Isn't it normal for Partners to sometimes walk away n then come back?

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: NitaMikealson
Shona dear, i meant to reply even in AT but got diverted with some other conversation.
You are not wrong in defending swara. And yes i can ser you point. It makes sense. Normally couple or friends behave like it. But the problem is with the fact that i have seen angry sanskaar when swara refused to believe him and i domt want him to make an reappearnce. I just have kavitha and janki reappearnce to worry about.

So all this anger, well not anger but disappointemet towards swara stems from the fact it might lead to a big MU. And so we are worried about it. So relax. I love swara too. And i wont be able stay disappointed with her for long

Hey Nita,

dont sorry Love!! Its ok!! When I commented about this on AT, I realized I should just make a post about this!! Since some were kind of panicking regarding the situation!!!

And even though I didn't like the fight, what I am damn sure about is that its not gonna led to the big MU like last time!! That time the problem was SwaSan weren't on the same page regarding their feelings. Sanskaar first didn't know. And when he knew, he was in denial!! Now he knows how much and to what depth she loves him, so the big MU is definitely not possible between them. They are on the same page when it comes to there feelings for each other. So dont worry!!

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: foresight
I don't mind her walking away from a fight. you are right everyone does it either because they get pissed off or because they want to take a break to calm down before they talk and make things worse.
the problem here is that it is not a matter of jealousy or insecurity because there is nothing to be insecure about when the other person is telling you that his ex is a bad person and is trying to come between then and make them fight. he is accusing the ex and mistrusting her because he is worried about swara. in such a situation if you ask the person, are you having problems forgetting your ex? i can understand first love is special and you cannot forget it. why are you obsessed with her...the message you are actually conveying is that I don't trust what you are saying and cannot give you benefit of doubt even if you give it to me and ask me to give it to you. you haven't gotten over your ex. you still love her and don't love me as much hence i am insecure. so it is not trusting the other person about their doubts and not trusting their love for you. which is very different from a fight where you have difference of opinions

Sapna, what I feel is the problem is not just the insecurity but it is the combination of insecurity + frustration of not being able to catch the culprit!! For Swara, its crystal clear that it is Maasi who is doing all this. Not that she has any solid proofs. But Maasi with her actions and ramblings in FRONT OF EVERYONE is constantly proving that it could be her. Its not that Sanskaar is not aware of what Maasi thinks of Swara and their wedding!! So she is frustrated thinking that when it is clear it can be Maasi, why is he constantly thinking abut Kavita? She hasn't seen Kavita.And plus, she is way too naive to think Kavita can do that since she united them. She would definitely not think about past on how Ragini turned into an obsessive mess. Yes, she is way too stupid to not think out of the box and not trust Sanskaar's instinct. She is definitely wrong here. She should atleast let me prove which she is not letting him!! She should give him the benefit of doubt when he is giving her too!!!

But I still feel, its not out of mistrust. It was pure out of frustration + jealousy!!

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: Lavender_Love
I know Shona...it can be and I may have misinterpreted as mistrust. But just whatever it is I hope they dont let it come it between their relationship thats all...

They won't let it go to that situation Nitzy!! At that time, the situation was completely different. Initially, Sanskaar was not at all aware of Swara's feelings for him. And he got to know about her feelings at really wrong time. So for him to accept that was very difficult and thats why he went into denial.

Now is not the case. No matter how much they fight and argue, they both are aware of their feelings and the intensity of feelings for each other. So, it would definitely not go that bad.

Yes, there are high chances of small MUs continuing with Swara finally reaching the death bed and realizing Sanskaar has been right all along. But all this will bring them closer and definitely not drift them apart

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: --Anna--
Actually I want to praise Swara too! I saw the last scene where she gave it back to Maasi and it was SO awesome!! 👏👏👏 I love a sherni Swara and she is such a treat to watch!! 👏

I only saw the OLV and I enjoyed that like no other!!!!

Its always a treat to watch the sherni Swara in action👏