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Well well well...
Just some things in my mind that I wanted to share from my personal experience, keeping aside the fact that Yuvi is a criminal. Let's accept the fact that he's a good guy now who had gone astray for quite sometime - at least for Zain's sake, because he is such a sweetheart! Let's even forget about Babaji's signals and indications that Twinj were destined to be together.
Note: I posted it as a comment in another thread, but I want more people to read this, especially those who are depressed about Yuvle.
- My husband was in a relationship with a girl for 7 years (weird that it's exactly the same duration as Yuvle's relationship) and I was in a relationship with a guy for 4 years. We were both sure of marrying our respective partners but ended up marrying each other instead. When I got married, I wasn't even sure if he was the right guy for me. But then, love happened. It's been 4 years since we met, and 3 years since we got married, and I can say that we are happier than we ever were with our partners. Love after marriage is a beautiful thing, and no past relationship can even come close to it. Twinj's journey was exquisite, and I can relate to it very well, which is one of the reasons I love them. It's very easy to equate marriage with a relationship, but only when you've experienced both will you know how far up the former is.
- I used to be a girl in love with love, much like Twinkle. So even when I had an abusive and jealous boyfriend, I stuck to the relationship. Whatever happened, I just wouldn't give up! Now that I look back, I realize how immature I was. Love was an obsession, an addiction for me, just like Twinkle's love for Yuvi. And that's not true love.
- I didn't get married only for my family, but they did play a huge role in my decision. If I were to choose between my mom and some guy that I am seeing, irrespective of how long I have been with him, I will choose my mom. There cannot be a comparison between a mother's love and a boyfriend's love. That's why Twinkle chose to marry Kunj - to protect her mom's respect. Yuvi's love was immaterial in front of that.
- I don't care whether Yuvle become a couple after all this, because I've managed to detach from the show. All I can say is this - the only way Yuvi can manage to win Twinkle's trust, friendship, and maybe even love is by becoming like Kunj. The changed Yuvi isn't Yuvi - he's just trying to impersonate Kunj, because Kunj is the guy Twinkle loves, and he wants to become that guy. So even if Yuvi and Twinkle get together, it'll be more like a version of Kunj and Twinkle being together. Whether Yuvi manages to pull this off for his entire life is still something to watch out for. But this thought has given me the peace and closure that I was looking for. It simply shows that there's only one perfect life partner for Twinkle, and that's Kunj. Twinj are inseparable from their very souls, and for me, that's the real end game.
Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
