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Posted: 10 years ago
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I hardly have any girlfriends in my real life and all my besties are guys and well I'm really close to them too but the way Swara behave is err... Esp when relationship is such a mess she could maintain healthy distance... And they were not like this when they were friends in the beginning then why now??? Oh well I'm just 26 and Lives in India so generation gap and societal thinking I very well know
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Anna--

I have shared such a relationship with a couple of male friends - but yes, had I been in Swara's situation, I would definitely keep my distance from Laksh. Especially the way he had been behaving for the past few days - I would be wary of his actions and words.


But Viji, I have accepted Swara is the dumbest and Naivest character in the history of Indian TV and I have stopped getting bothered about it.

I focus only on Sanskaar.


I agree Anna. That's what I was getting at: the context. This is not just an easy friendship. It has a history, an unhappy, complicated one at that. It seems to be dumbing down a lovely character, to have her act so naive.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Completely agree with you ,it is totally ridiculous what they are showing ! The CV's seem to have lost their brain at that famous swaragini bridge along with swara lakshya ! I mean really that guy was going full psycho on you like 2 mins ago and now you are playing holi with him !😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: CogitoErgoSum

Friends...please help me. I feel a mid life crisis coming on, though I just hit 30 earlier this year. ...

I studied in a co-ed all through my school and college years, and post graduate as well...was lucky enough to have several wonderful friends among girls as well as guys. But I don't know...friendship didn't seem to involve so much touchy---feeliness😕😕

Either I am racing into my dotage far too soon...if that's the case then please excuse the generation gap...or else swaragini CVs seem to have slightly misunderstood the concept of "dosti" between a guy and a girl. ...

Please let me know. If its just the generation gap thing, I guess I better start preparing for my second childhood😆😆




Eerr we do hand wrestling and all but thats it not zyaada touchy feely and all those who are touchy feely actually like each other sooo
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: chi1tra

Ya I am not judging the body contact or physical comfort level with Lux but no one transforms that drastically:

Like in the morning Lux saves Swara from tripping on her heels (thanks to the cupid's stone that Ragini threw in her way) and how irritatingly Swara removes his hand from her arm.

And 5 hours later she is all we-are-chaddi-buddies type. I mean come on for the smart girl that she has been portrayed as give both Lux & Ragini time and bloody OBSERVE.

Also in a house full of elders (who she noticed) are pissed at her she is losing control over her self and goofing around with her dewar, not cool Swara not cool.



hey chitra nicely said but pls don't use nicknames rules are there use full or devar bhabhi ...

are u from ap are u the one who write girl with tatoo
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: DivineDarkness

I hardly have any girlfriends in my real life and all my besties are guys and well I'm really close to them too but the way Swara behave is err... Esp when relationship is such a mess she could maintain healthy distance... And they were not like this when they were friends in the beginning then why now??? Oh well I'm just 26 and Lives in India so generation gap and societal thinking I very well know


Yeah Leki...that's what I was trying to get at. There's a history in this friendship...There's been a lot of pain and hurt and after all they were ex fiances. In such circumstances normally one would be more careful...but here cvs are showing a smart girl like Swara becoming so naive. Its just unbelievable. ...I dont know what they are trying to do.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I just removed my contacts and wore my old spectacles for the special occasion, because it seems I'm racing to that second childhood even sooner than you are Viji! My teens just ended earlier this year and my best friend is a guy (Nothing like Lakshya of cause) but never ever has friendship meant any of those things.
Would we soon be ogling at Swaragini and saying, 'Kids these days, in our times friendship meant being friends in need and nowadays it means a short cut to love' ?
There are some huge misunderstandings going on but regarding only one friendship that's what I don't get.
I mean remember the time when Swara was so happy her Ma Baba was going to unite and accidentally fell on Sanskar. What did the two friends do to congratulate each other? If I'm not losing my memory because age is effecting my memory (May be I have un-diagnosed Alzheimer too) they shook hands!
And suddenly, a time traveler fast forwarded our timeline and the concept of friendship is changed beyond our understanding.
Welcome to friendship and love of 2083 Viji, enjoy the show, actually it is a science fic. based on future world relationships.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Anna--

I have shared such a relationship with a couple of male friends - but yes, had I been in Swara's situation, I would definitely keep my distance from Laksh. Especially the way he had been behaving for the past few days - I would be wary of his actions and words.


But Viji, I have accepted Swara is the dumbest and Naivest character in the history of Indian TV and I have stopped getting bothered about it.

I focus only on Sanskaar.


exactly

swara is the typical simpleton...they have created her character like that so that she can easily fall in all the possible pitfalls that they concoct in the show...and pati dev has to save her from them...thabi toh kahani aage bhadegi 😆 😆


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: chi1tra

Ya I am not judging the body contact or physical comfort level with Lux but no one transforms that drastically:

Like in the morning Lux saves Swara from tripping on her heels (thanks to the cupid's stone that Ragini threw in her way) and how irritatingly Swara removes his hand from her arm.

And 5 hours later she is all we-are-chaddi-buddies type. I mean come on for the smart girl that she has been portrayed as give both Lux & Ragini time and bloody OBSERVE.

Also in a house full of elders (who she noticed) are pissed at her she is losing control over her self and goofing around with her dewar, not cool Swara not cool.


You put it very well. 😊

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: DivineDarkness

I hardly have any girlfriends in my real life and all my besties are guys and well I'm really close to them too but the way Swara behave is err... Esp when relationship is such a mess she could maintain healthy distance... And they were not like this when they were friends in the beginning then why now??? Oh well I'm just 26 and Lives in India so generation gap and societal thinking I very well know


to be honest...forget india, even abroad people don't go this crazy esp in the current context. you have your close friends who you can be pally with, but you would go and start getting extra close with your ex who was until the previous day obsessed with you

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