Why I think both SwaSan are right on their stand? - Page 3

Originally posted by: sam.

Agree with you shona till now I am still OK with both swara and sanskar's POV ! Swara did the right thing by walking away from the situation and sanskar is also in a lot of emotional turmoil right now we all might hate cavity with a passion but sanskar doesn't he genuinely loved kavita 5 years back he turned against his whole family for her ! So there was a lot of love there though we might find it hard to accept .For me till now there hasn't been any butchering of characters there have been character inconsistencies with regards to both swara and sanskar which is expected in any long running shows when the CV's have to somehow come up with some stupid twists of theirs but they have yet to cross the line completely ! But for me atleast if sanskar goes ahead with the engagement for me atleast then CV's have crossed the line as far as how sanskar's character has been shaped so far which will be really really sad and disheartening !!!

Originally posted by: manasie23

Hey Shonali I know neither of tuem are at fault but Sanskaar's dialogues in tue recent OLV are making me cringe... Literally so here I am not going to blame Sanskaar but the dialogue writer... And also I know Sanskaar is going to be silent because he thinks kavita wont be able to bear the truth but wont he be misleading her.. Also during SwaSan marriage yes they were forced and Sanskaar married to protect Swara and Shomi but he did love her and wanted to marry her though not forcefully and here Sanskaar has no more feelings for Kavita only maybe a little soft corner for what Kavita has been through... It is evident because all he keeps on thinking about is Swara and their memories...
"Time waits for noone, it sympathises with noone... You need to learn to move on"

Originally posted by: sarathy321

Ok yaar
I can agree swara didn't need anyone to protect her when rags bashed on her, but do u think she didn't need anyone to comfort her when her love was being ssnatced in front of her...
I agree sanskaars denial was somewhat excusable but was it really excusable in ethe second backhug scene when swara was saying she can't live without her...I don't find it excusable as it is shown sanskaars love is more intense than that of swara...
The other thing I see is do u remember swara going to sanskaar and clearing the air bw them in lakshs matter ...I want sanskaar also to do the same. ...if he had decided to live with swara...I want him to clear the air as soon as possible. ...
These thoughts come in ma mind as I had already posted ...sanskaar is the best character I have seen on tv and I can't take it cvs butchering him...
And above all what is sanskaar expecting swara to do? Is he expecting her to confess and come back. when she had already told she wants him to take her back in his life and she is leaving the decision on him to make?
Actually I know I am just bashing on sanskaar ...still I can't see swara suffering only becoz she recognised her love late and confessed him late...
I am actually waiting for today's episode. ...may be he will agree to kavita but I want him to talk to swara and make her understand what is in his mind and want him to convey swara that he needs time to make kavita understand. ...This is what I am expecting from sanskaar that I liked...
I don't know why I am spending this much time just thinking about this ...

Originally posted by: ..CrazyInLove..

Hi Shona

Amazing post 😃

You've penned down everything I was thinking. SwaSan's pain almost made me cry today. Both are so helpless in this situation, it's really sad. Seeing them sad, I got so irritated at all the MM people, like what a useless, nonsensical bunch they are. 😡 Thanking Kavita, really?! No acknowledgement given or thanks said for the hardships Swara faced bringing Kavita to MM. After so many kaands, Ragini and Dadi are still allowed to stay in the house, and Kavita seems to be taken in and honour of bahu will readily be bestowed upon her whether or not Sanskaar still loves her. But Swara who has always stood by them is insulted, betrayed, questioned, and has to leave the house time and again. Matters relating to SwaSan are inconsequential to them.

Swara's decision about leaving until Sanskaar wants to be with her is one of her wisest, I must say. She is following her patidev's footsteps and has learned how to do Sanskaar-wala love. A love without expectations, without bounds, where one's true happiness lies in the happiness of the other. I am so proud of her decision to give him space, especially when the other girl is not leaving a single chance to touch him.

I love how Sanskaar is so clear about his feelings for Swara and I am trying to give him as much leeway as possible, but he really needs to get out of his mute mode soon. I get how hard it must be for him, especially since Kavita has never wronged him and had Swara not entered his life, he would've still been pining for her. I have no problem if he wants to take his time in telling Kavita, but it should not be at the expense of Swara. He needs to go to baadi and clear things with Swara first and then he can take his own sweet time in revealing whatever he needs to Kavita.

Some communication needs to happen, so babies can finally know they are both pining and waiting for each other so they can fix everything as a team like before. They need to put themselves out of misery (and me out of mine) and stop enduring all this crap for undeserving people.

Originally posted by: SwaSanFanGirl

@Bold: I think we might get a scene today. I am not sure though. Varun did say in his IV that Sanskaar tries to talk to Swara. Lets see how and what they talk.

I think the only thing Sanskaar would be expecting from Swara right now is patience and understanding, which Swara is already giving him. Yes, we saw him running towards Kavita thinking that she was Swara. Its just his reflex reaction to his pinning for her. He has finally realized that she does love him, which was so unexpected for him and before he could tell her and reciprocate, another barrier showed up between them. He just wants her but still is not able to with her. They both are suffering, immensely. And yes, Sanskaar can only bring an end to this by communicating.

I just want him to communicate with Swara and Kavita. Thats it!! And hope the drama is not stretched until the wedding.

Originally posted by: LoveSonu2408

shona🤗

beautiful post.yep,thy both r justified.wht swara did was right.sanskar shud take the discion.swara let him knew tht she loves him,nw its totally upon him whom he wanted.i didnt want her to run behind him untill sanskar say her wht he wants.

&sanskar,yes he z in pain.he z clear in his heart & mind,jst he hs to tell it.4m his pov he is right.bt still i'll say he shud talk with swara.i knw thrz nothng to talk bt still,he cnt tell kavita,bt he cn tell swara na.jst tell her wht he wants & why he cnt tell kavita...i knw tht will hurt thm both.bt i wnt thy together atleast talk thn cm with a solution.

bdw,i really dnt wnt he do the engagemnt.agar wajah helplessness kyu na ho..tht will butcher him i thnk.bt the way thy r saying divorce,majburi shadi seems swasan remarraige on the way.i dnt want any swap dulhan or last moment swasan marraige either swasan hs sm plan which i doubt.sanskar going through all those rituals means he kind of agree with ths engagemnt-marraige n all-i dnt wnt tht.he is fearing tht his discion hurt kavita,my qs his silence hurting swara...wht abt tht?i really wnt thy talk with each other which will nt happen.

p.s-hum jitna vi sar patak le hoga wohi jo cvs chahega & trp bolega.i m fearing ki thy will drag ths if trp rise.

Originally posted by: SwaSanFanGirl

Hey Sree,

Now a days even i am sad thinking how much our babies are suffering😕

I think what he tried to convey was He is the same Sanskaar now that he was 5 years ago, all thanks to Swara. And I don't think that broke her determination. Had it broke her, she would have just backed out completely telling Sanskaar to accept Kavita and wishing them a happy life. But she didn't. She still left the decision on Sanskaar to chose between her and Kavita and decided to abide by that no matter what happens.

I think Sanskaar will be shown talking to Swara as well. Atleast thats what Varun mentioned in his promo shoot ka IV.

Yes, he will have to speak up and convey the truth asap before it is too late!!