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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think what Anu is doing is so wrong. I do think he loves Tani as a friend, but he knows that he has hurt her a lot and he has also send her mixed messages to her this whole time.

I think that his plan to fine a good guy for Tani is more for him then for Tani. I think he feels that if he finds her a guy and she gets married to him, then he will be all clear to go ahead and marry Naupur with clear mind and not have to feel guilty about his relationship with Naupur.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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I know Anurag is wrong but he's been away from town for 8 years! i mean i cant remember the past 4 years of my life properly! you know what i mean?though i am sure he loves taani, i just think that he is conditioned to think that he loves napur when its actually taani!

the reason he wants to get taani married is definetly because he feels guilty theres no doubt :)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: pretty54

I think what Anu is doing is so wrong. I do think he loves Tani as a friend, but he knows that he has hurt her a lot and he has also send her mixed messages to her this whole time.

I think that his plan to fine a good guy for Tani is more for him then for Tani. I think he feels that if he finds her a guy and she gets married to him, then he will be all clear to go ahead and marry Naupur with clear mind and not have to feel guilty about his relationship with Naupur.




dats wat taani told onu after meeting sus for the first time. all the people around taani are thinking that taani is a trophy or u may say a doll. after they handover the doll to any1 else they will be free and one of their burden will go away😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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no yaar....he isnt doing this all for his advantage....he knws taani luvs him but taani had herself said tht she will marry other guy so thts why he is doing this for taanis happiness....he cant see her in pain as deep inside he luvs her madly which he didnt realize yet...so i luv him now also and will alwayz luv him....and if he was doing this for him then he wuld hav never said no to his engagement and make promise with laboni for finding a groom for taani.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Guys I don't agree at all. How does someone not know that they love someone else madly. When he was a young Anu and Suhbud liked her and wrote Tani a letter expressing his love for her, Anu was so angry and did not show her that letter. It wasn't because they were best friends and he even during that time admitted to himself that he is falling in love with Tani more then just best friends.

He fully accepted there marriage when they were 15 years old, and today at 20 something years old he doesn't . If you love someone no matter how many years or days or months go by you will still love them even if you don't see them each and every day of your live. His reasoning is stupid that he felll in love with Naupur because she had her family and he didn't and they slowly fell in love after being friends.

He made that choice of not emailing, writing a letter, or calling Tani himself, not her. He even said it to her that he didn't have his friends and family around him and didn't have anyone to talk to in those 8 years in America, but he did have Tani and he had his other friends that he could have contacted if he wanted to. ..

I think its really rude and hurtful to Tani when he keeps throwing it in her face each and every time they see each other that He loves Naupur and not Tani. He has said it so many times in the last eve shows its making me really mad. I think Tani got it the first time you said you don't love her and your in love with Naupur and no reason to keep repeating and pouring more salt on Tani's wound.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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as far as i rem...after his first clarification to taani...anuraag has never told taani anything abt nupur...he hasn't even mentioned her once infront of him......
then how could u come to this conclusion????
and as far as his guilt factor is concerned...its not his guilt...but care for his friend...
he could've moved on with nupur...but he didn't...he decided to do something for his friend
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: pretty54

Guys I don't agree at all. How does someone not know that they love someone else madly. When he was a young Anu and Suhbud liked her and wrote Tani a letter expressing his love for her, Anu was so angry and did not show her that letter. It wasn't because they were best friends and he even during that time admitted to himself that he is falling in love with Tani more then just best friends.

He fully accepted there marriage when they were 15 years old, and today at 20 something years old he doesn't . If you love someone no matter how many years or days or months go by you will still love them even if you don't see them each and every day of your live. His reasoning is stupid that he felll in love with Naupur because she had her family and he didn't and they slowly fell in love after being friends.

He made that choice of not emailing, writing a letter, or calling Tani himself, not her. He even said it to her that he didn't have his friends and family around him and didn't have anyone to talk to in those 8 years in America, but he did have Tani and he had his other friends that he could have contacted if he wanted to. ..

I think its really rude and hurtful to Tani when he keeps throwing it in her face each and every time they see each other that He loves Naupur and not Tani. He has said it so many times in the last eve shows its making me really mad. I think Tani got it the first time you said you don't love her and your in love with Naupur and no reason to keep repeating and pouring more salt on Tani's wound.

i agree with you completely...thats what i exactly i wanted to say....👏😳😳😳
he was the one who accepted taani as his wife and also his marriage....after some years he forgot just because he suffered so much.....then didn't taani suffered although she had her family with her but those words of shekhar to taani was disgusting it can shatter a young girl but taani was strong and make herself independent.....how she was so loyal towards her marriage and her husband....she was the one who never accepted the marriage but then whether its in her childhood or adulthood she was always loyal to anurag....her marriage...
i don't understand how anu could forget his childhood love...and marriage....maybe circumstances to be blamed...a person no matter how much he suffered might not forget his marriage....
i am angry at anurag...but i can never hate him...he is such a sweetheart that noone can hate him😳😳😳😳😳...even now i am sad for anurag because he is such weak man when it comes to emotions......the biggest punishment in life for a person is when he is confused over his emotions and anurag is suffering it big time....he doesn't know what to do and all this confusion are leading him into a form of psychotic symptoms....he loose taani his wife in chlldhood that trauma is not over yet in him.....he fears that for nupur as he feels he only looses in life....now that fear is working big time in his mental balance....nupur is right in a way...anu is obsessed with taani...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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One thing I don't understand is why they do not get divorced now? why does he still say she is his wife, when he wants to marry napur and wants to get tani married to someone else. Souldn't they do whats needed so that she is single again and can marry another guy, afterall Hindu people can only have 1 wife/husband right!?
Its completely understandable that he moved on in his life, as 8 yrs is a long time to be pinning for someone, if anything tani waiting for him without any connection is less realistic.
The only thing that was wrong on Anu is that when he re-met Tani he shoud have been clear about Napur straight away, you don't hide such HUGE news from your best friend :)
But then again its a serial, its not ment to make sense, just ment to be entertaining, which Tere Liye is for now.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

i agree with you completely...thats what i exactly i wanted to say....😳
he was the one who accepted taani as his wife and also his marriage....after some years he forgot just because he suffered so much.....then didn't taani suffered although she had her family with her but those words of shekhar to taani was disgusting it can shatter a young girl but taani was strong and make herself independent.....how she was so loyal towards her marriage and her husband....she was the one who never accepted the marriage but then whether its in her childhood or adulthood she was always loyal to anurag....her marriage...
i don't understand how anu could forget his childhood love...and marriage....maybe circumstances to be blamed...a person no matter how much he suffered might not forget his marriage....
i am angry at anurag...but i can never hate him...he is such a sweetheart that noone can hate him😳...even now i am sad for anurag because he is such weak man when it comes to emotions......the biggest punishment in life for a person is when he is confused over his emotions and anurag is suffering it big time....he doesn't know what to do and all this confusion are leading him into a form of psychotic symptoms....he loose taani his wife in chlldhood that trauma is not over yet in him.....he fears that for nupur as he feels he only looses in life....now that fear is working big time in his mental balance....nupur is right in a way...anu is obsessed with taani...


I agree with u all.....
Anu is Taani's best friend... but anu never talks with Taani frankly and tells her what actually he want and what he is going to do...
wo jo bhi karta hain apne aap karta hain bachpan se, and baad mein pachtava.. ek baar Taani ke halath sochna chahiye..... I feel all he is doing for his guilt (jab thak wo khul kar kuch nahin boltha)




One thing I want to ask u all frnds...If Anurag was not Harshu (I love Harshu and his acting😊), How many of you defend Anu character at this track frankly ?

Edited by dosthi - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: dosthi


I agree with u all.....
Anu is Taani's best friend... but anu never talks with Taani frankly and tells her what actually he want and what he is going to do...
wo jo bhi karta hain apne aap karta hain bachpan se, and baad mein pachtava.. ek baar Taani ke halath sochna chahiye..... I feel all he is doing for his guilt (jab thak wo khul kar kuch nahin boltha)




One thing I want to ask u all frnds...If Anurag was not Harshu (I love Harshu and his acting😊), How many of you defend Anu character at this track frankly ?

i know yaar since young he has the habit of giving mixed signals.....and that attitute of his have never changed at all......first he does something of his own...then he regrets...than he wants taani's support....thats why i say he is a weak men when it comes to emotions...only taani could understand his weak emotions...but he is so confused that i don't think even taani could understand him now what he wants in his life....
now for the question...if Anurag character is played by another person too.....i will see the character flaws rather than the actor....i will not defend his character...even now i am not defending anu character even though its played by my beloved harshad because i know he is wrong....he is ruining alot of lives because of his confused state of mind....he is cheating himself...taani...nupur...sushant...how many lives is he going to ruin...its high time he comes to sense what he is doing....this confusion is leading him into psychotic trauma now.....i don't know where his stubborness is going to lead him...how can he bear to see his wife getting married to another man.....if i was Anurag...i would never see my wife getting married to another man....
but Anurag Ganguly is only made for our Harshu...the character is only written for him...the way he plays with so much ease....the character is not straight like Prem Juneja...Anurag Ganguly is a man with flaws and also unpredictable....and harshu is portraying this complicated character name Anurag Ganguly so beautifully....

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