out of it to increase her hatred against Ichha. if Nani was poisoning Tapu by saying tht Ichha is snatching her parent love thn wht r doing a lot of people in this forum. they r also saying the same. thn wht is difference between thm.😉

Originally posted by: ankit111

@groucho- i m firm believer of everybody responsible for their own action. and i m not justifying any way Nani. thts why i added ONLY nani word in my title. but my problem is tht why to blame for all Tapu crime to Nani, if Tapu is poisoned by Nani thn Nani was also brought up with such ideology. in real life u will find a lot of Nani around u. if there was Nani to poisoned, there was Jogi too to give gd Sanskar. its Tapu choice to choose between thm. even now, after suffering so much a normal people wd hv learn lesson and repented, but Tapu choose only negative things out of it to increase her hatred against Ichha. if Nani was poisoning Tapu by saying tht Ichha is snatching her parent love thn wht r doing a lot of people in this forum. they r also saying the same. thn wht is difference between thm.😉

I have no issues with your POV because there is a lot of sense in what you are saying. For me, I am judging this serial as I have seen it. Yes Tapu could have chosen the right path but you and I know there would have been no serial if that had happened.

Forgetting that for a moment, unfortunately due to circumstances Jogi could not spend as much time as Nani did with Tapasya probably that is why Nani's influence was more and the character of Tapasya filled with the beginnings of jealousy and hatred chose to go with Nani's influence.

I am not really influenced too much on what others say as each one has his own view.This is my reading.

Originally posted by: groucho

I have no issues with your POV because there is a lot of sense in what you are saying. For me, I am judging this serial as I have seen it. Yes Tapu could have chosen the right path but you and I know there would have been no serial if that had happened.

Forgetting that for a moment, unfortunately due to circumstances Jogi could not spend as much time as Nani did with Tapasya probably that is why Nani's influence was more and the character of Tapasya filled with the beginnings of jealousy and hatred chose to go with Nani's influence.

I am not really influenced too much on what others say as each one has his own view.This is my reading.