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Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum

Friends...please help me. I feel a mid life crisis coming on, though I just hit 30 earlier this year. ...

I studied in a co-ed all through my school and college years, and post graduate as well...was lucky enough to have several wonderful friends among girls as well as guys. But I don't know...friendship didn't seem to involve so much touchy---feeliness 😕 😕

Either I am racing into my dotage far too soon...if that's the case then please excuse the generation gap...or else swaragini CVs seem to have slightly misunderstood the concept of "dosti" between a guy and a girl. ...

Please let me know. If its just the generation gap thing, I guess I better start preparing for my second childhood 😆 😆

Originally posted by: tootiefrootie11

😆 Friendship hi nahi- they MU everything and that's why they create so many MU amongst the characters. See, I am mega close to my devar (jeth too but let's go with devar as we have a real bond) but funnily enough he never stares at me with such a cheap look, I never act around him like a blushing tittering teenager and even funnier- he wasn't even in a relationship with me before (the thought has made me feel ill). We are so brother-sister like- now I see the bhabhi devar in my fave show- and I wonder- where is everyone else going wrong?! 😕

Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum

Shrutu. ..😉

Yaar that's what I've been saying. ..there's a context to this whole equation, a complicated, painful history. I can't believe...just can't, that any girl would let herself be so free with an ex fiance, who clearly was not over her, and was obsessively harassing her till 24 hours before.

Man...when she made that attempt to talk to Sanskaar, and Lakshya headed off that interaction by fake embracing Sanskaar and thanking him (in such a way as to heighten his insecurity), I felt like scalding Lakshya all over again. Or getting him pepper sprayed or tasered. But Swara is ok letting him hold her arm and buy her stuff.

I'm convinced now, that the kidnappers released Swara ka humshakal. The earlier Swara would never behave this way. 😕

Viji how are you? Man I felt like throwing the remote on the TV Screen. And the person evoking this violent streak in me is not laksh but Swara. Frankly speaking I was in an all girls school and did not interact alot with guys but I used to hang out with some of my class mates who had a couple of guy friends and being an observer never once did I witness any moment that I felt could have been inappropriate.

Normally, when it comes to the Swasan equation I don't speak too negatively about Swara because I know she does not love Sanskar but whatever she is doing with Lakshya is beyond me. Her and Lakshya did not have such a touchy-feely friendship back before they fell in love so what gives now?

Fine, you don't accept your marriage with Sanskar I get that but marriage is still a sacred institution which you yourself stated so it deserves a certain level of respect. No need to love your husband but living in a joint family, sense should prevail. You want to turn a blind eye to your husband and overlook his feelings, okay fine I will accept that too but at least have the decency to respect the family surrounding you especially the elders.

That one time in Swara's excitement she went into hug Sanskar. What did he do? He held her back and instead extended out his hand to shake. The guy felt awkward in touching her. He understands his limits even as a friend. He hesitates before having any physical contact with her unless it's necessary like comforting her even then it's mostly she who seeks him out first.

I don't even want to get into the history between Swara and Lakshya. Everyone has mentioned it in some capacity. My issue is the complete disregard Swara has for the family. Sanskar will understand, he will overlook, and he will accept but not everyone is a Sanskar. His family will not understand, they will take everything at face value and Lakshya's bubble of delusion will continue to grow to a point where he will lose sense of reality just like Ragini did. Lakshya lead Ragini on and now Swara is doing the same thing, in Lakshya's eye all of these are green signals.

Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum

Shrutu. ..😉

Yaar that's what I've been saying. ..there's a context to this whole equation, a complicated, painful history. I can't believe...just can't, that any girl would let herself be so free with an ex fiance, who clearly was not over her, and was obsessively harassing her till 24 hours before.

Man...when she made that attempt to talk to Sanskaar, and Lakshya headed off that interaction by fake embracing Sanskaar and thanking him (in such a way as to heighten his insecurity), I felt like scalding Lakshya all over again. Or getting him pepper sprayed or tasered. But Swara is ok letting him hold her arm and buy her stuff.

I'm convinced now, that the kidnappers released Swara ka humshakal. The earlier Swara would never behave this way. 😕

Originally posted by: .Regal.

Did Laksh seriously do this??? I will join you in pepper spraying Laksh 😆! This show is slowly testing my patience 😡😡. I cant handle them mistreating Sanskaar anymore. Give him a break, please!

The amount of MU they create is mind boggling. Like Swara, talk to Sanskaar - how is this difficult. I swear, all these MU would disappear if the characters actually tried to communicate with each.

She did try to talk to Sanskaar 😕

Originally posted by: canuck-umz

Normally, when it comes to the Swasan equation I don't speak too negatively about Swara because I know she does not love Sanskar but whatever she is doing with Lakshya is beyond me. Her and Lakshya did not have such a touchy-feely friendship back before they fell in love so what gives now?

Fine, you don't accept your marriage with Sanskar I get that but marriage is still a sacred institution which you yourself stated so it deserves a certain level of respect. No need to love your husband but living in a joint family, sense should prevail. You want to turn a blind eye to your husband and overlook his feelings, okay fine I will accept that too but at least have the decency to respect the family surrounding you especially the elders.

That one time in Swara's excitement she went into hug Sanskar. What did he do? He held her back and instead extended out his hand to shake. The guy felt awkward in touching her. He understands his limits even as a friend. He hesitates before having any physical contact with her unless it's necessary like comforting her even then it's mostly she who seeks him out first.

I don't even want to get into the history between Swara and Lakshya. Everyone has mentioned it in some capacity. My issue is the complete disregard Swara has for the family. Sanskar will understand, he will overlook, and he will accept but not everyone is a Sanskar. His family will not understand, they will take everything at face value and Lakshya's bubble of delusion will continue to grow to a point where he will lose sense of reality just like Ragini did. Lakshya lead Ragini on and now Swara is doing the same thing, in Lakshya's eye all of these are green signals.

Originally posted by: -RayOfHope-

She did try to talk to Sanskaar 😕

But she told him that she is thankful that he ( Sanskaar ) asked her to "Give one chance " to Lakshya

Now what does that mean ? Go figure

Originally posted by: .Regal.

Oh no.🤢 She was too ambiguous. Sanskaar told you to give Laksh a romantic shot, and you told him you are grateful that he suggested you to do that, what is a guy to think???

And when after listening to this , Sanskaar hung up the call , she wondered what is wrong with him?