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Originally posted by: Surbhi123

hey surbhi such a pleasant change to see a topic actually discussing something very much needed on this forum and would love to add here sweetie thanks for this 😊

1) Is being a mayurian or a sajanian means that we need to hate the other couple ?????????????????????

i wont lie i love SaJan insanely but i have nothing against MayUr - a show even when revolving around a single lead couple's story is never solely about them - take example of Yeh rishta... my mom watches it - but it isnt just about the pair naitik akshara there - families and other couples are also prominent

2) Just to save or defend our favourite characters , is it right to use offensive language towards a real member of the forum ?????

i have never done something of this manner and hence my stand on this is clear - i do not feel that if someone has done something distasteful i should repeat the act - instead i think the REPORT button is useful for the purpose

3) Is it right to give names to a person or community hurting the sentiments just because your pov differs ??????

never - i simply believe in 1 thing - if i cannot agree with you i shall let you be - i dont believe in bullying or bashing - nor do i take it either . everyone is diff and so are their POV' its not imp we agree 100% - but its imp we stay civilized about it though

4) What is the criteria for u being a fan , that you will ignore all the faults done by your favs ???????

no - when needed i have made topics where i have really vented my frustration too - the last one i remember was called - Critic's Spl - when the random romance was popped up - i believe in sensibility and hence - i voiced my displeasure

5) Do you think that fighting is any solution ????

nope - and not certainly for a show - i mean common its silly to fight over a FICTITIOUS show and characters ... or even actors we may love them - but some people aren't fans - they are fanatics - i believe there should be a difference

6) Is it important to cross our limits just because someone crossed his/her limits first . Tell me if you too crossed . What is the difference b/w you and him/her ??????

exactly surbhi - why go to the same level - plain ignore report and move - cos some people choose to fight to gain attention as well - they aren't voicing opinions rather looking for a reason to gain attention

7) I know everyone is biased towards his/her favourite but cant we even try to be less biased , try to understand other's pov ??????

i agree surbhi its human to be biased - but i also believe in tolerance - i dont try to force my opinion on others - nor do i think if someone else has a POV diff to me he/she is wrong at one go - everyone should be allowed to enjoy their own tastes

8 ) Everyone on the forum keeps on saying that sajan are always bashed or mayur are always bashed and that;s pathetic. But did u ever noticed that sometimes u are the one yourself bashing the other coupler . So tell me what should be done with u at that time ?????

I love SaJan and enjoy them - i choose to have some time with my friends discussing what we liked/disliked then waste my time over silly arguments
surbhi i can say i have never bashed mayur - cos i honestly feel that i should'nt hurt anyone else just for a momentary pleasure

9) Just because we are a fan of a couple , we cant comment on the faults of other one , everyone scared doing that . Is this right ???????

i certainly dont think the problem is citing the fault surbhi - its simply sometimes the language used which is the problem - or at times mere ridicule or mockery which is - the fault if genuine and raised - i dont think the fans of the other couple will jump at you if you put your POV sensibly without hurting their feelings - like i rem i myself had asked a ques when S2 began - how could mayank be an engineer and design car when he is a commerce student ? i had got replies from many MN fans including Preeti - the mod - no one was abusive or angry with me - in fact even Preeti said she too had a laugh over this and was confused wondering the same thing

10) Dont healthy discussions look good on forum ????

of course it'd be so nice to see people not jumping their guns and enjoying peacefully - i dont even think its a problem honestly to open a topic about the other couple - if your intentions are good - cos i have made SGMN topics as and when i have felt too .. people should remember being educated and cultured - liberty of speech should be used not abused

Originally posted by: Surbhi123

<font color="#6600ff" size="7">Some questions for my sweet friends.......

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<strong><font color="#cc0066" size="4">1) Is being a mayurian or a sajanian means that we need to hate the other couple ?????????????????????</font>

i know! i am a mayurian but that doesnt mean i dont love sajan!

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</div>2) Just to save or defend our favourite characters , is it right to use offensive language towards a real member of the forum ?????

once again no. i wish it would stop... at least its better here than other places...

3) Is it right to give names to a person or community hurting the sentiments just because your pov differs ??????

agreed!






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4) What is the criteria for u being a fan , that you will ignore all the faults done by your favs ???????

is it important to fight over it? i mean i get it cuz some just take it to heart but must we fight over it?

5) Do you think that fighting is any solution ????

look above

6) Is it important to cross our limits just because someone crossed his/her limits first . Tell me if you too crossed . What is the difference b/w you and him/her ??????

lol...i probably have but not here.. lol.. i just like both jodi's too much to chose.

7) I know everyone is biased towards his/her favourite but cant we even try to be less biased , try to understand other's pov ??????

ya and if not then cant we try n not comment n start a fight

8 ) Everyone on the forum keeps on saying that sajan are always bashed or mayur are always bashed and that;s pathetic. But did u ever noticed that sometimes u are the one yourself bashing the other coupler . So tell me what should be done with u at that time ?????

stop n breath..lol

9) Just because we are a fan of a couple , we cant comment on the faults of other one , everyone scared doing that . Is this right ???????

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10) Dont healthy discussions look good on forum ????

ya!

<font color="#3333cc">i really want these questions to be answered by each and every member of the forum and i bet if all the people who answer gave the answers from their heart and will follow what they said............our forum can be back to what it was .......the unity , the friendship , the respect for the actors and the respect for each other have been lost somewhere in the forum........but let me tell..........it was us who make the forum what it was and its us who make the forum wehat it is.........and when we have make it like this.........than we are the one who can take it back to what it was ......i always keep on saying that i miss the old forum.......but never tried to bring it back........but have decided now to bring it back.,and i need your help guys.........this is my first step..</font>

<font color="#3399ff">mods - please dont close this topic ......i beg u...but yup it become a bashing topic than u can close.......but i promise i will not let it be that........trust me </font>

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Originally posted by: Surbhi123

guys me off for sometime.............will reply to the comments after coming back..........

and dolly...........jhappis..........big one............its really nice to see u here.........waise bhi maine banai tune banai kya farak padhta hain ..right jaan .........

i will reply back to you after coming back jaan........😛.

Originally posted by: Senny

Very good post Surbhi. People need to respect and let others freely discuss without a fans label. Thats it from my side. I love discussing aram se with no verbal war going on!