TEI EP 224: Yours but Mine ; Analysis - Page 3

Originally posted by: Arpimugfan

@Areeba, Oh! Sometimes I used to get so frustrated all thanks to his "Shaarafat" whenever he was like "Maar dalunga" I used to ask him to shut up in my mind lolz like seriously CONTROL kaisa karta tha Kunj? Now when FINALLY he is reacting I am not finding anything wrong...But yes the accepting challenge thing was an impulsive act on his part...& the phone convo tho I was not expecting such an act from him but you know it actually showed how Kunj is NOT a typical lead with some fixed character sketch, he is a layered character, he is not those type of lead following some rules regulations limits wala HE is CAPABLE of crossing any limits, doing anything when its needed according to him...

I don't know if I am making any sense or not but what I mean is he will not say "No its not right" he is someone who will give the other person tit for tat...He will willingly take part in every drama if its for anything good...

Originally posted by: areeba_blossom

Yu are so correct. The whole childish drama thing almost broke them so many times that Kunj had threatened to leave Twinkle. Their relationship had only started to develop when Yuvi returned.

The communication between has been so strained since Kunj fell sick.

He magically healed though so thats wonderful. May god bless us all with the powerful love of someone like Twinkle so we can all become immortal. 😆

I would really want to se how they work on communication because Twinkle literally stops speaking when she needs to speak up during confrontations and Kunj speaks up only during confrontations when he is unable to suppress his emotions for longer.

Originally posted by: areeba_blossom

YOU MAKE COMPLETE SENSE!! ok so first of all I hate how half the forum has put Kunjsauna on a pedestal. All he is, is a decent human being. If we compare any regular person to Yuvraj, they would appear god sent angels from heavens.

I love how he is atotally family man where as through few interactions ininitial episodes, it was very much given fact that his father and his brother are not much of family people. He is more morally driven then religiously driven because he grew upbeing his mother accept abuse under the blanket of religious duties and all. I love that hedifferentiates between right and wrong and tries really hard to be not like that kind of man he saw his father to be.

I think Kunj's personality is literally molded from the fact that he didn't want to be anything like his family. His anger get shim down because he suppresses his feelings and has no one to really talk to. This man hasliterally put boundaries around himself and he is very much capable of lifting those boundaries and goingbeyond them to do anythingwhen it comes to his family which he cherishes the most in life and above evermaterialistic thing.

I love how he doesn't sit back to appear great and let things slide for the greater good. he is selfish about hisfamily's happiness and his anger and frustration with whatever Twinkle has to put up with is superjustified. I love how he is not at all hesitant to retaliate and show that he'sto some goody-two shoes. that he can change everything too but he doesn't choose to.

Do i make sense?

Originally posted by: teddyyy

RES! 😆

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I legit love how like there are various posts on KUVI but your first line explains how the battle has begun LOL, I love you. Idk if I tell you that enough hehe. Well if Kunj is now fighting his last and most brutal war for Twinkle, he's seriously starting it off horribly because child stop being an idiot and idk maybe like can you please go about this maturely? I hope his own terms means he's gonna handle this better cause he at this rate is not winning Twinkle. *hold the chappals anyone reading this* I swear I can't believe I yelled at you the other day for saying this but I accept it fully now because men are dumb.

I agree, Kunj's reactions are justifiable but the way he carries out his feelings and what he's thinking isn't good and it's exactly because he's bottled it up so long that now idk if he knows how to deal with it. I mean no man, forget it no human would be okay with seeing their spouse get comfy with their ex lover so Kunj is right and his intentions are correct but his method is so far POOPSIES. Funny that Kunj is so sensitive and can only be himself openly around Twinkle but this time it's her he needs to win over so who does he lean on?

I know and agree with your explanation of Anand's importance but I don't like him :P I think the CVs have done an exceptional job of showing how Anita is only powerful in the SARNA house because of her marriage to Surjeet. That's the only reason that Bebe hasn't kicked her out. Omg I love that you analyzed that Anand & Manohar won't take Kunj's pain lightly because now I may start liking Anand LOL. Yeah Nemo and I discussed and Anand is useless to us but Kunj is very particular about his emotions for his family members so it's going to be interesting to see how this last battle affects each member and whichever roles they will play. Cause even the "small" characters are making an impression lately.

Thank you for the explanation on how Yuvi's new behavior isn't his change. He's only adopting a new pathway to obtain the object of his obsession. I see so many people going like wow he changed like nooo he's just trying to fit Twinkle's image of ideal love and it's gonna blow up in the end. I still can't believe he told Kunj I love yo wifey & we gonna be together in the next janaam. LIKE BRO.

I loved how you explained that Pinni and Anand combo only shows how the two families have merged in this war. I disagree about the families breathing a sigh of relief tho. Now it's just them waiting for when he snaps back and goes cuckoo again, I feel like Twinj were so worried about what he was gonna do, did they really enjoy the wedding? It was lacking for me TBH.

COLORS I CANT YOU EXPLAIN IT SO BEAUTIFULLY DUDE WHAAAT. Like you make the babble master aka me shush! Honestly it's always my favorite part because I love seeing how the colors translate to the emotions of the character in question & also the relationships being examined.

Damn Kunj is mad & sad but what do we expect? I mean he's held down the fort ever since they got married, tolerating Yuvi. Now he needs Twinkle to validate his feelings but she's shaking Yuvi's hand LOOL. Oh my god, was waiting for the mirror analysis and I am very pleased. Oh Kunj oh Kunj. And ofc you had to mention your feels lmao!

I SAW SURJEET CHILLING IN THE BACK YO. Thank God he will stand by his family because Anita is so undeserving. Yuvi truly thinks his sacrifice will win him everything aka Twinj's trust and then he "wins." You're right, I seriously think Twinkle is so tired of it all, she's ready to just ignore but Kunj is like nope I don't believe the nastay homie for a bit.

Oh my god "tainted the protection that Twinkle would've provided Kunj" YES. Oh gosh it truly is all on Kunj's plate now. I think this is an interesting transition because we've seen Twinkle put everything on the line for Kunj, now it's his turn to sacrifice his happiness for her. He himself did say that love is all about sacrifice!

yo same!!! I was so happy they showed Usha Rani going to London, it was a great, subtle move and I have nothing else to add. OMG MAHI THO YAYYY!

The ending of this post was amazing, it gives great insight to the position of all the characters right now. Brilliant post!

Originally posted by: teddyyy

I agree with both of you so much guys. Honestly the reason I love Twinkle & Kunj so much is because I have felt like they have been very reasonable characters in a pretty healthy relationship so far. BUT they lack one vital thing: communication and until these two are able to openly discuss things BEFORE all goes to hell, their relationship cannot move forward positively.

Originally posted by: Arpimugfan

Only sense? These words are EVERYTHING... How beautifully you have penned down KUNJ 👏 Actually Kunj is very different from other on going or even ex male leads... He is a balanced character... Not too extreme angry arrogant young man type nahi too good selfless type aur nahi those type who changes completely because of female lead... He carries realistic vibes along with him... A guy next door type...

No doubt he is amazing n honestly such a guy is very RARE in reality these days but he is NO GOD... He has few awesome qualities as well as few not so good one like his temper n hiding real emotions but THAT'S WHAT Makes him WHO HE IS... & That's why we LOVE him...

Originally posted by: areeba_blossom

Teddyyy I am fan grilling at this bro!!! I love you so much dude, I should tell you this more.

Men are just dumb. That's like my basic explanation for every dumb move a man pulls. I tell it to my friends all the time when they cry over breakups. i know, i'm an insensitive jerk but men, even the most mature and practical new are dumb as hell because they grow up with such entitlement provide to them by society that they think they have al the control. And Yuvi and Kunj are both very powerful men by belonging to elite class of the city and being rich, educated and having support in their own way of everything. Kunj respects Twinkle a lot but besides that too he thinks he is entitled to Twinkle following his wishes. I think Mrs. Amritsar track really stands out for me in that case because he was constantly telling her to not participate because he felt possessive about her. That wasn't the best moment for Kunj.

YEAH OMG I think i mentioned in last weeks analysis that Kunj's intentions and reactions are perfectly fine and justified but his way of expressing them will be very messy and all over the place. I was just mentioning to Arpi here in replies that Kunj's reaction is perfect. It would be weird for him to not react but like i said, men are dumb. He would want Twinkle to understand without him saying and his position is so bad that even with trying, he cannot understand Twinkle's position and perspective because he has not been the one who has to go through the facing Yuvi part in every attack.

I'm really excited to see the family react to everything. I want a scene between manohar, anand and Kunj and both the elder men trying to give him martial advice on calming down and understanding Twinkle and not just walk away. i think family reactions and scenes hold a really nice space.

OMG I am so tired of seeing people say that Yuvi has reformed. A reforming person would say that my life flashed before my eyes and i felt regret and guilt. This dude asks the first question, "what don't you like about me." CREEPY!! He's still very much obsessed with Twinkle. This dude went ahead and got his mom arrested today. That's not redemption. THATS STUPID. whoever she is, she is your mother. you don't sent your parent to jail like that when she's been the one bailing you out every now and then.

Yep, everything is on Kunj's plate now and the dude has so much to deal with that he'll be overwhelmed with his emotions and anger and not understand anything. Watch him regret though afterward. Men!

I love how disgusted Kunj is at Yuvi. I get Twinkle's tiredness from dealing with same shizz again and again but dude this deep disgusts me too so much so i find a partner in Kunj when he throws dirty looks at Yuvi. I hope that when Twinkle and Kunj make up, he stays adamant at his belief of Yuvi not reforming but understands why Twinkle is saying otherwise. He needs to allow disagreements to flow through and have love be his priority.

YES OHMYGOSH DUDE i'm waiting for the day Surjeet throws Anita out. that track would come after three-four major tracks but i'm all glee full for that day!

Thanks for such an amazing response!!

Originally posted by: areeba_blossom

BOLD; Literally the main thing in TEI. I love how the relationship isn't toxic, self-sacrificing and romanticized. There are a lot of things in TEI i don''t agree with but the depiction of Twinkle and Kunj's relationship thus far has been very realistic and very healthy depiction despite the dramatics. I think that's mold breaking.