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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: xsumi



I'm not being rude but I think that's just the past mindset of Indian culture, its the 21st century everyone has moved on, we are living in a different society now. You can have a good friendly relationship with your brother in law. When I'm married I will, who cares if I joke around with him, not everything is sexual. This is just your traditional thought. Centres have changed you can have a good relationship without making things look sexual with your bro in law

Honey you need to come into the western world now, it's not 1980's days anymore
Ragini was hAvig a good bro in law relationship with Sanskrar but people think wrong ... It's your past Indian traditional thought... Those times are gone girl



Sorry for barging in but what's wrong with Indian Culture. last time I checked India has got Woman for prime minister not America. Our culture tells us to respect woman and respect the relationships and boundaries that comes with it.

What's wrong with traditional thoughts?
Traditional doesn't equate to regressive thoughts.

Western world.. Anything wrong with eastern world? Yes we have got our faults but let me know if 'western world' scores 10 on 10.

Indian traditional thoughts?
again what the heck is wrong with maintaining thoughts of the oldest culture in the world whose core foundation is respect and humanity?

It is one thing to question certain norms of culture and tradition; another to spit upon your own roots.





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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Banjaaran.


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Sorry for barging in but what's wrong with Indian Culture. last time I checked India has got Woman for prime minister not America. Our culture tells us to respect woman and respect the relationships and boundaries that comes with it.

What's wrong with traditional thoughts?
Traditional doesn't equate to regressive thoughts.

Western world.. Anything wrong with eastern world? Yes we have got our faults but let me know if 'western world' scores 10 on 10.

Indian traditional thoughts?
again what the heck is wrong with maintaining thoughts of the oldest culture in the world whose core foundation is respect and humanity?

It is one thing to question certain norms of culture and tradition; another to spit upon your own roots.</font>




Every culture has flaws and I agree on that. Of course I like my Indian culture and tradition but some parts I don't agree it. Just like my British culture. There's things I like and things I hate
It's good India has a women prime minister, England have also had women PM and America are likely to have a women as their Presidant aswell.

The only thing I hate about Indian culture is the fact you need restriction from your family member. Especially from the opposite sex.
People on IF here are all young adults, can't believe some girls here are saying ragini is acting sexual just because her hands are on sanskar. Omg not everything has to be sexual. She is just having a friendly relationship with the Bro in law.
Tbh its frustrating, this mindset needs to go now.
If people were accusing swara of touching laksh as a friendly way as a sis in law way I would stick up for Swara because i just think this restriction on Indian culture needs to go. Of course I love my Indian culture but it will have flaws
Not all western cultures are perfect as well I agree, there are many British flaws which I hate aswell and wish it can change in my Country aswell.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: swakriti


Sorry but i don't know anyone from 21st century who would accuse one's own bil for molestation & later not even apologize for that. I am not against anyone touching anyone but after all these molestation accusations and all, atleast wanted an apology from her, don't forget he was also a former friend of her whom she accused of molestaion. And i think no one would do that to anyone even though that someone is your enemy in 21st century too if not the 80's 😊



I agree but I was talking about molestation, my argument was about ragini touching her bro in law. Which some People think it is sexual.
Typical thoughts
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Posted: 9 years ago
Ok. I have seen the main post and some posts on the last 2 pages.

I can only say it would do everyone good to not point fingers on others. That to when they have no and I repeat no proof at all let alone a conclusive one. When one points fingers at other's without proof, they forget that their own three fingers are pointing towards them.

Aparna is a senior member of this Forum and respected one. She does not need to create fake id's to put in her 2 cents. She is a mature lady and not some silly teenager out to vent her frustrations in such a crass way. She has got class. Period.

Aparna was merely pointing to the very recent posts made by some very ardent RagLak fans bashing and demeaning Swara for slapping her sister as she was playing with everyone's emotions, once the GB revelation promo was out.

One of the RagLak fans made such a good comment with such high class taste that the DT closed the thread itself and temporarily banned the said RagLak fan's IF account.

All she is trying to say is just as seeing Ragz being maligned and bashed hurts RagLak n Ragz fans, similarly, bad mouthing and name calling hurts Swara and SwaSan fans.

@Amit: I seriously feel that if you wanna have a healthy discussion about what went wrong with our favourite serial. Kindly do it in a better way n avoid your brashness. While IF is an open forum and everyone has the right to post their views, toning downs once language a bit while having a discussion, let alone a healthy one will be good.

I would like to add that I personally find Ragz's continued touching of Sanskaar extremely yucky. It leaves a very bad taste in SwaSan fans mouth and I would like to hazard a guess that it is the same with RagLak fans as well. It irks SwaSan fans to no end especially more because Ragz had falsely accused the said BIL of attempted Rape and Molestation. After that, all this touching from the so called victim is unpalatable. Swara, Sankaar's legally wedded loving wife was merely holding his hand crying. In fact what Ragz did that day if a wife was shown doing, that looks good. Not ones sali and SIL. Sanskaar's wife has messaged him and not Ragz, so she has no business of snatching Sanskaar's phone like that.

Ragz can show her concern via her words n actions and that would be enough to convince everyone of her concern and good intentions. No need to touch Sanskaar. Period.

Plus Swara and Ragz are not normal sisters. I have a younger sister n can certify and ratify from her that she will not push me down a bridge of the sake of a guy. Try to portray me as a two timer trying to play up with 2 guys at the same time. Nor will she stab me once she realizes that the man she loves the most is dead because of me. I believe it was Ragz who had sent goons to attack Sanskaar during Bajirao sequence and hit him on the head with a vase as well. So let's not talk of normal relationship dynamics when it comes to Swara and Ragz, let alone normal BIL and SIL.

What Ragz has done is done and the cv's have given us a forced and extremely rushed redemption track, so let's let the graves rest where they are and not dig them up.
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Posted: 9 years ago
Now that I am here let me air my POV too.

No one single actor or character can carry the serial upon their shoulders and take it to heights unless ably aided by other factors.
and No single actor or character can sink the show unless aided by other factors.

Tejasswi signed up for positive character. She should have waited for Cvs to turn her negative character back to positive mode. but she gave ultimatum. and instead of giving her a proper redemption Cvs came up with ... Maalkin track. that further pushed her into point of no return.
If they could give Sanskaar a beautiful redemption why did they messed with Ragini?
Her redemption track would have been worth watching. considering her dark deeds. Alas! Both the actor and Cvs should have dealt with the situation in a better way. Serial kuch aur hota!

But No Ragini alone can't tank a serial to pits. other factors made generous contributions.

Touchy feely with Sanskaar:

Swara was trashed brutally when she became too palsy with Laksh when she was married to Sanskaar. and this when she has always been a friendly person. and Laksh too was friendly guy.

Ragini on the other hand grew up in conservative environment. Mixed company = Maanbhang. She herself was chui-mui.
I was one of the biggest Sangini friendship shipper since I found that bond beautiful. whatever the foundation maybe. genuine bond. total respect for boundaries.

and now if she acts too touchy with the guy it looks inappropriate. because the person in the question is Sanskaar. who is NOT a touchy kind of guy. someone who even thwarted Swara from hugging him.
and he is her Jeth now. Not her old partner in crime buddy.
equations changed.

But hey that doesn't mean she is lusting after him. saying this is just as gross as using profanities for Swara just because three leads shared screen space with her.



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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: xsumi



Every culture has flaws and I agree on that. Of course I like my Indian culture and tradition but some parts I don't agree it. Just like my British culture. There's things I like and things I hate
It's good India has a women prime minister, England have also had women PM and America are likely to have a women as their Presidant aswell.

The only thing I hate about Indian culture is the fact you need restriction from your family member. Especially from the opposite sex.
People on IF here are all young adults, can't believe some girls here are saying ragini is acting sexual just because her hands are on sanskar. Omg not everything has to be sexual. She is just having a friendly relationship with the Bro in law.
Tbh its frustrating, this mindset needs to go now.
If people were accusing swara of touching laksh as a friendly way as a sis in law way I would stick up for Swara because i just think this restriction on Indian culture needs to go. Of course I love my Indian culture but it will have flaws
Not all western cultures are perfect as well I agree, there are many British flaws which I hate aswell and wish it can change in my Country aswell.



I agree all the cultures has their fair share of faults. But your earlier post asked the other member to 'get past Indian traditional thoughts' and 'Embrace western world'.
why should she do that?
Just because your culture has faults doesn't mean you forsake it for other cultures which are equally flawed.

criticism and downright disparaging. the above mentioned statements fell in later category.

Restrictions, dowry laws, female infanticide, caste culture I want to change lot many things from my culture but that doesn't mean I will give up on it. or look down upon it.

with all due respect if Ragini is being called names you probably missed things Swara was called. By RagLak fans.
and they are girls too. culture has nothing to do with it.
Mindset is.



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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: xsumi



I'm not being rude but I think that's just the past mindset of Indian culture, its the 21st century everyone has moved on, we are living in a different society now. You can have a good friendly relationship with your brother in law. When I'm married I will, who cares if I joke around with him, not everything is sexual. This is just your traditional thought. Centres have changed you can have a good relationship without making things look sexual with your bro in law

Honey you need to come into the western world now, it's not 1980's days anymore
Ragini was hAvig a good bro in law relationship with Sanskrar but people think wrong ... It's your past Indian traditional thought... Those times are gone girl


Oh no no dear u r not rude at all...okk i agree i must be sounding narrow minded person here...i agree dat our society is now moving on from such things...but still dear we r living in indian society which has certain respect for each relationship...dere certain limits in each relationship...n u have to agree dat sr cvs showed it in show too n mostly through ragini only...
U r talking abt same ragini na who was very polite sensitive..n den gave to her own sis in river..
Dis is d same ragini na who called her bil bhayya n den accused him for sexually molesting her...
Is dis d same ragini na who attacked her same bil whom wid she is now trying to over freindly...
If it is d same ragini den i think ragini is geting modern a bit more faster...bcoz
I think itni modern to nai hui h abi indian society so wat its 19th century or 21st century..it doesn't matter...

N u have to agree wid me dat after all dis ragini and Sanskaar doesn't share d same equation which a normal bil n sil can have...bcoz d statement of their relationship change on d day wen she accused sanskar for such charges which a normal indian girl can never think of...
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Banjaaran.


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I agree all the cultures has their fair share of faults. But your earlier post asked the other member to 'get past Indian traditional thoughts' and 'Embrace western world'.
why should she do that?
Just because your culture has faults doesn't mean you forsake it for other cultures which are equally flawed.

criticism and downright disparaging. the above mentioned statements fell in later category.

Restrictions, dowry laws, female infanticide, caste culture I want to change lot many things from my culture but that doesn't mean I will give up on it. or look down upon it.

with all due respect if Ragini is being called names you probably missed things Swara was called. By RagLak fans.
and they are girls too. culture has nothing to do with it.
Mindset is.</font>




When I said her past the Indian traditional thought I meant about family restriction, like A women can't have a good friendly relationship with the Bil, some people act as if it like a sin.
I don't expect people to say ragini is acting sexual, many girls here are are modern Indian who accept women have rights so I don't see why they say ragini is acting sexual for taking sanskar phone and touching his arms. I expect a 80 year old to say this like my grandma who still thinks she is living in 1980 days
I agree both girls have been called names but I don't expect people to say she is asking sexual with her Bil especially cause we are loving in the 21st centrey now
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Posted: 9 years ago
126 reply to this disgusting post? Just report it raglak fan. ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
Raglak fans no need to give justification to this insane person of this post. ..he /she s diehard hater of ragini ...

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