these relationships

The first time I fell in love was when I was 17, I fell in love with this guy and loved him very deeply, and very madly. He was young too, only 18 but our love was stronger. Things got messed up and I found out he was lying to me most of the time. It was a long distance relationship, when I think about it now, I feel oh well, who knows what else he was up to, but anyways, I was truthful and I loved him very deeply, but he left me for someone else (who ended up leaving him as well). Then I met another guy who became a very good friend of mine, we met online as well but it was different, he was a good friend and he always helped me. He was always there no matter what. He was always very funny so I never ever thought i would love him. Anyways time passed by and my wounds were healing. And then I met someone else who I thought was perfect, the first love was too intense and I never thought I'd fall in love again, but I was wrong. That guy was jealous about my best friend, and I clearly told him that even after marriage, I'd talk to my best friend because I can't live without him. We were still in love but then he broke my heart as well for another girl (who he is married to, now). I was heart broken and my parents were worried about my marriage, they started looking for perspective spouse for me, I got ready for it too, because I had my heart broken twice, didn't wanna take a chance again even though I did NOT believe in arranged marriages, but Love had hurt me twice so I had no other option.

When they started talking about other boys, then I felt very sad, as for the FIRST time I thought about my best friend from a dfferent perspective, I asked myself if I can't live without him, what does that mean? his friendship has always given me happiness, and anyone who I had loved had only given me pain, maybe my best friend is my true love, so this time I went ahead and confessed my feelings for my best friend, and I told him that I think I am in love with him, and to my surprise, he told me that he would never say anything to me until we met in real life, because he wouldn't want me to be hurt again. He said we can be friends.

Then one day we met in real life and right away he proposed to me, and I told him to ask my dad for my hands, and he did, and today we are happily married for 4 years. He is a lot better husband than any character in any of these soaps, and we are so deeply in love with each other. Lessons learned: your true love is the one you sleep next to, and wake up next to, every day for the rest of your life.

This is my true love story, I am happily married to my best friend! and I would advice all the girls out there to think about their best friends, from another perspective. Who could be a better life partner than the one who is your best friend?