Originally posted by: ..CrazyInLove..
Heyy Shona 🤗 How have you been?
Amazing post, SwaSan's journey is epic. Nothing in their relationship developed overnight. It was a long process. From trust to friendship to respect to love, and everything in between. Swara's feeling developed so gradually, it was very well done. If she would have understood his feelings in the beginning, that would have been overnight love. She needed to reject him first to get over her hesitation about love after her first heartbreak. He is not a rebound. And she accepted him when she was completely ready to reciprocate his love. And so what if she realized after he went away from her, realization may be an overnight thing, but falling in love is not, their bond of friendship which stood strong in the most difficult of times is not, and their trust definitely was not built overnight. Anyways I feel she may have already started realizing her soft corner towards him much before her realization. But that night forced her to see the magnitude of his importance in her life, something she would never have been able to understand if he hadn't distanced himself.
And to describe Sanskaar's feelings, I would fall short of words. He is such a patient man. He understood, he endured, he sacrificed, and he waited all for her. Why wouldn't he be bonded to her instantly? Her positivity gave him strength, hope and peace to lead a happy life. And that bond wasn't of love, it was of gratefulness to free him from the burden he had been hauling for the last 5 years.
It's a shame they aren't given their due credit. After such a long wait, we weren't even given a proper wedding sparing us of SwaSan having to share their mandap. Their wedding was infused with so many unnecessary external elements and drama. And now the other couple gets married so peacefully. Why this unfairness? 😡 (Note: Correct me if I am wrong about the other couple's wedding, I have not bothered to watch the episodes as the other characters don't interest me one bit. But watching the SwaSan scenes makes it seem like everything was all hunky dory, and no ruckus created during/after the wedding.)
I will stop now because I have already rambled enough. But I needed to, it's been so long since I have posted anything. Hope you are doing well.
Love,
Sans
Hi Sans!! OMG such a long time!! I am good!! How have you been?
Amazing post, SwaSan's journey is epic. Nothing in their relationship developed overnight. It was a long process. From trust to friendship to respect to love, and everything in between. Swara's feeling developed so gradually, it was very well done. If she would have understood his feelings in the beginning, that would have been overnight love. She needed to reject him first to get over her hesitation about love after her first heartbreak. He is not a rebound. And she accepted him when she was completely ready to reciprocate his love. And so what if she realized after he went away from her, realization may be an overnight thing, but falling in love is not, their bond of friendship which stood strong in the most difficult of times is not, and their trust definitely was not built overnight. Anyways I feel she may have already started realizing her soft corner towards him much before her realization. But that night forced her to see the magnitude of his importance in her life, something she would never have been able to understand if he hadn't distanced himsel
You have said it amazingly Sans!! I mean much i wish you would have made this post. Seriously!! And I so agree with you!! Everything in case of SwaSan happened at their own pace and at the right time. It wasnt freaking an overnight thing which just happened and became soulmates. The gradual change from strangers, to friends, to best friends, to lovers and then to soulmates. And it freaking took 10+ months to reach that level.
Exactly!! the only reason Sanskaar fell for Swara was because of her positivity even after enduring so much in her life. It attracted him to the level that he ended up falling for his victim.
I know Sans!! i have been so upset that the wedding of our sweethearts wasnt even shown properly just to start the newest stupid drama. I mean they could have waited for atleast one episode, showed the wedding happening properly and then start laksh's drama. But no!! they had to ruin the wedding of SwaSan to kickstart the drama.
Oh yah, the wedding of other couple did happen without any drama or interference with focus full on them. But the funny thing is the way their story was rushed, I still cannot find the connection.
Thanks once again for reading and commenting Sans!! And do come to the forum often.
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