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surbhi the prob is that no one understands here dear...sajanians will say mayur r wrong and mayurians will say sajanians wrong..both will never cooperate

Originally posted by: Mohitlicious

I know dear..that i never ever reply to such posts...bt sometime..when i get angry too much..i cant control my self..i have to reply to such posts...I have tried many a times...i know we should nt hurt nybody...bt its better we should keep calm nd let other drool over them,....
I would like to say that...when ever a new article abt SG/MS is posted...always thr is some or other to bash..when MN/AR article we check that article nd keep quite....
bt its nt thr wid us na....then we wil obviously defend MS/SG na

dear its not like that............its just you are seeing it from a sgian pov.........dear the same goes on with arti articles.........sgians do come and comment there.........it can be that u dont comment but not all are like u ......we need to understand...........that both the groups are equally at fault............taali ek haath se nahi bajti.........even i can start defending mayurians here........but i know its not only mn topics which get ruined.........same goes with sg topics too........

Originally posted by: Mohitlicious

shit man..!!! i m talking too much yaar...what has happen to me😛😆😆

no its ok.......i liked your talking.........and all the probs are solved whern we all talk and discuss our pov........

Originally posted by: stuti123

u see surbhi this is the problem on this forum people never accept their faults how clearly they say .... it always mayur/ArTi fans who bash .... u see for uself ............fine i agree datMN fans do bash but dat doesnt mean SG fans are lessin any way ..... when Rati was removed from the show you remermber how she was ridiculed by someg fans dat she deserved it nd blah nd blah ............ but no some ll always come to say dat its always us who strat bashing whereas sg fans are sooooo very innocent they never bash na ........ dats y i was telling u this forum ll never learn .........

exactly............have seen this many times..........that when asked why were u bashing .........the direct answer comes that others start bashing first .........ask them but my question why defending ur favs means .bashing others ????????? whats the difference than b/w you and those who start bashing ???????? Does your fault is less than those who started bashing ????????? the answer is a big no from me.........we need to realise our faults and work on them..........we come here to get stress free .........to enjoy.........but we have actually start taking stress from here.........these fights sometimes hurts the sentiments badly........thats not fair.....

exactly sur i am just finally feeling positive k yeh topic age old problem solve karde

dolly ji mujhy bhi reply kar dia krein

Originally posted by: chilluppp

dolly ji mujhy bhi reply kar dia krein

will b really thankful

tumhary update k lie bhi wait krna parta hy n for ur reply too

n surbhi kaha tak pohnchy ur stuggle for establishing peace???

omg i cant beleive i actually forgot it

Originally posted by: Surbhi123

dear its not like that............its just you are seeing it from a sgian pov.........dear the same goes on with arti articles.........sgians do come and comment there.........it can be that u dont comment but not all are like u ......we need to understand...........that both the groups are equally at fault............taali ek haath se nahi bajti.........even i can start defending mayurians here........but i know its not only mn topics which get ruined.........same goes with sg topics too........

and dear defending has many ways...........i do defend my favs but you cant found a comment from me talking wrong about other couple........defending can be done in others way too..........just passing instigating comments on the other couple and insulting them is not the only option left.....if oine cant ignore........reply in such a manner than your favs get defended and no one is offended....

yup...i knw..bt we cant change each & every one...bt I still believe...we just should try to ignore...bt the limit is crossed then no body cn tolerate....

Originally posted by: Surbhi123

no its ok.......i liked your talking.........and all the probs are solved whern we all talk and discuss our pov........😛

aww...u liked my talk....thnk u thnk u😉
actually..i dont talk much....nd when i saw all my post here...I was like😲 I talked so much...😆😆

Originally posted by: aysha1010

Brilliant topic Surbhi!!! 👏 Thanks a tone for your support........

The forum has been divided into Mayurian's and Sajanian's and I doubt anything can change that anymore. Yup it has been been divided..........but it can be changed back.........as fights and bashing are never planned .........they just happen.........and if we come to know the reasons and try to control sometimes..........avoid passsing side remarks or instigating comments............these fights will be far away from our forum..............

I myself was an"MJHTian" earlier, still preffered SG, but I enjoyed the whole show. But I can't say the same now. The forum fights became a big reason for my disinterest in MN, apart from their tracks. that is what ...........dear people are loosing interset in the couple because of the forum fights...........which is not done..........because if we fight .......its not actors fault.........but i know its human behaviour but then too we can avoid this..........me too mjhtian.............and these fights on the forum never affected my likeness towards sg............because they are not bad at their work.......its wrong hating actors just because of some comments of the actors fan base........i still have that respect for sg in me..........yup i call myself a mayurian.......because my liking towards mayur is much much more..........but i never hated sajan..........never..........

About bashing a real person over this show. That's pathetic. People have different opinions; let them be. You don't HAVE to make them agree to you, do you??!! I don't understand why its so hard to respect someone's point of view?? [I'm not talking about people who bash an actor/character/person!] This nothing dear.........side remarks are passed on the whole fan base ........by some people and thats awful..........why cant we respect others pov and if we cant respect..........why cant we ignore........and about bashing a real person.........i dont know what is this actually for........are real persons less important than the actors whom we even dont know much personally.....and if we wanna defend our favs.........than there are other ways too......i always defend mayur but you will never found any one my comment talking wrong about sg.........because defending your favs can be done in other ways,........and its high time......we all should start understanding this by now.....

And the one thing that irritates me the most, is the fact that people are not even trying to respect the other couple. Either do that or just ignore them. I can understand a few fights once in a while but there are a few fights EVERY week. 😕Exactly respecting others view is not that difficult.........we all are taught about respecting others from our childhood by our parents but no one applies it here..........instead of fights arguments and discussions should be there.......if we cant ignore ....they are way better than these fights which will end up hurting u only...........

And about criticizing the other couple, being an "SGian" I have noticed quite a few "criticisms" by "MNians" that can easily be termed as "bashing". In my opinion! I'm not someone who can praise an actor "no matter what they do". There have been a lot of instances where Mohit's acting has disappointed me, but that doesn't mean I have to bash him for that does it?! According to me , criticising is not bad............if we love someone.........we should criticise the person when at faults........because we criticise only those whom we love actually and we are here to suggest cvs.......if we will not criticise .......than it means we are not letting cvs know that we are not liking....and i think criticising by mnians and sgians is completely ok...........because all have the right to speak..........and no one is here to show their hate towards the actors here......... ....

Moreover I don't get the point of getting into pointless fights. And I call them "pointless" because no matter what you say, the other person's opinion is not going to change. There have been so many posts that make me angry enough to want write a big lecture against them. But it takes only sometime to calm down and think that it's seriously not worth my time to write one big lecture that is going to be read negatively and lead to even more fights!! And that's exactly what happens!! I second u on this....but sometimes those lectures actually helps to solve the situation..........acts as a life saver for the post..........and dear i think sometimes discussioons do change the povs ........if they are healthy ones..........

And your sixth question!! 👏 That's exactly what makes a "comment" different from a "fight"!! I know its hard to ignore someone who is being so rude to your favorite but you don't have to bash his/her favorite because of that! That's only going to make things worse!! And it won't leave any difference between you and the person who has bashed your favorite.Yup thats what i wanna say.....thanks for adding to my efforts..........

I actually pity the actual "MJHTians", though I doubt there are any left anymore. The "MJHT" forum is definitely not the place for them!! No it will be for them for sure............if we all unite........

I know this post actually turned out to be from a "SGian's" point of view and I'm actually contradicting your post because of that, and that's where I'm wrong too. We always see "the other person's" mistake but never our own. I dont think it was all from sgian point of view...........it was from a mjht forum mrmber and i love u for that

I feel it is still possible for this forum to be peaceful again, if EVERYONE tries to respect the other's opinion and their preferences. So as a start from my side, I apologise to anyone and everyone who I might have hurt unintentionally. 😳Awwwwww this was really sweet of you.........and i am happy that you stand with me for restoring the peace of the forum..........

If I have hurt anyone with this post, I'm sorry. I honestly didn't mean to. 😳 I request you all not to bash. Disagreement is welcome!! 😊No need od sorry and i loved answering your comment........thanks once again for the support and for sharing your pov..............