DONE WITH THAPKI PYAR KI!!!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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After today's episode i m done with the show. Its hard to see Bihaan like this. Everyone in the show is concerned only about their pain but not one can see the pain inside Bihaan.
The only sacrificial lamb here is Bihaan. and he is also become Thapkis punching bag. Oh god, Just give the guy a break.

Cant she see that he faked his own death, chose to leave a family he loves so much just for her sake.

And she has lost faith in humanity.???? I think Thapki needs to sit down and analyse things a little bit. I mean if she can use her brain to find out where Bihaan is, then may be she can use a little more to find why exactly Bihaan does the things he ends up doing. Not to mention that this is the same guy who almost killed himself trying to save her.

Bihaan as a character is craving for love from inside. He is an orphan brought in by another family who raised him as their own. He got a family but still somewhere feels indebted to whatever his family has done for him and thinks that his only duty is to live for his family's happiness. He never does anything for himself, but whenever he does its only for his family. And that's exactly how Vasundhara forced him to marry Thapki, by reminding him of all the things Pandey family has done for him and that the only way to repay them is by marrying Thapki. He did it unwillingly only to get his mothers love and accept him as her son.

Bihaan as a character never really experienced true love, certainly not a women's love. He loved his mother but she never loved him back.

Post today's episode i really wish Bihaan gets another girl who will really love him for who he is and sees a person beyond the mask of an angry bad man he portrays but instead sees a man with a golden heart from within.

As far as Thapki is concerned she can self pity herself and wait for her Dhruv Sir all her life.

The only reason i watch this show is for Bihaan but i cannot bear to see him as punching bag.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I felt so bad for him today.

Bihaan deserved the lecture for trying to reunite Thapki with dhruv.

But on the other hand, he is so misunderstood, so alone that it breaks my heart.

Bihaan needed to know Thapki's pain and her real feelings about the marriage.

But what about HIS pain?

Does he deserve being thought of as such a villain. And hadn't he already realized her pain? And haven't we been hearing about Thapki's pain since forever?

He married Thapki because his mother slit her wrists to coerce him.

Then he came to know that he has ruined Thapki's life, he tried to set it right. The only way he knows how. A questionable way but his only intention was to return Thapki's and dhruv's happiness. Even going against the mother he worships.

While Thapki's pain is apparent, Bihaan's is hidden deep.

Bihaan deserves to let out his pain too. He really deserves that.

But unlike Thapki he can't do that. He won't ever do that.


P.S.

Agree on the punching bag part. But all this makes me adore him even more 🤗
Edited by .Disputed. - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thapki is right from her perspective. I agree with her, each one is doing what they want - one trying to unite Thahaan and some Tharuv... But what does she Thapki want, no one bothered to ask her! Thats what is the pity!
But she is dwelling in her own self pity for so long now that she fails to see anything else from anyone else's perspective! Why can't some one drive some sense into her that this is the same guy who risks his life to save her! I donno what other major jerks does she need to at least thaw a little towards Bihaan. What will happen at the end of 3 months of their forced marriage? Will she divorce? She wont I am sure but again this will b bcoz of circumstances rather than she accepting the marriage. Even then Vasu's truth will not b out... Why n how she will thaw towards Bihaan is what the story all abt I think... Bcoz Vasu's truth will b out only when the serial ends or on Vasu's death bed!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think dialogue writer didn't write proper words 4 thapki 2day.
There must b her question that "if u want me with ur brother then why u married me???"
But the question was now-where in the show 2day
Besides thapki should want 2 know about bihaan's life,pain,sacrifice
But she only delivered her random sympathy earning dialogue 2 bihaan as he will do more sacrifices 4 her in future.
Makers should not only concentrate on thapki but bihaan too as he is the male protagonist and has equal importance in the show
Edited by hunny1993 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agreed...but Bihaan has to know that Thapki has moved Forward from Dhruv Sir...accepted that She is MARRIED TO BIHAAAN...
I think this Jerk is for Bihaaan not Thapki coz he also have to see Thapki Beyond Dhruv...
He also have to know that Thapki is HIS WIFE... he cant unite her with his brother now... now Bihaan will take steps towards her...n from here i can say that Bihaan will b the First pne to fall in Love... n in return she will also take mini steps towatds him...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: DakZz

Agreed...but Bihaan has to know that Thapki has moved Forward from Dhruv Sir...accepted that She is MARRIED TO BIHAAAN...

I think this Jerk is for Bihaaan not Thapki coz he also have to see Thapki Beyond Dhruv...
He also have to know that Thapki is HIS WIFE... he cant unite her with his brother now... now Bihaan will take steps towards her...n from here i can say that Bihaan will b the First pne to fall in Love... n in return she will also take mini steps towatds him...



I think that might be the only thing I liked in the lecture.

Because this shows progression. And ends Bihaan's mission.

Otherwise it was same old. Same old 🥱



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Other problem is the barrier of the "3 months marriage decision"
May b that thing stops bihaan to forward any stop 2 thapki
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: hunny1993

Other problem is the barrier of the "3 months marriage decision"
May b that thing stops bihaan to forward any stop 2 thapki


One step up at a time dear... UniteTharuv has gone for a toss... She has agreed to nibhaofy her 3 month marriage.. and then lets see what will happen... Obviously there will b circumstances that vll not allow her divorce to happen and Thahaan will continue.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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bang on the post dear :) this is what exactly going in my mind yes bhihaan deserves pure love more than any one in this show right from beginning but my bhihaan become punching bag to every one :( yeah as same as u am watching this show for one and only bhihaan I like thahaan but am a pure bhihaanian :)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Totally n absolutely agree with you
Your words for Bihaan brought tears to my eyes

Everyone is all about main main main

That day in the fire too Thapki thapki thapki no one asked or screamed for Bihaan

Today did once Thapki mention what would Bihaan's death do to the family if they had known

Yes we all understand her pain We have heard it many a times We feel it but we feel more for Bihaan
At least Thapki can vent what can Bihaan do

He has to keep his mother's secret

He has to unite DS n Thapki

Rose mila nahi bas uske kaante chubte hain use har pal har lamha

Today he was so happy like a little kid when Bauji expressed worry initially then scolded him

His bauji loves him the most he loves bauji but the most he craves for is a mother; for so many years he has had a namesake mother He carves for her love

He deserves to be loved

He needs a woman who can truly understand him

but Delhi door nahi hai Thapki will soon come to know Vasu being behind Bihaan marrying her so maybe... she will begin to understand him

Insaniyat se vishawas uth gaya?

He was sacrificing his whole life; his family for her; what more proof of humanity she needs form him

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Koi to aao koi toh socho Bihaan ka

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