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Posted: 9 years ago
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@katori:

Agree with you. I have always said that I have no issues if either or both will never ever fall in love with each other. But now it has reached heights. She stayed back for knowing the marriage truth. She found it and she even proved herself to be better bahu than Shraddha. So now whats holding her back at PN is my question. Pls walk out.
Bihaan was at fault and will always be at fault. No arguments on that regard. I just want her out of PN and thats all. And I hate her superiority complex when it comes to Bihaan - always giving him lectures on whats good and whats bad. Whos she? She isn't anything to Bihaan, so why bother?😡
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Kowsi -- When I watched the show during those episodes, I always wondered why Vasu did not hire a hitman. She sent Thapki in a situation to be framed as prostitute. She was willing to go to any extent..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: fan.matsh

@katori:

Agree with you. I have always said that I have no issues if either or both will never ever fall in love with each other. But now it has reached heights. She stayed back for knowing the marriage truth. She found it and she even proved herself to be better bahu than Shraddha. So now whats holding her back at PN is my question. Pls walk out.
Bihaan was at fault and will always be at fault. No arguments on that regard. I just want her out of PN and thats all. And I hate her superiority complex when it comes to Bihaan - always giving him lectures on whats good and whats bad. Whos she? She isn't anything to Bihaan, so why bother?😡


I agree about the show being illogical - Thapki being a perfect bahu and giving everyone the impression that she is working on being a wife.

My main point is that Thapki is not at fault, if she is not in love.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Roseymi

Thank you Katori...I was actually planning to write on this. By the the way I'm new here..been reading all of our posts and they are just wonderful...

Even when u say that she is not softening there is a special consideration to Bihaan from her. If u remember during tabela days whenever she prayed she would first take Bihaan's name...if she's scared again Bihaan . even when she was lying she was saying 'I'm sorry Bihaan I had to lie to u...'
And Bihaan never showed that he helped her for her sake he used to say it's for my family and she used to believe it.
Like h said she is not aware that he loves her and the extent of pain she caused . she still thinks of their relationship as how it was, so I don't think Thapki's character is wrong

And if u noticed she has changed a lot , has learnt how to be practical while exposing lies. First time she broke a promise given to Vasu regarding the divorce. She has started to be more strong might be effect of living with Bihaan.


Thapki has come long way since marriage. She trusts Bihaan and considers him a friend. But no more. And I am saying that is OK and she should not be bashed for that.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Katori Di you are talking just like my mum ! 😆
she was scolding bihaan yesterday and said why is he being so over dramatic? what he did with thapki cant never be forgptten and thapki didnt invite him to come and love her so he should stop acting childish that she used my love and broke my heart how can one use someone's love when they dont even know about it.
and i just cant Defend Bihaan here since you both are right ! 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dplee

Katori.. No words!! My only issue is their hormones... As you know I have been ranting about this problem since my joining in this forum!!

exactly they have hormone prob dnt accent to resiprocated
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chandaaaxo

Katori Di you are talking just like my mum ! 😆

she was scolding bihaan yesterday and said why is he being so over dramatic? what he did with thapki cant never be forgptten and thapki didnt invite him to come and love her so he should stop acting childish that she used my love and broke my heart how can one use someone's love when they dont even know about it.
and i just cant Defend Bihaan here since you both are right ! 😆


Overflowing love for Bihaan on the forum forced me to defend Thapki. I am not her fan but have always watched the show for her. 😆😆😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kowsi


That's true but in his love for his Maa he was obliged to do so!! Agree that he didn't have to accept her demand but that guy lie at his Bauji and Maa's feet I can't and won't blame him for marrying Thapki because of the love he has for his Maa

Agreed Kowsi, the guy did it out of love for his mom and it's true he was misleaded to believe Thapki was the wrong person for Dhruv so in his mind, he was doing good. But thing is, after all this time, after knowing Thapki is far from being the person painted by her mom and would actually have made Dhruv happy, his sense of guilt should have pushed him to at least try and ask for forgiveness because even unknowingly he had contributed to ruining his bro's and Thapki's life (at that time).
I can also defend Bihaan by saying he earned his forgiveness by standing by Thapki through thick and thin..but fact remains that Thapki has never weighed what he did to her with what she did to him and genuinely thought he deserved an apology from her for playing with his heart.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Katori

@Kowsi -- When I watched the show during those episodes, I always wondered why Vasu did not hire a hitman. She sent Thapki in a situation to be framed as prostitute. She was willing to go to any extent..


Yeah maybe she was afraid that it would fail and Thapki being married to someone else would get Dhruv away from her

But if she has asked Bihaan to kill Thapki, he wouldn't have been able to do it that's certain

But I won't change my mind on the fact that I won't blame him for the marriage, I knowand have seen many people do big things for love and family
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Katori: if Thapki shouldn't be blamed for not being in love - which I agree too - that's fine. But she's shud b blamed for staying back even after knowing the marriage truth n being the perfect bahu. If she has no intention of giving a second chance to the marriage she shud walk out. why isn't she? Being a friend ONLY in a marriage doesn't work.

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