Update for Wed,04.01.12 - GP takes lead!! - Page 7

Originally posted by: jinju

Shubba, good points. But from the beginning she doesn't socialize with anyone outside her family. She has no friends. I mean nobody knows she is an orphan. So it cannot be because of her inferiority complex alone.

Perhaps her problem is inborn - she was not even stable right from the beginning - showering so much of attention to TA - getting him pizza for lunch (enough to feed his office) and even suggested she would send him food everyday from a restaurant if TA is not used to fast food. Idhu ellam thevaya??😲

Originally posted by: jinju

Exactly!! As I said earlier whole GW family is hypocricy personified including TA.

he did but same time he later said he would be happy to eat if granny made them at his home but same time he should think about what Ts problem is all about...he alw thinks his love and care is only enough but fails to understand the problems T faces bcos of the🤬.people around her. he needs to realise that not only his affection and care is enough for her but also she needs to be protected from people around them..TA always fails in this. T always ensures that TA is not blamed by others though she questions him at times for his behaviour but TAs has to change his view to protect T from other people too and same time shower her with his affection too. will ta understand this ??

Originally posted by: jinju

Sue, she does know about her condition. Periappa hinted about it to her during one of their morning walks but she twisted the whole story and blamed Dr.Gokul.

Jinju...as she is sick in her mind she would not accept periappa's hints. In fact it made her angry and more determined to be the winner thus put all the blame on Dr. Gokul and Perioappa sort of believed her and forgot abt it after that. This Dr. Gokul is another psycho in Nadeswaram...avanoda psychoticism thanggamudiyellai - its worst than Charu's..!!😆😆😆😆

Originally posted by: shubba

he did but same time he later said he would be happy to eat if granny made them at his home but same time he should think about what Ts problem is all about...he alw thinks his love and care is only enough but fails to understand the problems T faces bcos of the🤬.people around her. he needs to realise that not only his affection and care is enough for her but also she needs to be protected from people around them..TA always fails in this. T always ensures that TA is not blamed by others though she questions him at times for his behaviour but TAs has to change his view to protect T from other people too and same time shower her with his affection too. will ta understand this ??

Thuls shd have listened to T when he disapproved of them living in Puvi's hse. This Thulsi was so adamant and thought she was too smart. This the prize she has to pay for crossing the line. Her relationship with even Sudha has turned sour. How many times TA had warned her abt the things his mum is capable of doing in making their lives miserable but ippo TA has changed for the worst listening to his mum and charu. What a tragedy..!!😭

Originally posted by: maha2us

Shubba, You have said good points. Yet I feel you are more harsh towards Thulasi rather than TA. One of the highlights of T and T marriage is, Thulasi has been tortured by TA's family members in many ways and Charu. And one problem T faces is the jobless nature of TA. Sudha or Charu had means to do the financial needful for whoever married them. Can we expect the same from T? Is it too much if one says, problems happened also because TA was financially irresponsible? How TA became angry for something Padma said and went to loan sharks? He had once refused food made by T's granny and refused to come to MM's home. If T became angry for everything TA's family members did, where would TA have been? It was TA who spoke foul statements to T. Has T spoken anything foul to TA? TA's mistakes had really affected T. But T's mistakes could have shaken only TA's ego. I would say TA had to behave with T, what Kanakku told him. Whatever way T behaved with TA, TA needs to find good reasons for why she behaved that way with compassion. In ideal world, T also has to have the same compassion for TA and find why TA behaved that way. But I somehow feel T can be discounted because she has to be given more time to become courageous.

When is she going to really pluck the courage? Twice she has taken us for a ride in coming face to face with Charu by giving her good doses which was very encouraging...but in the end she has succumbed to her weakness of being TIMID again.. which ultimately became Charu's plus point..! !😡

Its so depressing to see T & T in their present state of relationship. It was nice to see them smiling with so much of love and affection for each other. 😃

Even though the negative characters gets on our nerves..seeing this awesome couple tends to relax the mind and it gives a pleasant feeling of relaxation when the episode finishes for the day...but ippo it only fills with unhappiness.😔

Originally posted by: Sue Nair

Perhaps her problem is inborn - she was not even stable right from the beginning - showering so much of attention to TA - getting him pizza for lunch (enough to feed his office) and even suggested she would send him food everyday from a restaurant if TA is not used to fast food. Idhu ellam thevaya??😲

I believe so sue. I told in my yesterday's comment itself TT cannot be the root cause for her state. Please refer to my comment https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/thendral/2654960/thendral-tuesday-jan-3-2012

@shubba Yes he did but at that time the director didn't want to tarnish his sweet hero image completely.😛 It would have been so mean of him if he showed his anger on the poor old lady. =( He came across to be more egoistic than T at several other instances. If T starts to behave similarly. Will he tolerate her? I'm pretty sure he won't. He just doesn't seem to get it on his thick head that T also has feelings and he has to protect her self respect as a husband. It is his duty. GW has humiliated her in the worst possible manner many times. In fact she was far worse than Padma. In practical life no loving husband will expect his wife to be cordial with such a MIL. He accused T that she cares only about him. Naan mattum venum aana enna serndhavanga venangra madhiri. He spoke something along those lines that too two times. Once to Lav and second time at GW's house. Its not true at all. She did try her best to gel with his family. He hides things from T to not make her worry unnecessarily and for her welfare. But if T does the same he fails to realize T may have thought in similar lines. He expects her to absolutely not hide anything from him. It has happened many times. When they had rent problem T tried to ask MM money. GW screw ethi vittapa. He got so pissed off. He yelled at her like she did some kula kutram. Needless to mention abt the recent episode when she hided the talk with Charu. He got very angry. He never analyses things. It will be difficult for any gal to put up with such a mundhiri kutta hubby. Sometimes he behaves very immature. T oru dhadava kuda avlo mosama behave pannadhila TA kitta. She has always tried to be patient. The only time she lost her cool was during their first wedding anniversary. Alavukku adhigama sandai pottu avla evlo hurt panna mudiyumo avlo hurt paniyachu. He should think with a calm mindset about all this if he is not acting and just move on. Practically anyone in his position will maintain a distance from ex if its causing trouble in your relationship with your spouse.

It is going to be a very challenging job for the director to justify TA's characterization(acting or not). Lets see.

Good comments from you all.

Since Thulasi asked GP to cure Charu, might be the story will start to focus on Charu now.

Thanks for the update buddy.😊
Cant' see Thuls in pain😭. Having lot of "kolaveri" towards charu😡
Wishing this track to conclude soon & hoping for the same to happen in the upcoming days . Well charus' illness is exposed Thuls will handle it with care. Expecting some happy and lighter episodes, exspecialy
TA & T scenes😳