Originally posted by: sowmya_jairam
Hey all, I'm a newbie here and have only started watching DMG recently due to the interesting conversations in the forum in recent times. But I think I've understood crux of the story. Though I'm sure its been to death many times over, I would like to state my own opinion. Personally, I would leave both Sid and Armaan. I couldn't be with a person who takes my decisions for me "for my own good" Cmon, if I'm ready to fall in love, I'm also ready to take my own decisions. I understand he did it so that she wouldn't be saddled with him, but arent they supposed to be doctors? Cant they "take a break", try geting treated, see how it goes. Though the sentiment is admirable, I would have despised it if my boyfriend abandoned me for any reason, especially if its for my own good. I can decide what's good for me, thank you very much. The worse part of it though was when he left her to die when she found him. He might have seen Sid and that she would be taken care of, but I would have made sure that she was good before taking off again. And Riddhima, whatever she's done with not trusting Armaan and all that, I have no idea. But I think she did love him to the best of her ability and when tried her best to find him and finally consumed poison, I think she "burnt it out of her system. I think everybody has a threshold, a limit to where you can push yourself. Once you cross that threshold, you know that you've done the best you can do and its time to move on. You just don't feel it with the same intensity and urgency once you blow of the steam. Maybe, her love was not as great as Armaan's, but we all love and live differently, and she loved Armaan the best way she knew.
Coming to Sid, I liked it when he stood by Riddhima in everything, agreed to marry her even though he knew she probably would never love him and he was destroying his life. I didn't like him so much when he abused her in front of his friends, but I could understand where he was coming from. He did soften as soon as he got the hint that their "relationship" was really a relationship to Riddhima also, not a burden. I also liked it when he gave Riddhima the chance and the right to make her own decision. He just went too far with it. The last mockery of his wife in front of the entire hospital and his friends was definitely not done. Why couldn't he have suggested that Riddhima take a few days off and think about everything instead of allowing the public circus with his mom as the ringmaster, him being a silent spectator?.
In the end, if I were in Riddhima's shoes, I would be pissed off with both the men in my life and get the hell out of Sanjeevani and start a new life someplace else. Afterall, it seems like these doctors just have to walk the corridors of a hospital to become a doctor. Seriously though, if I had to accept one man, it would be Siddhant. He stood by her when she needed him, and they are married, and they seemed to start having feelings for each other. Peace out,
SJ
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