Stefan is still insecure? - Page 5

Originally posted by: --Anna--

And I wont bother replying -- because I find you going in circles! And I am discussing of Elena's forgiving tendencies with respect to Damon and Damon alone -- and I guess its quite apparent with all of my replies. I am surprised you dint realize that. I somehow again disagree with whole of your comment -- because I for one dint see Elena forgive Damon in one or two episode -- but well to each his/ her own.

But have to say -- U write extremely well! Not met many people like you over the forum! 😊

Originally posted by: AppleBlossom

I guess we were both going in circles. 😆

Thank you so much for the compliment. It genuinely means a lot to me because I am kind of conscious about my writing. 😊

I don't think we had a very fruitful argument😆 but it was still very nice talking to you.😊

Originally posted by: -Kruti.S-

@Tani : didnt know you watch TVD as well...girl loved your posts...dont wanna add anything more coz I think you said it all 👍🏼

and I am also glad that you are making people laugh 😆

@ Apple-Blossom : you are one hell of a writer...you write so damn well...loved reading your posts and you pretty much said everything that I had in my mind when it comes to the trio of TVD, Stefan-Elena-Damon !

I can never explain it so well though with words...

and hell ya I agree with each and every word you said!

Originally posted by: Tani91

damn you're a TVD fan too😲 awesome👏 and I'm guessing you're team Stelena?😳

Originally posted by: --Anna--

Well -- Here I would contradict you -- Yes Stefan has done a lot for Damon -- but so has Damon -- Its killing Damon every second since the first episode of Season 3 that Stefan left because of him. It has -- you know it and I know it. Its what you chose to see. And that is the reason even w/o telling Elena he kept a track of Stefan -- otherwise why would he bother. So please get this straight -- Stefan did what he could to save his brother and so did Damon -- both are in equal here. And do you think if Damon was in the same situation - he wouldnt do it!? He would have done what Stefan did exactly. So comparing both of them in what they have done for each other is flawed.

As for Damon kissing Elena -- why not!? Did Elena resist!? Did Elena slap him back like she did before!? Did Elena mind it!? No -- then who is Stefan to punch Damon!? He is the one that Elena has a growing soft corner for Damon. He is the one who pushed Elena towards Damon. And just to point out -- Stefan and Elena were over -- Stefans words to Elena "U lost me when I left the city with Klaus" -- is enough to show that they are over -- as in the relationship - and I am not saying love because yes love never dies -- and the love is not over but the relationship is. So bringing in the "girl friend" tag is a bit stupid.

Moreover Elena told Stefan -- " I kissed Damon" -- She never said "Damon kissed me" -- I mean logically Elena should be the one who Stefan should question and not punch Damon.

As for Stefan having his humanity back -- Its an on and off switch -- now does he want Elena to function according to his on and off switch? He was not wrong -- but punching only Damon and not questioning Elena over it when she especially took the blame was.

Originally posted by: --Anna--

Everyone has a way of looking at a character from their own life experiences -- U may be hell bent over being Stefan not being insecure the TM is not. But that does not make TM's understanding of any character any less. Its just that you tend to see Stefan as the hero and we -- Damon. However that does not mean that we dont get Elena Damon or Stefan. We do -- from our own perspective.

And that is why my friend are there two different fan bases.

Originally posted by: _Team_Damon

Stefan--- still insecure? : the trio in perspective

Stefan had no right to make Elena feel guilty and neither had he the right to punch Damon...
He made Elena feel like she owed him an explanation... Why? I thought they were over. Why suddenly does the insecure ex-boyfriend pop up from the ripper douche? Because Damon and Elena kissed? Because she doesn't regret it? Or because he feels stupid for not sucking up to her before he turned on the vengeance mode?

Stefan took Elena's love for granted. He thought that when all this is over she would hop and skip right back into his arms. "You're better than him"?- I don't expect Stefan to encourage anything between DE... but cut your brother some slack. I seriously don't get Stefan's love for Damon.
Coming to the insecurity- Stefan has always been insecure of the fact that Damon rose in Elena's eyes from maniacal killer to someone she considers her friend(who she needs). How'd that happen? Yeah... how did Damon manage to stand his ground against the "perfect boyfriend(x)" and end up stealing a kiss from Elena?
We all know that Damon is capable of selfless love beyond Stefan's reach and Stefan's well aware that Damon's love is very similar to that of Elena's. If she goes too far down that road... Is there a turning back?
Way to defend your brother, Stefan!!!
And all this when "humanity" falls into Stefan's list of choices.

Every episode reminds me why I love Damon. It's because he balances his relationships. Last week on the porch he defended Stefan, knowing how terrified and angry Elena was. Knowing it wasn't what Elena wanted to hear at the time. While he makes room for himself in Elena's heart, he doesn't make desperate attempts to throw out Stefan . As complicated as Damon's life and character is, it's his simplicity of thought that makes him tower above the rest. ❤️

Coming to Elena- As of now I have little sympathy for her. Telling Stefan about the kiss was alright. But explaining herself? uh okay' she clearly needs to rewind a little. Wait. What was it that happened on wickery bridge the other night? Is it already a blur? The last scene between them was perhaps her first step towards forgiving him... or so it looked like. she was already softening up to him. feeling bad for him already, Elena? All I can do is nod my head disapprovingly for a woman who I thought grew stronger not only physically, but mentally and emotionally as well. Clearly her lingering love for Stefan pulls her back, keeps her from being that woman. sad.
Coming to what I liked... I saw a streak of Damon in Elena when she looked for a loop hole in the compulsion and slammed that rifle into Jamie's head. classic.