Two people I never understand in SR

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First and foremost, Ragini (yes as usual). She knows Laksh is doing wrong and instead of stopping him, she wants to sit and understand him and support him? She cannot see Laksh in pain right? Thats why she got so worried yesterday looking at his injuries. And she got mad at Swara and wanted Laksh to just rest and not get interrogated by anyone. Then why is she supporting him? To give him temporary peace and happiness? I have also said earlier, if she wants to give emotional support, she should. But she should get him out of that as well. Just because he says "you dont understand me even after being my wife" she gets scared and says nothing other than saying she understands him and want him to be ok all the time. Ragini, please tell me one thing, how is your husband going to be ok after going on such a path? Why can't you think that your husband is literally ruining his life with this? You cannot see in jail for ONE NIGHT. But if he gets caught for real and gets into deeper shit, you dont even know how many nights he would have to spend in jail coz of that. Is she ready to see him dead? Why can't you have some guts and explain your husband that whatever he is doing is WRONG? No one is doubting his intention or his love for his parents. But the step he has taken IS DANGEROUS. He is not only risking his own life but also his family's. Doing it for parents? Really? We all know that. But we also know that AP DP would prefer to stay with AdRi and bear the torture than let Laksh go on the path he has taken. RagLak's main problem is that woh aage aur piche ki sochte hi nahin. Bas present main jo socha bas thats right. Majaal hai ki woh badle🥱

Dadi: She wants to do everything for Ragini and her happiness. Her world revolves around Ragini. And she also knows for the fact that Laksh is Ragini's obsession and love. She will kill anyone for him (she has tried to done that in the past). Be it family too. And the same dadi, wants to hurt Laksh, by supporting AdRi, making sure he gets 3rd degree torture and a case also gets filed against him. That will basically spoil his life and his future coz it will come in his records. And Ragini wont be able to bear that. But still dadi wants to torture Laksh. How is this love then? Coz if you truly love someone, you would want to make sure to even take care of anyone and anything that is dear to the person you love. And Ragini loves or is obsessed with Laksh the most. Even Swara doesnt top that chart. And still dadi wants too do that to Laksh. And now she wants 40% of the property for Ragini. This woman is insane.

PS: Sorry in advance, cannot post episode take today. I am kinda busy with my stuff.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey Shona,
So here is my take about 3 characters of SR who just boggles my mind!
I'm not a serial person but watched some & there was few characters who I used to get irritated with, used to dislike & hate but in certain extent I used to understand them!
Bt these 3 unbelievable characters, I just simply don't understand!
Laksh - The first character of SR who made me irritated, frustated just after 1 week bcoz of impulsive, bratty, spoiled nature! Who never learn from his own mistakes, heck he hardly acknowledge his mistakes! He only acknowledged his mistakes regarding Kavya Bt never realized or acknowledged his other mistakes which he did since beginning! In this current track as well,
I understand his POV, his depression, aggression! Bt I don't support his actions! I know every person deals with problems different way & react different way as well bt that doesn't mean he will deal with problems with the support of wrong & illegal way! Bcoz that's not a way in the first place! So I can't give a benefit of doubt to him bcoz his doings & actions invited this things! Even Sanskaar didn't get him arrested & AdRi made him beaten, in future he would have got into big problems! He would have fall in deeper hole from where he would have no way out! As Sanskaar rightly said, it's easy to way in bt no way out!
And he turned into a deaf & decided not to pay a heed to his family's words & decided to continue doing illegal things! As I said, I understand his situation but that doesn't mean you will do wrong things!
YOU CAN'T DO SOMETHING RIGHT BY DOING WRONG!
Then what will be the difference between AdRi & Laksh? Bcoz if Laksh is doing something wrong for his parents sake then AdRi also doing lots of heinous things for their own sake & benefit!?
No matter how good or justifiable your reason is a wrong is wrong! And I would have given Laksh some sympathy if he tried a better & right path before going wrong at the first place bt no, he didn't even tried!
Ragini - Now the character I just don't understand and boggles my mind most is Ragini without any doubt!
Which way her mind works actually? I try so hard to understand her so that I can give her some leeway or benefit of doubts or simply can tolerate her Bt I always fail! I just can't fathom her!
I don't support Laksh or neither I sympathize with him Bt still I understand him & his situation alil. Bt if I don't understand anyone that is Ragini! Why she is in dilemma? Being a wife she should make Laksh understand! Why she is supporting him?
I was so shocked yesterday bcoz it was her who doubted Laksh behavior at the first place & she was so worried thinking what if her LakshJi choose a wrong path? Bt yesterday she forbade everyone to ask Laksh anything & trusted him blindly that too immediately when Laksh's reasons were not convincing! No I understand & know that she loves Laksh like obsessively bt she could have said that let Laksh rest & question him later! Bt she just got furious when others tried to inquire him! And today, she just... (I don't know what should I say or how to express what I'm feeling)
And after knowing the truth, she should make Laksh understand for his own betterment! And if he don't listen then she should use his love for her & her love for him to stop him! Bt she is supporting him & justifying his actions!? What the hell!?
Someone were saying that she loves Laksh obsessively that's why supporting him - Bt this also don't make any sense! Bcoz as she loves him & he is her obsession, she should refrain him for his own betterment! He will face more problems & grave dangers if he continues! So I expected her not to stand against him bt stand against his doings! Bt she disappointed me ONCE AGAIN!
Even if someone says that when it comes to Laksh, she forget everything then she should think about it more bcoz here not anyone else but Laksh's life is at stakes! Why on earth she is supporting him when he is digging his own hole? It's not about others bt about Laksh! She is not being a supportive or even a loving wife Bt being a stupid, dumb AGAIN!
Ragini being stupid or dumb don't surprise me anymore as she is always like this Bt what surprise me is she is being a stupid, idiotic & dumd regarding Laksh and that too when his life is being ruined? She never cease to disappoint me! She is thinking about his temporary peace by neglecting his permanent doom? Why she always thinks that she is the only one who cares for Laksh not Sanskaar or anyone else!? Why she can't understand what Sanskaar did, did for his brother?
She can't tolerate Laksh being in jail for one night & will not be able to see him beaten bt why didn't she think that if Laksh continues, he will be imprisoned for life time and will be beaten more!? And more than that his whole life will be destroyed!?
God, Ragini is a character which neither irritate me anymore, nor frustrates me or neither evokes any hatred! Actually I don't feel any emotion for this character! She is just simply unbearable!
Dadi - Ragini is seriously the parchaayi of Dadi and both thinks same way which actually made no sense at all. Dadi's whole world revolves around Ragini even more than her own son Shekhar! I'm also surprised that she didn't think about her Ladoo's precious obsession LakshJi? Bt then again Ragini is her obsession and she will keep her to herself! And will use Laksh to torture MM-Wasis not bothering that it will be torturous for her Laado as well and maybe after Ragini getting Laksh out, she will give place to RagLak? Who knows how her head works!
These 3 characters! Specially Ragini!
Only CVs of SR knows them!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Shona, Laksh is Ragini's obsession. She was and is blindly love with him. She will do anything for him. Even if it is leading to wrong path she will lead him. If his happiness lies in wrong ways, she will do so! Come on she once herself chose such path. Then how will she understand what is wrong and right!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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i can understand raginis action.ragini is always same.she can do anything for laksh.so she support laksh this time also.ragini choose the wrong path for laksh.evrey kind of crime she had done to get laksh.she want support laksh.morality or right path does not matter for her.even she can go to any extent to support laksh also but dadi her character is so complicated.agar wo ragini ki bhala chatithi to adri ko kiu support kar raha hain.mujhe achha laga adri ne usse hi betrey kar di
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Posted: 8 years ago
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simple si baat he as i always repeat this...again and again for Ragini Laksh is her obsession not love...Love and Obsession me farak hota he.Love never mk people hurt their beloved bt didnt she tortured him mentally in initial stage and again in malkin phrase...she used to get sadistic pleasure in seeing him in a vulnerable position.

and today again she is on same path...what Ragini did yesterday is nt called love bt called ji huzuri simply...she jst wants to be in Laksh's good book so she blabber those words...what d hell can she do if Laksh wl get genuinely arrested instead of sanky get him arrested
She never tried to put sense in him.hw can she do???is she gt any kinda sense???I doubt

next Laksh...btter less said abt him.This is why i said smtimes scoldness is imp rather than pampering.he never learns and he will nt learn anything in future either.its waste to expect from him abt logic.he and logic jst dnt fit together

Dadi oh gawd i hate the fact that swara belongs to Gadodia family.Nothing mre to say
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Posted: 8 years ago
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U don't understand people who are very similar to each other 😆
Ragini is literally dadi's parchaaaiii

I don't know but I get them.

See for ragini except lakshay nothing else matters. And for ragini intentions matters same goes for lakshay. U know there are some people who believe that if intentions are right the way to achieve that intentions does not matter. So when ragini wanted lucky her first love she did not care about her way to get him, and I think desire to possess ur love is natural I think everyone feels that desires but some people are mature enough to let go and move on and some are not. And when lucky wanted to get rid of ragini he also didn't think of the way through which he would get his freedom. The fake pregnancy is another example. So when ragini knows and understands lakshay's intentions I don't think she will care about his way of achieving that. That's ragya's nature.

(by intentions I mean they think that there intentions are right it does not have to be right for others)

Dadi too is of similar category. She thought shekhar getting married to bangalan is not right so she forced him to get married to janki. Then she thought shomi coming back to shekhar and both of them getting married at this age is not right so she did everything in her disposal. Here too she thinks them having a child in this age is not right so she did all this. Here her intentions were samaj not pointing fingers at them.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Laksh is ragini's obsession nt love...and laksh ne clearly kha tha jo uske against jayega o us se sare relation tod dega...ragini ko pta hai uska n laksh ka relation itna strong nhi h agar o uske against gyi to laksh use v sare rishtey thod dega...that's y blindly support kr rhi hai...selfish :D
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I would just like to say laksh is no more ragini's obsession. .she loves him truly. Stop saying that ragini doesn't love him...
Once she was obsessed with him but after laksh ditched her she learnt her lesson and never once tried to break laksh and kavya marriage...if it would have been old ragini she would have again done something to get laksh but she dint because she is clearly over her obsession but yes she loves him a lot...more than anything and laksh will always be her first priority
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't understand Swaragini creative department. What are they trying to prove?? That it is okay to murder and torture your family members to get the person you are obsessed with? It is okay to treat your parents & in-laws like crap to prove that you are superior? It is totally okay to sell one new born baby to satisfy your ego?? And all these deeds(crimes) are forgivable?? Just one adha-adhura apology and all the criminals are redeemed. Law-system is a joke in SR. Now I am sure SR CVs have some issues with Kolkata police. They don't leave any chance to insult them. There is a limit to everything. Why is it so impossible for the writers to add a bit of logic in the serial? If Dadi suddenly becomes positive after this and starts fighting for justice then I won't be surprised. This is ridiculous. I guess in future we will hear "Lakshya ne jo kiya apne ma-papa k liye kiya" stuff a lot. Though he is going to face a lot of difficulties yet I am sure his choice of selecting wrong path will be justified too.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: luvakanksha

U don't understand people who are very similar to each other 😆

Ragini is literally dadi's parchaaaiii

I don't know but I get them.

See for ragini except lakshay nothing else matters. And for ragini intentions matters same goes for lakshay. U know there are some people who believe that if intentions are right the way to achieve that intentions does not matter. So when ragini wanted lucky her first love she did not care about her way to get him, and I think desire to possess ur love is natural I think everyone feels that desires but some people are mature enough to let go and move on and some are not. And when lucky wanted to get rid of ragini he also didn't think of the way through which he would get his freedom. The fake pregnancy is another example. So when ragini knows and understands lakshay's intentions I don't think she will care about his way of achieving that. That's ragya's nature.

(by intentions I mean they think that there intentions are right it does not have to be right for others)

Dadi too is of similar category. She thought shekhar getting married to bangalan is not right so she forced him to get married to janki. Then she thought shomi coming back to shekhar and both of them getting married at this age is not right so she did everything in her disposal. Here too she thinks them having a child in this age is not right so she did all this. Here her intentions were samaj not pointing fingers at them.


Akansha, even I get the theory of sometimes it is ok to lie to do something right. But it also depends on what the lie is and what it can cost you?
Laksh said SwaSan are always immandar. Yes they are, but they have also chosen different ways. They also lied but they have made sure that it doesnt affect anyone.

Take for example SwaSan's fake marriage lie, it didnt cost them anything. It was still a lie but when they finally won, BOTH of them gained the lost respect and trust from everyone.

While when RagLak faked pregnancy, they lost the respect and trust they both have gained from the family.

And Swara, she also took a wrong step by stealing something that belonged to her. She had a right on it. Even when she shouldn't be, she was punished for it. It just affected her and not anyone else. That was not gonna affect her life or her family's. Even Swara took that step to save DP's life and arrange money for DP. But still. This was not dangerous. Nor it would have costed Swara her life. Yes, what happened at the police station was something not asked for. But she still got out of it. This wasnt some kind of addiction that she kept doing.

And Laksh is getting into something VERY dangerous. It will not only cost him but his whole family. No matter what anyone says, he just doesnt listen. And Ragini, what good intentions she is talking about? Everyone is AWARE of Laksh's good intentions. Even SwaSan. And if it wasnt something major, SwaSan wouldnt have stopped or interfered. They just dont sit and analyze that even if they have chosen the wrong path, how WRONG that path is. The path that they have chosen is not gonna make anything RIGHT no matter how GOOOD their intentions are. Seriously!! they both are blind. Laksh is blind in anger and Ragini is blind in her love. They both just cannot see beyond that.


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