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Posted: 19 years ago
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What is the matter with these women? why are they doing all this. I would love to be in thr place, nothing to worry about and staying home and not having to worry about how to handle your life. they have ppl taking care of them.

what rigts do they need? i would love to do what they do at home all day and its not like they are forbiden to go out, they can go out and have fun!

bottom like, i would love to stay home and take care of my husband and kids.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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well.....they have no rights to ask any questions..and stuff but every1 has a different point of view soo....ur not wrong and neither are the women in the show!! 😳 😃
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Posted: 19 years ago
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well there is more to a life then people taking care of you. they work all day / night however thier husbands have no respect for them. they have no say in the house. they can't wear what they want go out without asking all the male in the family. they are not even allow to go out to meet the parents without having to ask someone. most impt. they are not given credit for anything specially hus never say anything in front of their father mshah. mabye you would enjoy this kind of life because most of the time they have negtive stuff.. having money is not everything having someone to share and having some one to respect you is much better thing.. what do you think..
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: sandeepkaur

well there is more to a life then people taking care of you. they work all day / night however thier husbands have no respect for them. they have no say in the house. they can't wear what they want go out without asking all the male in the family. they are not even allow to go out to meet the parents without having to ask someone. most impt. they are not given credit for anything specially hus never say anything in front of their father mshah. mabye you would enjoy this kind of life because most of the time they have negtive stuff.. having money is not everything having someone to share and having some one to respect you is much better thing.. what do you think..

Well said Sandeep. Even I would love to stay home and take care of my family but not by keeping my self respect on the side. If my husband wants a favour from me he needs to ask for it politely. If I feel that he is ordering me I never do it. Men in Shah household think that it is their birth right to rule their women because they go out to make money. What about all the work the women do at home and still the men get all the credit. It is not that the women are protesting against staying at home, they are protesting to be treated like a human being since they too have feelings, self respect and ego which is hurt by those men every minute.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I guess we all have our ways to look at things. I on the other side would love to be home and no have to worry about anything like the women in the show.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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according to me, man or woman, being at home or office doesnot matter,all one need is appreciation for their work and efforts.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: simi1295

I guess we all have our ways to look at things. I on the other side would love to be home and no have to worry about anything like the women in the show.

We are also forgetting the fact that women in the Shah house are not even allowed to make their careers. Remember, Hetal wanted to become an astronaut and Mansukh Shah did not allow it. I am a career-minded woman and my dad and thankfully, my husband always support me all the way......

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Posted: 19 years ago
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very well said u guys! I agree that the women should get credit for their very important roles in the household.
However, the way these women are trying to make the 2 brothers fight is wrong. I don't think they should do that and i don't rele c the point in that either... 🤢
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Posted: 19 years ago
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would you really also like having a father in law tat believes you are vulnerable and weaK? tat you would be nothing widout men?wat if you wanted to work and he dint l et you? wat if you werent even given credit for the work you do? and women need rights, bc hell o this isthe 21st century not acient times !
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: simi1295

I guess we all have our ways to look at things. I on the other side would love to be home and no have to worry about anything like the women in the show.

its so easy to say this...thank you would love to be home and taking care of the home and kids. heck i said that. and now that i am living it.. i am kinda sick of it! but, you would have to be in the situation to form a true opinion of that life. i gaurantee that if you had no respect from your husband and his whole family came before you, you would hate it too and feel as bad as these women in the drama do.

but you are intitled to feel the way you do. i personally feel that house is so cold. you dont get an inviting feeling when you sit in that house.😭

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