Another worst quality of TA is when someone tells/cautions him X is bad. He takes it as a personal insult that he is wrong in judging people. It is highly stupid. He definitely has a I know it all attitude. He will start arguing
naan unnum avlo mutaal kidayadhu...😆 He is not a good listener. A lot of people blame T 1)for not having a heart to heart conversation. Having a mature discussion is absolutely vital for couples to solve the problems between them. You have to amend yourself accodingly for a relationship to work. But TA is really a hopeless case. I don't blame T. I mean one can have a conversation only when the other side is interested to hear. 2)she should have curbed Charu's friendship in the beginning itself. T did warn TA that society will bad mouth their friendship and she has to get married to someone. But TA adha perusa eduthukla. What can she do? Even now if TA is acting just because he wants to genuinely see her getting settled means he should just stay away from her life as much as possible. He should not have accepted the job offer in first place.
I still think there was nothing wrong with T for hiding what she Charu and talked to TA. What is the use in telling him when he is not going to believe? The only mistake she did was believing Keshav. If she was smart she should have handled the problem in a cool manner and asked Keshav to show proof when he plate thirupified without getting worked up. The idiot had no solid proof he didn't even record what they talked in mobile to show a edited version for TA. 🤢 If at all TA is not acting it was indeed very stupid of him to believe the two(C & K) immediately. Nobody will believe a third person over wife.
Edited by jinju - 13 years ago