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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: teddyyy

No no, I'm not a husband you silly people 😛 I'm going to endlessly ramble about Kunj tho so please bear with me 😆


My heart truly went out to Kunj today, and my love for him only seems to grow. So for the past few days I've been conflicted whether I understand Kunj's perspective better or Twinkle's, and after today's episode I've come to the conclusion that I choose both of their sides. But this post will mostly be about Kunj as a character and his feelings, with a snipet of my thoughts on Twinkle.


Kunj entered their bedroom today, visibly angry, frustrated and upset. Him being upset was completely due to Twinkle's behavior and so was his anger but that was partially because of his confusion towards his own feelings. Let's place ourselves in Kunj's shoes for a just a minute. Bebe comes to him and informs him that his wife is not taking part in the competition because he wouldn't like it and we all saw how genuinely happy he was at the news. Right away he goes to his wife, only to not find her in the kitchen and she ends his call telling him she's taking part in the competition and then later she uses Mahi as her reason. Since Kunj and Twinkle have gotten married he has done nothing but support her against Yuvi, Anita, Leela, Usha and anyone else that dared point a finger in her direction. Her wishes were most important and he treated her as a woman whom he respects before his wife.

I noticed one thing he was not angry because what she did to him, he was angry about her choices because they are going to affect her. Even when he was mad he was worried for her.

I always do this I'm so sorry, but I forget who mentioned that Kunj has only expected something from Twinkle twice, the first time was when he wanted her to tell everyone that he was innocent in the Farmhouse MU, and now when he didn't want her to participate. Unfortunately, both times Kunj has been disappointed because Twinkle was unable to do what he wanted.

Very true, he does expect much from anyone, he rather keep others happy because that is the type of person he is. This time i felt for him and i think Twinkle did too, that she could not abide by his wishes.

When Kunj was talking to Twinkle's picture, he was venting, he doesn't understand why Twinkle doesn't see that he will always be there, she wants to do everything on her own and her Mahi obsessiveness is causing these problems, in Kunj's perspective. He knows his Twinkle is strong but she is prone to creating siyaapas and that's where I saw his concern. Then when he's changing, he says, that she cannot see, she doesn't have the right to. Kunj knows she's seen him shirtless, so this was particularly interesting to me because it makes it seem that he knows she's attracted to him and so he's gonna deprive her of this LOL. And omg, the black kurta bro, I swooned.

That is so true! First i thought that scene was both hilarious and cute. It is not like back then when both of them were super awkward as for every touch (the awkwardness now is how do i express my feelings, different type of awkward you know?). So him saying that is his frustration of her not protecting herself and he is trying to find ways to be more mad at her.

Then when he's "studying," and complaining that she didn't even bother texting, he's frustrated because he can't see why he cares so much when she's her own person, but is also frustrated because Twinkle should have at least texted him. When he realizes his phone is turned off, he frantically puts it on charge and is relieved to see the text but switches back to upset mode really quickly because she told him to eat. You know when you're mad at someone but they are trying to take care of you, so you only get more mad at them? Das what I thought LOL. Then his relief at seeing her from the balcony, I was smiling so much because this concern here, it's not as a friend, or roommate as he claims, it's from his rightful position as her husband.

The expression of relief meant so much! Goals i tell you goals!! Roommates he is funny. ONE THING: he says that there is nothing between us but this is the first time he said there is no PYAAR. So he is thought about it!

Kunj was SO vulnerable when he asked Twinkle to think about dropping out one last time, and yet again he was met with disappointment. His face actually kind of really broke my heart :/ But the one thing that made me feel better was that when out of hurting Kunj said that they don't share a real relationship and Kunj doesn't care, Twinkle retorted with then why were you so relieved on the balcony? She wasn't sad by what he said, which shows that she understands where he's coming from and what he wants, but this time it's all for him.

The way he said please, i melted. His face when he was caught, go Twinkle go lol. She wants him to care about her!

Twinkle cannot be blamed either for the two times she has disappointed Kunj because the first time, she was the vulnerable one and only stated what she saw happen to her. Now this time, she wants to please Kunj by adhering to what he wants but she's stuck because of their family. She wants to fix his family's problems and that makes me so happy. It's not for Mahi, it's for Kunj.

So so glad its not about Mahi this time

And obviously, the last part where they both stood up for each other is just proof of their beautiful bond. No matter what problems they have going on in their bedroom, in front of the world and for one another always, they are a team.

Jealous Yuvi was priceless 😆. ONE MORE TIME: GOALS ❤️

Okey, now I'm done 😆

Awesome post! Again

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: areeba_blossom


Thank you! you've defined Knuj's perspective so well yourself too especially since majority of the show is shown more through Twinkle then Knuj so understanding him as a character and understanding his thoughts with a lot of precision is brilliant!

Aww haha you're so sweet! We really do see Twinkle's side more often, so that's why I really loved today's episode. Cause Kunj has always been such a mystery to us but not today 😆 Thank you (:
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: lipikadutta88



I absolutely agree to you..you have depicted kunj's feelings so perfectly..its not about he is not allowing her to take part in the contest..he is more concern abt her well being..he knows she will again get hurt considering mahi yuvi r there..and no husband in the world can hear filthy comments about his wife..kunj is very much possessive about her nowadays..so obviously he will share his concerns with her..but still he is not forcing hi decisions on her..my heart went for him when he requested her for the last time..awww..it was such a vulnerable moment of kunj..he care for so much..but still after being angry also, he came to support her..now thats a real husband...awww..kunj is hubby goals..nowadays such boys r rare..i personally have never met any..and when kunj will come to know reg twinkle's real reason, the respect, admiration n love for her will increase by folds...he will fall madly for her then..

Yay! I'm glad we agree 😃 and thank you so much! Exactlyyy! He would never come in the way of her free will but this time it's about her izaat and he is definitely more possessive so there's no way he's gonna tolerate what's coming-I JUST SAW SOMEONE'S POST ABT TWINKLE BEING SEXUALLY HARASSED OMFG KUNJ IS GONNA KILL SOMEONE.

But omg back to your reply ~ I knowww! He is such hubby goals, so exposed to her and when she rejected his wish cause she had no other choice, he still came back for her!

@bold: I CANNOT WAIT!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: zaara610

I love reading your posts..you write so well..Loved your analysis on kunj's pov..😊

Thank you so much lovely 😳 Kunj gets me really motivated 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: teddyyy


Hey Jerry!❤️Haha I'm glad I caught you before you left😆Thank you so much my awesome friend😃You make me all blush-y LOL, seriously thank you for the compliment, writing it all out helps me really understand them better so I'm glad I make sense to you. And omg I know! I love this buildup in their relationship, we get drama, passion, cuteness, everything😉


you make me blushy too 😳 i lack words when i see you thanking me so much. you are really so cute 🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yess! It's not about what she did, it's about how it's going to play out for her and he's only angry through his concern for her wellbeing and respect. Kunj is always shown to be caring for what others want and keeping hem happy, much like Twinkle so when she couldn't fulfill his rare wish, it hurt them both.

I definitely mean what you mean by diff type of awkward haha, it's the oh snap I'm really attracted to you kind! Kunj was really adorable in his anger 😆

Actually I think he said there is no pyaar during the FH MU confrontation but he mentioned a lot of other things too. This time he didn't say no friendship or anything, it was specifically love but boy does he not realize how hard they are falling?!

Honestly overtime Yuvi burns, I am in another planet 😆

And thank you Uma! :D


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sherni_Jerry


you make me blushy too 😳 i lack words when i see you thanking me so much. you are really so cute 🤗

Once again, you made me smile before going to bed 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Aww good night Teddy. bear hug 🤗 TwiNj dreams
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: teddyyy

Yay! I'm glad we agree 😃 and thank you so much! Exactlyyy! He would never come in the way of her free will but this time it's about her izaat and he is definitely more possessive so there's no way he's gonna tolerate what's coming-I JUST SAW SOMEONE'S POST ABT TWINKLE BEING SEXUALLY HARASSED OMFG KUNJ IS GONNA KILL SOMEONE.

But omg back to your reply ~ I knowww! He is such hubby goals, so exposed to her and when she rejected his wish cause she had no other choice, he still came back for her!

@bold: I CANNOT WAIT!



yaar I saw the SBS preview and m really worried..gotta rush for office now..but my mind will be in twinj land..hopefully kunj will rescue her..dunno how both will react after this..kunj will become crazy after this..he will be more possessive..dunno how twinky will handle everything..gearing for some intense scenes..ye mms wala scene kab pata chalega kunj ko
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: teddyyy

No no, I'm not a husband you silly people 😛 I'm going to endlessly ramble about Kunj tho so please bear with me 😆

Hyy teddy guess who is here??? Yes me😉 we both should share a name togather yar like twins etc..we think liks soo same same😆
Okk i want to tell you girl you just nailed it in this post... this was awesome..i loved it i usuely wait for your post to comnt on them...hihih okk meri bak bak khtm😛
and of course i love you yar🤗

My heart truly went out to Kunj today, and my love for him only seems to grow. So for the past few days I've been conflicted whether I understand Kunj's perspective better or Twinkle's, and after today's episode I've come to the conclusion that I choose both of their sides. But this post will mostly be about Kunj as a character and his feelings, with a snipet of my thoughts on Twinkle.

Your not alone in this yar kunj k liye its like our love is growing day bay day actually... he is in our minds all the time yar.. he ia husband goal ...we all dream for a man lile him..yes last night episode made me love both of themm...

Kunj entered their bedroom today, visibly angry, frustrated and upset. Him being upset was completely due to Twinkle's behavior and so was his anger but that was partially because of his confusion towards his own feelings. Let's place ourselves in Kunj's shoes for a just a minute. Bebe comes to him and informs him that his wife is not taking part in the competition because he wouldn't like it and we all saw how genuinely happy he was at the news. Right away he goes to his wife, only to not find her in the kitchen and she ends his call telling him she's taking part in the competition and then later she uses Mahi as her reason. Since Kunj and Twinkle have gotten married he has done nothing but support her against Yuvi, Anita, Leela, Usha and anyone else that dared point a finger in her direction. Her wishes were most important and he treated her as a woman whom he respects before his wife.

Hy you said it all right.. we can see where he is coming frm ...yar look at one moment he was soo happy because he come to knw that his wife getting his unsaid words and next moment he come to knw that twinkle gonna take part in contest for mahi ...tou lazmi gal gusa jaiz hy...

I always do this I'm so sorry, but I forget who mentioned that Kunj has only expected something from Twinkle twice, the first time was when he wanted her to tell everyone that he was innocent in the Farmhouse MU, and now when he didn't want her to participate. Unfortunately, both times Kunj has been disappointed because Twinkle was unable to do what he wanted.

Hmmm both time he expected frm twinkle .. but both the time Circumstance were different...that time twinkle don't belive kunj but knw she believe him completely and doing all this for kunj only...but mr.sarna dont lnw thais na..he think she is taking part for mahi to save her only..and to be honest he was must be annoyed to yar look he is thinking twinkle chose mahi over kunj ...like she was not taking par lt for him and jyse hi mahi ki bat ayi...kunj happines took the back seat..we all knw ita not like that bit kunj ko nhi pta.. he is thinking fot twinkle mahi is more important then him.. and he was angry on him k agar twinkle don't care then why he was soo worried...


When Kunj was talking to Twinkle's picture, he was venting, he doesn't understand why Twinkle doesn't see that he will always be there, she wants to do everything on her own and her Mahi obsessiveness is causing these problems, in Kunj's perspective. He knows his Twinkle is strong but she is prone to creating siyaapas and that's where I saw his concern. Then when he's changing, he says, that she cannot see, she doesn't have the right to. Kunj knows she's seen him shirtless, so this was particularly interesting to me because it makes it seem that he knows she's attracted to him and so he's gonna deprive her of this LOL. And omg, the black kurta bro, I swooned.

Aww it was cute when he was taking to her pic..teddy now kunj started expecting frm his siyapa queen..he expect her all the time to have fath in him..he want see all the time that twinkle believe him.. that he will make the things normal..he also expect k twinkle jo v kary ab osy zaroor batye..that kurta wo bhi olta but still looking hot only kunj can do.☺️.this lol.. but the way he said na alowed nhi hy..hiii i was like ab humara lya hoga twinkle ko alowed nhi tou wo ab shirt otary ga hi nhi...hihih😆 he was soo cute yar like twinkle sy ik bara alhtiyar cheen liye osy shirtles dekhny ka..wah kunj 😆
Aps ki bat btaon my gutter mind started when he opened his shirt buttons..i was like ye kahin pic k sath hi tou kuch karny nhi wala..God ☺️🤣

Then when he's "studying," and complaining that she didn't even bother texting, he's frustrated because he can't see why he cares so much when she's her own person, but is also frustrated because Twinkle should have at least texted him. When he realizes his phone is turned off, he frantically puts it on charge and is relieved to see the text but switches back to upset mode really quickly because she told him to eat. You know when you're mad at someone but they are trying to take care of you, so you only get more mad at them? Das what I thought LOL. Then his relief at seeing her from the balcony, I was smiling so much because this concern here, it's not as a friend, or roommate as he claims, it's from his rightful position as her husband.

Last night he was damn angree becuz ..."ik msg v nhi kar sakti thi" i would say why mr.sarna why you are effected soo much.. some days before twinkle asked the same ques"ik msg nhi kar sakty thy"but you replied k "bv ki tarha behave keu kar rahi hy"wah kunj .. ab kya ho gya baby.. i tell you your in love baby
You said you don't cara ok..then why you were waiting for her ...ulta kurta pehin k bethy they tension main pta hi nhi laga.. and still you are saying koi frk nhi parta..realy..chal jhota😆 god he was holding his breath ..k gyi kahin ye ...that relif on his face...😃

Kunj was SO vulnerable when he asked Twinkle to think about dropping out one last time, and yet again he was met with disappointment. His face actually kind of really broke my heart :/ But the one thing that made me feel better was that when out of hurting Kunj said that they don't share a real relationship and Kunj doesn't care, Twinkle retorted with then why were you so relieved on the balcony? She wasn't sad by what he said, which shows that she understands where he's coming from and what he wants, but this time it's all for him.

I loved this twinkle she was like realy kunj koi frk nhi parta..then what was you doing on the balcony..she was soo sure k kunj care for her thok k bol diya osko..and she khnw it he is saying all this to hurt her..
Aj kal kunj saying all this bar bar like we dont have any relation..keu kunj"koi relation banany ka mood hy ..tell her yar"😆

Twinkle cannot be blamed either for the two times she has disappointed Kunj because the first time, she was the vulnerable one and only stated what she saw happen to her. Now this time, she wants to please Kunj by adhering to what he wants but she's stuck because of their family. She wants to fix his family's problems and that makes me so happy. It's not for Mahi, it's for Kunj.

As i said before twinkle can't be blamed.yar doing this for kunj..things are different now..

And obviously, the last part where they both stood up for each other is just proof of their beautiful bond. No matter what problems they have going on in their bedroom, in front of the world and for one another always, they are a team.

Seriously the way he said'jo v ho jye duniya k samny tera sar nhi jhony don ga"i was like wah kunj dil jeet liya

Okey, now I'm done 😆

God bohot bol liya...😆

Edited by Zawra - 9 years ago

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