From the Perspective of a Husband

No no, I'm not a husband you silly people 😛 I'm going to endlessly ramble about Kunj tho so please bear with me 😆

My heart truly went out to Kunj today, and my love for him only seems to grow. So for the past few days I've been conflicted whether I understand Kunj's perspective better or Twinkle's, and after today's episode I've come to the conclusion that I choose both of their sides. But this post will mostly be about Kunj as a character and his feelings, with a snipet of my thoughts on Twinkle.

Kunj entered their bedroom today, visibly angry, frustrated and upset. Him being upset was completely due to Twinkle's behavior and so was his anger but that was partially because of his confusion towards his own feelings. Let's place ourselves in Kunj's shoes for a just a minute. Bebe comes to him and informs him that his wife is not taking part in the competition because he wouldn't like it and we all saw how genuinely happy he was at the news. Right away he goes to his wife, only to not find her in the kitchen and she ends his call telling him she's taking part in the competition and then later she uses Mahi as her reason. Since Kunj and Twinkle have gotten married he has done nothing but support her against Yuvi, Anita, Leela, Usha and anyone else that dared point a finger in her direction. Her wishes were most important and he treated her as a woman whom he respects before his wife.

I always do this I'm so sorry, but I forget who mentioned that Kunj has only expected something from Twinkle twice, the first time was when he wanted her to tell everyone that he was innocent in the Farmhouse MU, and now when he didn't want her to participate. Unfortunately, both times Kunj has been disappointed because Twinkle was unable to do what he wanted.

When Kunj was talking to Twinkle's picture, he was venting, he doesn't understand why Twinkle doesn't see that he will always be there, she wants to do everything on her own and her Mahi obsessiveness is causing these problems, in Kunj's perspective. He knows his Twinkle is strong but she is prone to creating siyaapas and that's where I saw his concern. Then when he's changing, he says, that she cannot see, she doesn't have the right to. Kunj knows she's seen him shirtless, so this was particularly interesting to me because it makes it seem that he knows she's attracted to him and so he's gonna deprive her of this LOL. And omg, the black kurta bro, I swooned.

Then when he's "studying," and complaining that she didn't even bother texting, he's frustrated because he can't see why he cares so much when she's her own person, but is also frustrated because Twinkle should have at least texted him. When he realizes his phone is turned off, he frantically puts it on charge and is relieved to see the text but switches back to upset mode really quickly because she told him to eat. You know when you're mad at someone but they are trying to take care of you, so you only get more mad at them? Das what I thought LOL. Then his relief at seeing her from the balcony, I was smiling so much because this concern here, it's not as a friend, or roommate as he claims, it's from his rightful position as her husband.

Kunj was SO vulnerable when he asked Twinkle to think about dropping out one last time, and yet again he was met with disappointment. His face actually kind of really broke my heart :/ But the one thing that made me feel better was that when out of hurting Kunj said that they don't share a real relationship and Kunj doesn't care, Twinkle retorted with then why were you so relieved on the balcony? She wasn't sad by what he said, which shows that she understands where he's coming from and what he wants, but this time it's all for him.

Twinkle cannot be blamed either for the two times she has disappointed Kunj because the first time, she was the vulnerable one and only stated what she saw happen to her. Now this time, she wants to please Kunj by adhering to what he wants but she's stuck because of their family. She wants to fix his family's problems and that makes me so happy. It's not for Mahi, it's for Kunj.

And obviously, the last part where they both stood up for each other is just proof of their beautiful bond. No matter what problems they have going on in their bedroom, in front of the world and for one another always, they are a team.

Okey, now I'm done 😆

Originally posted by: fangirl1012

Something I posted in another thread re posting

The feminist part in me was also angry at him not wanting her to participate. He has no right to stop her considering she was involved in these things before marriage. However his reaction is quite in character he is bothered by the comments made by those guys. He has repeatedly stated that he cannot tolerate anything against his wife. He is afraid of men who might pass foul comments about her. On the other hand he has new found feelings for his wife. Feelings he is confused about and feelings he is trying to process. Also every guy has a tipping point where enough is enough his behavior is quite realistic. The thing is that these flaws in him make him real and more human. We should stop putting fictional characters on a pedestal and except them to do the right things always. Sometimes they will make mistakes and mess up and that's fine as after all they are just reflections of real human beings😊 I think his feelings are clouding his judgement. He has an innate desire to protect Twinkle and right now he believes that not participating is the only way. However I loved the fact that he still came when she needed her no matter how upset he was. It's rare for men to swallow their disappointment

quickly and support their wives but Kunj did. He did not want her to feel embarrassed.

P.S I love your posts and Sid looked amazing in ulta black kurta😆

Originally posted by: Sherni_Jerry

Teddy 🤗

i was going offline, saw your post and read. you write so well. your positive unbiased writing makes me love TwiNj more and understanding TwiNj better <3 you are really awesome. i loved the epi tbh and progression is really great

Originally posted by: areeba_blossom

I love how you've expanded on the feelings and thoughts between the two. Especially when Twinkle retaliates by saying that he was quite relieved to see her back home safe and sound.

Originally posted by: teddyyy

Heyyy! I think you joined the forum when I was like dying with homework so I never got to say hi haha, I was just reading your post right now and dude you're brilliant 😆 So thank you! And yes, that mad eye so happy because she didn't let it slide and he was all flustered too.

Originally posted by: teddyyy

No no, I'm not a husband you silly people 😛 I'm going to endlessly ramble about Kunj tho so please bear with me 😆

My heart truly went out to Kunj today, and my love for him only seems to grow. So for the past few days I've been conflicted whether I understand Kunj's perspective better or Twinkle's, and after today's episode I've come to the conclusion that I choose both of their sides. But this post will mostly be about Kunj as a character and his feelings, with a snipet of my thoughts on Twinkle.

Kunj entered their bedroom today, visibly angry, frustrated and upset. Him being upset was completely due to Twinkle's behavior and so was his anger but that was partially because of his confusion towards his own feelings. Let's place ourselves in Kunj's shoes for a just a minute. Bebe comes to him and informs him that his wife is not taking part in the competition because he wouldn't like it and we all saw how genuinely happy he was at the news. Right away he goes to his wife, only to not find her in the kitchen and she ends his call telling him she's taking part in the competition and then later she uses Mahi as her reason. Since Kunj and Twinkle have gotten married he has done nothing but support her against Yuvi, Anita, Leela, Usha and anyone else that dared point a finger in her direction. Her wishes were most important and he treated her as a woman whom he respects before his wife.

I always do this I'm so sorry, but I forget who mentioned that Kunj has only expected something from Twinkle twice, the first time was when he wanted her to tell everyone that he was innocent in the Farmhouse MU, and now when he didn't want her to participate. Unfortunately, both times Kunj has been disappointed because Twinkle was unable to do what he wanted.

When Kunj was talking to Twinkle's picture, he was venting, he doesn't understand why Twinkle doesn't see that he will always be there, she wants to do everything on her own and her Mahi obsessiveness is causing these problems, in Kunj's perspective. He knows his Twinkle is strong but she is prone to creating siyaapas and that's where I saw his concern. Then when he's changing, he says, that she cannot see, she doesn't have the right to. Kunj knows she's seen him shirtless, so this was particularly interesting to me because it makes it seem that he knows she's attracted to him and so he's gonna deprive her of this LOL. And omg, the black kurta bro, I swooned.

Then when he's "studying," and complaining that she didn't even bother texting, he's frustrated because he can't see why he cares so much when she's her own person, but is also frustrated because Twinkle should have at least texted him. When he realizes his phone is turned off, he frantically puts it on charge and is relieved to see the text but switches back to upset mode really quickly because she told him to eat. You know when you're mad at someone but they are trying to take care of you, so you only get more mad at them? Das what I thought LOL. Then his relief at seeing her from the balcony, I was smiling so much because this concern here, it's not as a friend, or roommate as he claims, it's from his rightful position as her husband.

Kunj was SO vulnerable when he asked Twinkle to think about dropping out one last time, and yet again he was met with disappointment. His face actually kind of really broke my heart :/ But the one thing that made me feel better was that when out of hurting Kunj said that they don't share a real relationship and Kunj doesn't care, Twinkle retorted with then why were you so relieved on the balcony? She wasn't sad by what he said, which shows that she understands where he's coming from and what he wants, but this time it's all for him.

Twinkle cannot be blamed either for the two times she has disappointed Kunj because the first time, she was the vulnerable one and only stated what she saw happen to her. Now this time, she wants to please Kunj by adhering to what he wants but she's stuck because of their family. She wants to fix his family's problems and that makes me so happy. It's not for Mahi, it's for Kunj.

And obviously, the last part where they both stood up for each other is just proof of their beautiful bond. No matter what problems they have going on in their bedroom, in front of the world and for one another always, they are a team.

Okey, now I'm done 😆