Okay it's my opinion:
If I met someone like Sanskaar, who tried to destroy my life & whatever Sanskaar did to Swara, I would have punish him of course! And would not forgive him easily the way Swara did though she was right to forgive him considering his tragic life.
I would have do the same Bt not instantly!
But what you said about accepting, well yes if he repent hard & do everything in his power to do everything right & redeem himself, love me & support me, stand by me in every situation, protect me, respect me, cherish & adore me, always understand my feelings Just the way Sanskaar do; then YES I will accept such person who maybe did horrible mistakes but his conscious & his good heart triumph at the end!
I will obviously prefer someone like Sanskaar (If that person is like Sanskaar redeem himself & repent & earn forgiveness) rather than someone like Laksh!
I understand what you meant by it is just a show that's why Swara fall in love with someone who tried to destroy her life! True. Bt again, why we fans like the character Sanskaar? Obviously not bcoz VK playing this...I'm also a die hard VK fans & started watching the show regularly just bcoz of him! Bt I have fallen for the character Sanskaar as well just bcoz of his characterization, his nature! Isn't it true for you & for other Sanskaar fans as well? If he didn't repent & rectify himself even though Swara forgot him, and if he didn't do all of those things to protect Swara, could you support Sanskaar even though VK was playing it?
NO! I don't think so! We support Sanskaar for obvious reasons!
So yes I would love and accept someone like Sanskaar for only those obvious reasons!