The other side of shahid and kareena's breakup

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Lee Min Ho

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Posted: 16 years ago

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i had been a huge huge fan of shahid kareena..so when they broke up i was vry upset.😔.. n shahid is my favorite...but still i never believed that only kareena was responsible for this breakup..i had read umpteen interviews of both shahid n kareena where it was clear that both loved each other dearly😭..so idont blame he entirely r..but still i donno why i cant stop muself frm hating her.. maybe because she came out with saif just days after her n shahid's break up was out in the public...

see wat i believe is dat they split becuse both had problems..not only shahid or only kareena..

see about all the media attack on kareena..if she goes out with sumone just after she has broken up..then obviously tongues will starrt wagging..dats entirely her fault...😉

see there is no reason for me to believe all theis u have written.. because there have been mpteen articles where they said that shahid was damn depressed...i believe where u say dat maybe shahid wasnot giving enough atttention to his relationship when needed..he probably took every thing for grantedn he didnt realise he n kareena wered drifting apart. he was heartbroken when he was shooting for KK...n kareena in the absence of shahid had saif as an emotional support.. n then she must have fell in love with him..whe nshahid came tio know abt the rumours in India.. he must be upset..n dats why hwe canclled his plans for kareena's bday..when he came back to india they had their official break up....n then kareena started goin out with saif publicly...thiis must have made shahid realise wat really has happened..n he must have stated with cigarrates n all..but then it was too late...i personally thing when kareena loved shahid so much she should have given their relationship another chance..but then dats destiny..i like shahid-PC jodi much better...

n ya dat stuff abt shahid cheating on shahid n aleinating kareena is rubbish ...kareena created her own allies/....

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Lee Min Ho

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Posted: 16 years ago

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n i sort of agree with farislove n qwww.. i hated saif ali khan from the time he left his wife for rosa.. inssteaad f having such baseless rumours of shahid cheating n all..u can read umpteen amrita"s interviews after their divorce...there is no reason for me to like saif after those interviews serously.. there is just no comparision between shahid n saif...

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Posted: 16 years ago

#33

Personally, I'm tired of their breakup stories that are floating around, but this does bring about a fresh perspective. I hold Shahid responsible only for sitting around with a depressed face, and the "No comments" sign up, while Kareena was painted as the vamp! He never tried to clear that up. I understand maybe the breakup was hard for him, but I still don't see why he could never clear things upp.

P.S - I like Shahid and Kareena both. Not that I'm a huge fan of them both, but I just like them.

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Lee Min Ho

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Posted: 16 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: desigal90
Just for the record, I dont blame shahid for hte breakup. he might have been responsible, it might have been her, or better yet, incompatiblitiy. But I do hold him responsible for the way kareena received all the flak afterwards. And I stated that in my earlier post.
Was it wrong that they broke up? Not necesarrily, ppl break up all the time? Could it be kareena's fault? Most certainly, why not? Coud it be shahid's? Yes could be? Or better yet, could it be the factor of incompatiblity resurfacing after kareena stopped moulding herself to suit him or started finding their midns working in different ways? Yeah. Was it wrong? No, because it could happen to anyone.

Was it wrong that she was painted the villain and now has hate sites dedicated to her for dumping shahid? YES

THAT is certainly wrong. From all perspectives, that is wrong. Kareean took a huge hit to her reputation. God is with this girl coz she's reachign great heights in her career mashallah , and thank god for JWM. She has fans on the sole basis of her talent. Coz if people went for her perceptions offscreen, she would nto survive a moment in the industry. JWM majorly bailed her out, otherwise the way she was projected during the break up competely shook up her fan base. I know so many fans who desserted her coz htey all fell under that same perception. If fans can dessert her, than obviously, neutral bystanders woudl believe it without a doubt.

well in every shahid interview i have read did u ever find him insulting kareena or something..he alwaz maintained that why they broke up was their personal matter..h he stll respects kareena.. .so wats the point in blaiming him...if u have to blame nyone then itz only the media which cooked up stupid allegations..but kareeena sort of encouraged them by publicly goin out with saif..then itz her fault only that she was blamed for every thing...

one more thing..do u mean to say dat shahid has fans because of the sympathy factor n kareena only on talent ?? lemme tell u sahid was spot on in every movie he has starred..n if u see kareena'S movies like khushi then weell RIP.... i agree kareena has evolved as an actress.. but still u cant say sum thing like dat..she was gud in JWM..n she got appreciation for that..but shahid was as good as her..but he didnyt get many awards because in the age og shahrukh n hrithik..wellu cant relly expect to win...

ya but if they both come out n explain why they relly broke up then they would do us alot of favour..u say shahid should have clearred her name..but then in kareena"s interviews alsao she went in circles" ididnt dump anyone".. iwont be vry tough to elaborate this n clear all those misunderstandings if shahid doesntt do so..for reasons i dont know..or maybe they r too personal to know..but all those things dat enjoyed havig kareena in trouble over this...i mean come on grow up how tacky is that..??😕

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Aaliya

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Posted: 16 years ago

#35

The media portrayal of Kareena didn't help her cause either. She was definitely shown in a bad light and the fact that she moved on with Saif, well that was also used against her. Personally speaking, I think it's very unfair for anyone to place blame on Kareena alone because at the end of the day, the truth remains between her and Shahid. We can only speculate and naturally we will all have our own opinions. But I do feel that Kareena was unfairly treated and demonized. It's often the woman that is shown as the evil one!

I like Shahid a lot and he seems like a level-headed guy. But it's not right to say that he is a victim and that Kareena is the culprit. What happens between two people can never really be understood by outsiders, which we all are!

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Aaliya

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: farislove

desigal90, as far I can see u r a Kareena fan, but it doesn't mean that Shahid is the one to blame, nor anyone has the right to discuss their personal life in public, coz it's very personal, I don't know who is the one to blame, but I don't think it's only Shahid, it'ds even Kareena I would say, coz if she trusted the one she loved, she would not doubt him for having relationship with anyone else, as far I can see, she was the first one who moved on with someone else (Saif), but Shahid til date didn't announce officially that he is dating anyone, if he is dating anyone or cheating on Kareena, he would run so far to that girl once that break up happend.......

One thing more, why u didn't make on consideration the articles came against Kareena?, they were far away much than these posts u posted, Shahid started smoking after his break up with Kareena, thought he gave up smoking now, but he was very disturbed, not only articles, but u could even see it on his interviews, even when they went both to Nach Baliye 3 to promote their film (Jab We Met), it's cleary that Shahid is the one who feel sad about the break up, not Kareena at all..........

Would he ever do all this if he doesn't care?........

I think the fact seen on these interviews are much clear.........

I respect your opinions but I have to disagree! No matter how much we adore our favourite celebrities, we don't really know how they are truly feleing and what state of mind they are in. I don't think any of us can say how much Shahid was effected and how little Kareena was or the other way around. ANd none of us can measure pain and how much something hurts a person....

And let us not always look at things at the surface. If Shahid looked sad during that period then maybe he was genuinely hurt. But we cannot say that Kareena was not effected by it. I risk the chance of repeating myself but I have to say it, that none of us know the depths of it. We are all looking at it on the surface.

Yes we all have opinions but sometimes I feel that we tend to think we know everything about our celebrities. And I'm guilty of that as well. The part I highlighted in bold is a classic example of that.

For me, I blame neither because unless I can read their minds (which I can't of course!) I cannot place blame on either of them.

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: qwww

Dont really care about who broke it up or why since both have said it was a mutual decision.
But how can you compare a person who has dated 3 girls to Saif who dumped his wife and 2 kids for whatever reason ? Then parade a hot italian girl friend everywhere and then dump her too conveniently when he set his eyes on someone else.
Shahid maybe the devil in disguise sure but to compare him and Saif in terms of relationship is streching it too far. Do you know how many women Saif has dated ?Sorry but No in this aspect they are not the same.
Also if Shahid's fans are posting slanderous things about Kareena on the web - you being a Kareena fan are also doing almost the same thing right by pullinghim down? Just my opinion no offense meant
You have every right to do this tho but I just think you should'nt complain about people slandering Kareena when you do the same about Shahid.

Completely agree...Morover I will take the topic poster's advice nt to comment if one is tired of reading this break up stuff & their reasons....I like both still Shahid a lil more...It is clear both have moved on with their life..So I will be satisfied thinking Kareena has already found happiness in her chosen life & soon Shahid will find his share too....& to ppl badmouthing Shahid I wud like to say plzz leave him alone!

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Please note that I could care less about Kareena or Shahid or Saif for that matter. I don't consider them credible actors. Never been a fan of any of these, so I'm not leaning on any one's side. Yes, the media was wrong in demonizing Kareena because she got into a rebound relationship. Not her fault, we all deal with breakups differently. It was her way of dealing with it. While Shahid on the other hand chose to stay single. That's his way of dealing with it. It could have been his fault or her fault or the relationship just soured over time. I don't know. Unless both of them come out and say it together what exactly was the reason(which we doubt), the sources you post are all SPECULATIONS and not FACTS.

Therefore, desigal, I don't think I am going to take this post seriously because admittedly you're a blind Kareena fan. And those sources are hardly credible (they are based on hearsay). two of them are your friends, one is an anonymous IF member. Fabricated or otherwise, or maybe you imagined this whole scenario. With the obsession you have for Kareena, it is possible. No disrespect meant, I am just analyzying your rationale for posting this on here after 2 years especially now it seems that Shahid is rumoured to be with PC and most people want that for him and happy for him.Maybe you want Kareena to be happy but at the same time you think Shahid, her ex has no right to be happy because in your mind, he dumped her?

And God girl you feel your blood boiling when people say stuff about Kareena on the INTERNET?! That is really not healthy. You have a very bizarre obsession for her. Go to a psychologist, I mean that in the gentlest possible way. Its one thing to adore a celebrity but completely another to go psychopathic about them. Not healthy for you since you have not even met her! I mean no offense BTW. If I did I'd have ridiculed this post and torn it to shreads. 😳

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Posted: 16 years ago

#39

As I said in my first post in this topic, we dont know this people personally & even if we do we wont know completely what went wrong. Lets stop second guessing & speculating.

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Originally posted by: *Aaliya*

I respect your opinions but I have to disagree! No matter how much we adore our favourite celebrities, we don't really know how they are truly feleing and what state of mind they are in. I don't think any of us can say how much Shahid was effected and how little Kareena was or the other way around. ANd none of us can measure pain and how much something hurts a person....

And let us not always look at things at the surface. If Shahid looked sad during that period then maybe he was genuinely hurt. But we cannot say that Kareena was not effected by it. I risk the chance of repeating myself but I have to say it, that none of us know the depths of it. We are all looking at it on the surface.

Yes we all have opinions but sometimes I feel that we tend to think we know everything about our celebrities. And I'm guilty of that as well. The part I highlighted in bold is a classic example of that.

For me, I blame neither because unless I can read their minds (which I can't of course!) I cannot place blame on either of them.

I didn't said that Kareena is not effected, but in this topic as far I see is Shahid to blame, which I find wrong when people don't know the truth, I just included the facts that even Kareena is to blame, not only Shahid........

We r not living with them, we have no right to say Shahid is to blame or Kareena, but I would say both.......

About what I said, Kareena her self said in (Koffe With Karan) when she was with Shahid there that she is jealous of one girl, who is Shahid's co-star, there was clear she was pointing at Amrita Rao that time, after the release of Vivah and it's success, if she has some trust on the person she loves, she would not say anything like this, coz she knows well that he has been linked up with Amrita Rao since the begin of his career, even before she started dating him, before people used to link up Amrita Rao with him after the release of his debut film with her (Ishq Vishk).........