Update for Wed,04.01.12 - GP takes lead!! - Page 6

Thanks Shubba...so well written and interesting to read.😃

Why can't these ppl stop talking when the maid came to bring the coffee? This is another sign telling us that there is going to be more problem stored from here onwards. Don't they know that whatever they are talking should be P&C ? Maid will of course carry her tale to Lav who will make sure it reaches Charu's ears too. Charu is going to be annoyed with all those who were in conversation regarding her.

Charu is going to be very angry with her uncle - and knowing her mental disorder she wouldn't even hesitate to have him removed for good. She may even go running to TA saying that T & MM have bad mouthed and tarnished her image to Nits' dad. If only TA would listen to GP and take a serious look from a different angle pertaining to Charu's strange behaviour. If he really cares for Charu's well being then he should open the doors to his brains for once..!!

@maha - one helping out when the mariage broke is ideally not possible when both the parties just fight each other and leave. Here TA's sis is married to C's Bro(C and N are so close) and both families have to meet then and then(TA's and VR's/GP's). So TA is in a situation forced to help for their family relationships here.😕 Acc to me or what the CTs have shows, Charu basically has an inf complex and TA/T wedding pushed to depression and hence psych behaviour etc. So TA is taking a risk for curing is my POV.

One interesting point just came to my mind, esp after reading Annaja's cmnt that the meeting with GP is going to take things to the climax..

Shubba, good points. But from the beginning she doesn't socialize with anyone outside her family. She has no friends. I mean nobody knows she is an orphan. So it cannot be because of her inferiority complex alone.

Thanks Shubba for the update.

Shubba, You have said good points. Yet I feel you are more harsh towards Thulasi rather than TA. One of the highlights of T and T marriage is, Thulasi has been tortured by TA's family members in many ways and Charu. And one problem T faces is the jobless nature of TA. Sudha or Charu had means to do the financial needful for whoever married them. Can we expect the same from T? Is it too much if one says, problems happened also because TA was financially irresponsible? How TA became angry for something Padma said and went to loan sharks? He had once refused food made by T's granny and refused to come to MM's home. If T became angry for everything TA's family members did, where would TA have been? It was TA who spoke foul statements to T. Has T spoken anything foul to TA? TA's mistakes had really affected T. But T's mistakes could have shaken only TA's ego. I would say TA had to behave with T, what Kanakku told him. Whatever way T behaved with TA, TA needs to find good reasons for why she behaved that way with compassion. In ideal world, T also has to have the same compassion for TA and find why TA behaved that way. But I somehow feel T can be discounted because she has to be given more time to become courageous.

Originally posted by: maha2us

How TA became angry for something Padma said and went to loan sharks? He had once refused food made by T's granny and refused to come to MM's home.

Exactly!! As I said earlier whole GW family is hypocricy personified including TA.

Originally posted by: shubba

@maha - one helping out when the mariage broke is ideally not possible when both the parties just fight each other and leave. Here TA's sis is married to C's Bro(C and N are so close) and both families have to meet then and then(TA's and VR's/GP's). So TA is in a situation forced to help for their family relationships here.😕 Acc to me or what the CTs have shows, Charu basically has an inf complex and TA/T wedding pushed to depression and hence psych behaviour etc. So TA is taking a risk for curing is my POV.

Charu enjoying the ill treatment of T from GW and her upper hand and abusing KP is all bcos of her inf behaviour. She is getting praised by GW over T and she thinks she is a winner there. KP is treated like a save where she sees she wins KP with her money power. Both are bcos she thinks she is winner.(ppl want to win over things and are desperate and can never accept mistakes and scary nature why/what if their weakness is let off deftly will have inf complex). She gets her psych disturbances only when she loses something.

If we watch the time she got psych disturbances it was all the time she felt she lost to T. Rest of her behaviour is bcos of her Inf. Complex only. GP rightly said a statement - accepting mistakes and accepting things will only solve the problem and not complicate. Charu cannot accept defeat - there it is where as T accepted her mistakes yday, to MM and Gp as well and she is out of stress. They are beautifully taking the track according to me.

From Gp's talks I somehow think, at the end of the track they will point out the mistakes of T and T together and will justify. T's subsequent hiding things to save someone(sudha making her call, about J warnign about D, She hiding about Conf with C) , she not listening to TA in moving to GW house and her rush out decision to walk away from TA. Same time TA's naiveness, blind trust on ppl(Joseph, mom, lav, C) would be highlighted and both their mistakes would be learnt and justified. Like once vjayam said, they need to understand the flaws of their own life and fate is teaching them hard thru people around them and T rightly told it yday too. T started to realise things, her mistakes.

Acc to me TA has got anger on T, only bcos she deciding to walk away from him and T accepted it to MM too and rest all is were just words from his mouth for the sake of C and T's life as rightly pointed out by GP. 😃

Its mere thimeru (hope spelling is correct) - on her part and thinks she is born with a silver spoon in her mouth. But she has forgotten her roots - probably her biological parents must be begging in the streets. Her mum cud have been cheated by the sweet words of a man - got herself preggie and then forced to deliver Charu who ended up in the orphanage. Idhu ellam did she stop to think for a second?? Besides her adoptive parents have spoilt her to the core making sure that she is showered not only with love but also with every thing she wanted. So she is unable to accept failure when she is deprived of getting TA - and the worst part T out beat her to it. She feels she is more beautiful and intelligent than Thuls and that she is a better match to TA !!😆

The storyline is getting interesting now esp. with the wonderful updates keeps us excited and looking forward for more info.😉

But I do feel sorry for Charu...she needs help and support from her family. She may or may not know of her condition. Instead of extorting money from her, KP shd actually approach her uncle GP and reveal the truth of Charu's condition.😡 I keep wondering how and when TA is finally going to realize that Charu is actually "sick"???

Yaru-kku achu GP oda telephone no. teriyuma??...pls call and do theneedful...illati give me the no. and I will give him a tinkle..!!😛

Sue, she does know about her condition. Periappa hinted about it to her during one of their morning walks but she twisted the whole story and blamed Dr.Gokul.

Lol maha...i told both of their mistakes and i dont understand which point of mine made u think i m harsh towards thulasi...if u had seen my comments earlier and now also i would say i have always seen things only from T's pov more than TA and i always defended T more than TA. In my earlier comment i just highlighted Ts mistakes from my POV...pointing out mistakes of T...i dont mean I support TA...now also i support T more TA actually and why I have alw said TAs mistakes always end up at T and now also the same is happening..but after this issue both T and T would/ should understand their mistakes and should not force things on others listening to others...the mistake on T like she said is she getting advise from sudha and forcing TA and her call to C..it all started there. though sudha's intentions were right it is alw a bad practice to listen to a 3rd person and force things on their spouses. They can hear to them but decision should be theirs and not just do as they were told do. T did this many times when she was helpless like listening to Deepa and sudha...i dont mean sudha and deepa were wrong but same time it does not work out for Thulz as she cannot do it. she has to handle things on her own. Ta and his unforgivables can never be justified if at all there is a proper reason. I overlook things wrt TA too much from both T's and C's life and may be thats why i thk he might be acting.