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Cogito_Ergo_Sum

@Cogito_Ergo_Sum

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Posted: 10 years ago

Friends...please help me. I feel a mid life crisis coming on, though I just hit 30 earlier this year. ...😆

I studied in a co-ed all through my school and college years, and post graduate as well...was lucky enough to have several wonderful friends among girls as well as guys. But I don't know...friendship didn't seem to involve so much touchy---feeliness 😕 😕.

Ok, perhaps in the occasional case of a very close guy friend, one was very sure of. But neither I nor any of my gal pals would ever have dreamed of this much, with a guy who had a history of feeling "more than friendship", and had, incidentally, followed extremely dubious tactics of harassment till a day before! Simply makes no sense.

Either I am racing into my dotage far too soon...if that's the case then please excuse the generation gap...or else swaragini CVs seem to have slightly misunderstood the concept of "dosti" between a guy and a girl. ...😕

If its just the generation gap thing, I guess I better start preparing for my second childhood 😆 😆

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SwaSan4ever

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Posted: 10 years ago

Pyar dosti hai dosti Pyar hai may b cv's went to tht concept but if I'm not mistaken sanskar & swara Bhi friends hai & sanskar is her hubby too still he doesn't show such attitude like lakshya did 😕 it's not actually generation gap it's a chemical locha in cv's Dimag

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Cogito_Ergo_Sum

@Cogito_Ergo_Sum

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: SwaSan4ever
Pyar dosti hai dosti Pyar hai may b cv's went to tht concept but if I'm not mistaken sanskar & swara Bhi friends hai & sanskar is her hubby too still he doesn't show such attitude like lakshya did 😕 it's not actually generation gap it's a chemical locha in cv's Dimag

I am amazed at what they are making a smart, perceptive girl like Swara do. Here's a guy who till the day before, was stalking her and literally harassing her. And now she lets him hold her, drape an arm over her shoulder, buy her gifts, puts color on his face...

I dont know. It all seems too much to take. Like you rightly said, Sanskaar was her friend who stood by her through the turmoil...and he held her to comfort her, yes, when she was feeling low. But never like this. And i am simply gobsmacked that Swara is shown so unconscious of the possible implications of her actions as far as Lakshya is concerned.

It just doesn't seem like her at all. She was not this naive.

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ddljforever

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Posted: 10 years ago

I am still in college , and I have guy friends , but never played bin mausam ke holi with them 😆

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--Anna--

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Posted: 10 years ago

I have shared such a relationship with a couple of male friends - but yes, had I been in Swara's situation, I would definitely keep my distance from Laksh. Especially the way he had been behaving for the past few days - I would be wary of his actions and words.

But Viji, I have accepted Swara is the dumbest and Naivest character in the history of Indian TV and I have stopped getting bothered about it.

I focus only on Sanskaar.

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Monica_Suhasini

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum
Friends...please help me. I feel a mid life crisis coming on, though I just hit 30 earlier this year. ...
I studied in a co-ed all through my school and college years, and post graduate as well...was lucky enough to have several wonderful friends among girls as well as guys. But I don't know...friendship didn't seem to involve so much touchy---feeliness 😕 😕

Either I am racing into my dotage far too soon...if that's the case then please excuse the generation gap...or else swaragini CVs seem to have slightly misunderstood the concept of "dosti" between a guy and a girl. ...

Please let me know. If its just the generation gap thing, I guess I better start preparing for my second childhood 😆 😆

not slightly viji

they completely misunderstood

not generation gap...swaragini ka kamaal😆

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nissi or jesi

@Jess_Ru

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Posted: 10 years ago

Hey vijji ur fictions suggest dat ur smart girl or women nd dis just my thought

for me friendship is our comfort zone how much comfort we feel with the person be it girl or boy i too have guy friends but only two are there with whom i sometimes be touchy like beating etc...

my brain saying dis bs

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nimmi

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Posted: 10 years ago

dear Viji..

you and me; my friend are just old hags with one leg in kabr..
ancient old things who needs to be dusted once a while.😆.

i get friendship between a girl and guy.. not the buddy project between a wrist slashing stalker cum jija cum devar with his obsession, cum ex-flame cum saali cum bhabhi.

i need to go to haridwar soon. prabhu ke darshan ke liye..
feeling THAT old.

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Cogito_Ergo_Sum

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Messi2
Hey vijji ur fictions suggest dat ur smart girl or women nd dis just my thought

for me friendship is our comfort zone how much comfort we feel with the person be it girl or boy i too have guy friends but only two are there with whom i sometimes be touchy like beating etc...

my brain saying dis bs

Hey Messi...thanks for the compliment 😊

True yaar, definitely when there is a comfort level with pals then a certain level of liberty is taken...since you KNOW that there won't be any MU, or they won't take it in any other way.

My point in this case is, here is a guy who was obsessively stalking Swara till a day before, and even supposedly cut his wrist to blackmail her into staying. After that, to act in such a manner...I don't know. It seems unrealistic. Not at all like the smart girl Swara is shown to be.

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chi1tra

@chi1tra

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Ya I am not judging the body contact or physical comfort level with Lux but no one transforms that drastically:

Like in the morning Lux saves Swara from tripping on her heels (thanks to the cupid's stone that Ragini threw in her way) and how irritatingly Swara removes his hand from her arm.

And 5 hours later she is all we-are-chaddi-buddies type. I mean come on for the smart girl that she has been portrayed as give both Lux & Ragini time and bloody OBSERVE.

Also in a house full of elders (who she noticed) are pissed at her she is losing control over her self and goofing around with her dewar, not cool Swara not cool.

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