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I don't mind her walking away from a fight. you are right everyone does it either because they get pissed off or because they want to take a break to calm down before they talk and make things worse.
the problem here is that it is not a matter of jealousy or insecurity because there is nothing to be insecure about when the other person is telling you that his ex is a bad person and is trying to come between then and make them fight. he is accusing the ex and mistrusting her because he is worried about swara. in such a situation if you ask the person, are you having problems forgetting your ex? i can understand first love is special and you cannot forget it. why are you obsessed with her...the message you are actually conveying is that I don't trust what you are saying and cannot give you benefit of doubt even if you give it to me and ask me to give it to you. you haven't gotten over your ex. you still love her and don't love me as much hence i am insecure. so it is not trusting the other person about their doubts and not trusting their love for you. which is very different from a fight where you have difference of opinions
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