One thing has been really irking me over the past week or two...Amaya indulging Uma in this competition for Mantu. First of all theres no competition. these indian tv triangles are really stupid cos in order for a triangle to exist, each party has to have an emotional romantic investment in the other. mantu isn't romantically invested in uma at all. one party has to be somewhat confused in their choice. mantu isn't and neither is amaya. here the equation is simple, amu loves mantu and mantu loves amu. Uma holds no power over either that'll change that. she's a nil factor in this love story. Mantu sees her as a sister, his family, thats all. He made that crystal to amu, and yet she indulges Uma's childish fantasies. why? mantu is not an object to be won over silly squabbles and matching kundlis. Amu's love is mature and clearly she understands that her love is not something that requires Uma's judgement to pass or fail. So why indulge this girl's childishness? she's giving uma unwarranted importance. Amaya doesn't seem in the least insecure about Mantu like Uma is all the time. she's insistent that mantu belongs to her...ok, amu should just tell her- i love mantu and theres nothing i can do about that, nothing you say or i do will change my feelings, no matter what the kundli says, i will still love him and I'm not trying to seduce him or anything, we're still just friends. so if you have an issue with that and you think mantu will be receptive to your issues, go talk to him. and if you think he belongs to you, then let him know and see what he has to say about that, i can't help your delusions- can't confirm them and unfortunately can't deny them either. Thats that.
I feel like this is something that would really hurt mantu down the line that amu made a play for him. he does care about uma and amaya shouldn't really indulge her in this silliness, it'll only make her feel that she has a fighting chance and encourage her to hold on harder. what say?
Edited by tejaswiniwenham - 10 years ago