Originally posted by: prem_diwani
Gurleen, very valid points.
It is always better to go in a home where u r loved. But the problem in arranged marriages and even love for that matter is the family gets to know one slowly when you really live together and the impressions are created at that point. The only one person who truly matters initially is the significant other and how they support you through out.
With the heavy villiany this week, the focus completely shifted from the wedding. But some good that came from it was Twinkle is totally off yuvi and all her delusion of love has come crashing down. She has bonded with kunj and they both are comfortable with the idea that they will be husband and wife and can joke about it.
Yes the fact they will marry for family rather than affection for each other is a negative that can easily be overcome. The initial care and understanding is there and that is the initial stepping stone on the path of life. Without that they can only grow apart and not together. Yes the MU is a big factor of a certain distrust, which is the ground of them being physically apart till it clears.
She has an innate respect for family and up holding it's honor. He treats her as an equal albeit thinks she is lacking in a little sense. Manohar thinks of her as a charm and is backing her.. What ever the reason, he now considers her a daughter in law and stood up for her and threw yuvi out of the party for maligning her. He is nice to Nikki so I don't see any other treatment for Twinkle.
Anand is neutral he has no issues with her. Nikki will indulge in power play. Usha is needed for the on and off strife that will help Twinkle grow and Twinj bond. He will also be a factor in her growing independent as he gives people space and is ready to take on the responsibility of being a husband.
Now that Twinks is away from the pampering of her mother and a home maker in her own right she will mature a lot more...
So I am ok with the marriage happening and look forward to the tashan e shaadi moving on to tashan e understanding and then the ishq...
- She tried to commit suicide by drinking poison
- The very next night she was drugged and almost raped
- She agreed to get married to the man whom she considers is her potential rapist
- She gets drugged again and is kidnapped
- Her love life is displayed for everyone to poke fun at
- Her friend was kidnapped and was under threat of being molested
- Her decision to get married is constantly being questioned alluding to her character being questioned as well
- Her future mother-in-law is out looking for another bride for Kunj to get married with
- Her future mother-in-law is constantly questioning her moral integrity and thinks of her to be of a loose character
- She was close to being a victim of an acid attack
- Kunj was buried alive because her ex-boyfriend couldn't handle her getting married to someone else
