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Jwala

@LoveSriNal

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Posted: 10 years ago

#31

omg you are comparing swaragini with normal life.. this show is happening on some other planet.. I don't think it is on earth..

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arshi21

@arshi21

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+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#32

Don't worry! You are not alone in this. While I was watching the episode I tried to recall how being 'friends' makes you do all that.

It's not even about touchy-feely as much as it's about sudden and stupid character change. Swara was never like this. In spite of giving assent to lakshya's friendship she would have never done all that. In fact, her priority would have been what sanskar might have been thinking.

She did not once go and pursue Her husband and so called best friend , that she claims he is. Ugh.

I am in college too and I have guy friends, 2 best friends who happen to be boys. I have never done all this random things with them.

Kuch bhi ho raha tha aaj.

Cvs are slow man :(

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Cogito_Ergo_Sum

@Cogito_Ergo_Sum

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+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: arshi21

Don't worry! You are not alone in this. While I was watching the episode I tried to recall how being 'friends' makes you do all that.

It's not even about touchy-feely as much as it's about sudden and stupid character change. Swara was never like this. In spite of giving assent to lakshya's friendship she would have never done all that. In fact, her priority would have been what sanskar might have been thinking.

She did not once go and pursue Her husband and so called best friend , that she claims he is. Ugh.

I am in college too and I have guy friends, 2 best friends who happen to be boys. I have never done all this random things with them.

Kuch bhi ho raha tha aaj.

Cvs are slow man :(

Haha...Thanks 😊

That's just what I was trying to get at: the context. I find it unbelievable, that a smart, canny girl like Swara could not figure out its better to maintain some distance from an obsessive ex fiance, who till 24 hours ago, was stalking her, to the extent of slashing his wrists to emotionally blackmail her.

I get friendship between a guy and a girl, have been lucky to have some amazing guy pals. But this doesn't fit the template. I don't know why Swara is being shown so naive, It doesn't fit her at all.

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Zaalima_5

@Zaalima_5

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Posted: 10 years ago

#34

both sis r mad..

one is serious about "everything is fair in love and war".. she doesn't know the limits of this sentence..😡

another one serious about "do dost sirf dost bhi ho sakte hain" .. she also not aware of limits...🤔

god kaha phasa diya..?? both are living in their own delusional world..😆

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misaki

@misaki

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#35

Honestly, I guess there are like 1 or maybe 2 of my friends that I share that kind of relationship with. But they know the boundaries and so do I. And if I was say in a relationship with a guy , I would never make him feel the way Sanskaar is feeling right now.

Viji , this is not even about friendship and allowing your best friend to drape an arm around you. Laksh is not her best friend. Laksh was her ex-fiance. 2 completely different things. Add being sister's husband and a stalking creep to that list. Any sane girl would run away from him not into his arms like Swara madam here is shown doing.

It's not whether or not it's right for you to let your guy friends be that close to you. It's about being stupid enough to let your ex-fiance be that close to you especially in front of your hubby.I'm sorry if I hurt any Swara fans but that's completely Ew! 🤢That's just so wrong on so many levels.

Edited by misaki - 10 years ago

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Isha

@JilyPotter

Voyager

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#36

I am with you!

I am all for friendship between a girl and a boy. It is completely possible, and they do not have anything romantic in them.

But our dear Swara isn't becoming friends with a stranger, they have history! She is becoming friends with someone who harassed her before he knew her, became friends with her, fell in love with her while engaged to his sister, confessed, she fell in love (still don't think she actually loved him), didn't trust her, caused a mental break in her Ragini for her to try to kill Swara, married her sister, constantly degraded and berated her every chance he got, called her CHARACTERLESS, and then when he found everything he did was wrong, he went back to saying he loves her, harassed her, man-handled her, acted entitled, threatened to kill himself on multiple occasions if she didn't return, blackmailed her, and CLEARLY COULD NOT TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER!. Walking the line of, "inne na mein ha hai"... that is disgusting!

Restarting a friendship does not negate the fact all these happens. IF (I am against this friendship) they want to be friends again, I think there should be some time in between were they aren't so buddy-buddy and cozy with each other. Swara be smart again, I beg of you! Make a good decision, I really worry for you 😕

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PUBALI BASU

@MysticMoon

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Posted: 10 years ago

#37

Friendship is a beautiful relationship but it comes with some limits when the person whom you call friend is your sister's husband and here Swara is married to her friend's brother so She should limit her approaches to Friendship so that it does not give unnecessary pain to her husband and family... her actions indirectly hurting her beloved sister too... if she wants to just ignore the fact that she is married she has certain responsibilities she can't do haha hihi like pre marriage stage because even Lakshya is not just her friend now he is a married man...then it's a stupidity from her side not to understand such a simple thing...I am not saying marriage means you losing your freedom but when your relationship is involved with so many peoples sentiment and emotions then you should be careful enough not to hurt them further

even fasting for kc is also a sweet gesture of friendship for her when actually it's completely a ritual observed by only married couple ...it is not friendship related issue. but CVS have their own definition of friendship and we are suffering

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Tapathi

@Tapathi

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#38

I agree with you...recently I completed my studies yes frnds okay...but up too yesterday she used to hate and suddenly itina closeness only happens in serials not in real...for a girl beliveling who used to blackmail her up to yesterday achanak itina acha dost matlab touching voching dost no way...

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Cogito_Ergo_Sum

@Cogito_Ergo_Sum

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: misaki
Honestly, I guess there are like 1 or maybe 2 of my friends that I share that kind of relationship with. But they know the boundaries and so do I. And if I was say in a relationship with a guy , I would never make him feel the way Sanskaar is feeling right now.

Viji , this is not even about friendship and allowing your best friend to drape an arm around you. Laksh is not her best friend. Laksh was her ex-fiance. 2 completely different things. Add being sister's husband and a stalking creep to that list. Any sane girl would run away from him not into his arms like Swara madam here is shown doing.

It's not whether or not it's right for you to let your guy friends be that close to you. It's about being stupid enough to let your ex-fiance be that close to you especially in front of your hubby.I'm sorry if I hurt any Swara fans but that's completely Ew! 🤢That's just so wrong on so many levels.

Yeah Geethu. That's what I was trying to get at : the context of this equation. I do agree with you, having had very good guy pals of my own, that one could share an easy bond like this, provided the trust was there 100%, that neither party would MU it to mean more.

But this equation has so much complicated history (including Lakshya obsessively harassing her till 24 hours before, to the extent of cutting his wrist! !!), and then to act so back--slapping and arm holding and giggling. ...

Mind you, when Sanskaar fled upstairs in sheer pain, and Lakshya even made that fake concerned remark about why he was angry, Swara still went to do the rangoli and not to clarify matters to Sanskaar. 😕

She is being shown as too naive, and begging to be misunderstood. Not like the original Swara at all. Did Ragini's kidnappers release a Swara ki Humshakal? 😊

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Cogito_Ergo_Sum

@Cogito_Ergo_Sum

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: .Regal.
I am with you!
I am all for friendship between a girl and a boy. It is completely possible, and they do not have anything romantic in them.

But our dear Swara isn't becoming friends with a stranger, they have history! She is becoming friends with someone who harassed her before he knew her, became friends with her, fell in love with her while engaged to his sister, confessed, she fell in love (still don't think she actually loved him), didn't trust her, caused a mental break in her Ragini for her to try to kill Swara, married her sister, constantly degraded and berated her every chance he got, called her CHARACTERLESS, and then when he found everything he did was wrong, he went back to saying he loves her, harassed her, man-handled her, acted entitled, threatened to kill himself on multiple occasions if she didn't return, blackmailed her, and CLEARLY COULD NOT TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER!. Walking the line of, "inne na mein ha hai"... that is disgusting!

Restarting a friendship does not negate the fact all these happens. IF (I am against this friendship) they want to be friends again, I think there should be some time in between were they aren't so buddy-buddy and cozy with each other. Swara be smart again, I beg of you! Make a good decision, I really worry for you 😕

Bang on Isha...like I said, I've been very lucky to have some very good guy pals. I get the comfortable friendship between a guy and a girl, which is perfectly possible and I have been lucky enough to experience.

But with this level of a complicated history, and when the guy has been so obsessively stalking you, that he cut his wrists 24 hours ago, acting so chaddi --buddy is the height of naivete. And Swara wasn't like that at all.

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