Can Sanskaar NOT handover Swara

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riyya6

@riyya6

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Posted: 10 years ago

#21

I would love to see if he fights for his love.. i have to admit its one sided... but swara is not a toy to be given to laksh... I hope he lets her decide n do not support any mahan action of swara plz... 😆

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-Anks-

@-Anks-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: The.Lannister

Snapdeal hi kyun, Swara kisi bhi company ka koi parcel nahi hai😆 The title wasnt meant to objectify her. It was meant to criticize storylines which objectify women in which decisions about their lives are taken by everyone (baap, bhai, dada, pati, bf) except the woman.

@Laksh making Sanskaar feel guilty: I think since Swara has whole heartedly forgiven Sanskaar him being made feel guilty, that too by Lux who is himself responsible for more than half the mess, is as out of character for Sanskaar as Ragini trying to unite Swara & Lux. And that was the exact point of my post. Characters doing things which do not suit their character.

@bold: That is well understood pal. I also made an attempt to criticize the same thing!

@blue: Completely agreed! They simply turnaround any character to any degree, as per their requirements. So we don't know, who becomes what

@green: this is bcoz Laksh will never consider himself responsible for this mess (as per is current egoistic characterization), because if he was that sensible & reasonable to understand his own mistakes, he would have never done all these blunders.

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Zaalima_5

@Zaalima_5

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Posted: 10 years ago

#23

i want sanskar to try this step..😉 may be at that time she understand sanskar and his love. swara is not realzing sanskar's love when he is around her for 24*7. i guess she needs space.

kabhi kabhi na duriyaan achi hoti hain, kuch waqt ki duriyaan rishton ko bahut lambe arse ke liye jod deti hain...😳

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-Ros-

@-Ros-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: -Anks-
--> Laksh is desperate to get Swara back in his life.
--> In order to do so he will make Sanskar feel guilty. He would say that bcoz of Sanskar's revenge saga Laksh, the 'innocent' person has lost the love of his life!
--> He will also make Sanskar believe that, Swara has always loved Laksh & she can be happy with him only! And somewhere its Sanskar's moral responsibility to reunite them to fix the mess.
--> Sanskar being a guilt-ridden soul & for sake of Swara's happiness, will do whatever Laksh wants.
--> But Swara won't be willing to get back with Laksh & gradually would be falling for Sanskar.
--> So, now Swara will try to save her marriage & Sanskar will try to break it.
---> Meanwhile Ragini would be reforming & genuinely repent for her misdeeds.
---> Realizing that Swara's happiness is with Sanskar now, she will take the cause of reuniting Swara & Sanskar to redeem herself.
--> Fight for Love : Swaragini v/s Maheshwari Brothers will be on full swing for some days.
---> And of course, at the Swaragini has to win! Laksh will realize his mistake & let it go.

This could defo be a possibility. Swara may have forgiven Sanskaar but Laskh as of now still despise him for trying to ruin his family and getting married to Swara added fuel to that hatred. We'll have to wait and see how Laksh behaves with Sanky after the truth revelation I guess. If winning Swara back does turn into an obsession then the events listed above is most likely to happen.

Bringing symbolism in (since it seems to be everyone's fav 😆😳), the day Sanky filled Swara's mang, Laksh pushed Sanskaar and caused him to drop the sindoor and it rolled away from him. This could well be for-shadowing Laksh coming inbetween SwaSan's marriage. I can't see Sanky forcing Laksh onto Swara but I believe he'll help Laksh or at least back off (Swara may not realise it, but Sanskaar plays a huge role in her life). That day, it was Swara who ran and retrieved the sindoor. She could develop feelings for Sanskaar and may be willing to give the marriage a try. She might be the one trying to hold onto this shaadi, while Sanskaar will be the one letting it go.

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_Payalj_

@_Payalj_

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Posted: 10 years ago

#25

I will start with a quote from Pride & Prejudice where Charlotte Lucas says to Elizabeth: "Very few people have the courage to fall in love without any encouragement."

Sanskar has shown that courage but he cannot sustain it any longer without Swara's encouragement.

He cannot keep on imposing himself on Swara or even fight for her love till he feels that he is wanted by her.

Currently, Swara has given no such indication. So on what grounds will he fight for her or interfere in her life?

Wooing is also done when you feel that other party is interested or is responding else it becomes harassment. He is not Ragini. Once Ragini's truth is out he will try to retreat from Swara's life gracefully unless and until Swara shows interest in their marriage and relationship.

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inlieu

@inlieu

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Posted: 10 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: bips
Sanskar will never "hand over" swara bec he does not consider her his private property ... luxji is the one who kept on pushing her in sanskar's direction in order to prove her characterless ... this is not sanskar;'s style

He will simply step back and respect any decision she makes. and support her 100% ... and it will be swara devi's mahanta that will cause chaos

As for fighting for swara, why would he ? Sanskar is not ragini that he forces his love on someone who does not want it ... but he would fight tooth and nail and stop everyone from emotionally blackmailing swara esp luxji

... So it is really upto swara ... i don't know if ppl realise this that though sanskar is the stronger one, Swara is the one who makes all the decisions in this relationship ... chalni toh devi ki hi hai

@bold Well said! I think Swara is empowered by Sanskaar's unwavering support. He might choose different tactics but works towards the same goal with her. Even in terms of whether SwaSan decide to live together, Sanskaar's character would give Swara the space and time to think about everything carefully and choose to come to him on her own. Neither should he woo her, nor try to keep expressing his love in any way. I agree with @tootiefrootie and @billorani123 that he might try to fade into the background a little or maintain a bit of distance. Anyone in his place would do that out of self-respect and also respect for the other person's feelings, i.e. not pressuring Swara into doing anything she doesn't want to wholeheartedly.

Edited by inlieu - 10 years ago

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pieryrose

@pieryrose

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Posted: 10 years ago

#27

the more the distance, the more the person starts missing and realizing the importance of the other.. so i think, he should make her leave up-to her decisions.Swara needs time to realise how much she values sanskaar in her life.
even if the cvs try to make sanskaar to not to let go of swara, the cvs in the end will kind of assassinate that loving and caring , kind , passionate guy into a psychotic /obsessive guy at the end, its because i have a feeling they will kind of make him into that. I will never trust cvs of RS dramas.I will go with the flow.the end.

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N.bhavna

@N.bhavna

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Posted: 10 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: The.Lannister
With the latest spoilers saying that Ragini will try to get Swara & Lakshya back together (& even though Helly said Swara would refuse) many of us are assuming that Sanskaar too will jump on the Mahaanta Express & help Ragini & simply hand over Swara to Lakshya just because she said the "tum apne raste, main apne raste" thing

My question is can Sanskaar please not do this? This is what every show's male lead does when he believes his lady love loves someone else.

Dont get me wrong. I do not want him to turn into psycho lover. But can he not just give up on his love & on Swara plz? If he genuinely cares for Swara I think he would stop her from going back to Lakshya just so that Ragini can atone for her sins. He would understand that Swara is going through too many complex & conflicting emotions at this time & hence would protect her from herself if needed.

SwaSan do not owe it to RagYa to forgive them. Let Lakshya earn his forgiveness. And in the meanwhile let Sanskaar woo his lady love. It has been ages since we saw a man woo a woman the proper way...not the abuse of pinning her against walls or the sadakchaap road romeo harkatein which some guys do. Something dignified. And I believe Sanskaar can do it! He is just the sort of man who would know how to pursue his love without getting too needy & desperate. Please make Sanskaar fight for his love. It would be something the Sanskaar we know would do.

By all means let Swara leave MM, stay at baadi, be with Ma Baba, forgive the whole world...but please can you at least try to win her heart...just once, please Sanskaar?!😳

Nice post

you echoed my feelings in a better words, i have written something similar in other thread.

Why would sanskar decide to divorce swara? He did not force swara for this marriage, it was swara who wanted to wait for laksha.

It was swara who might have not took marriage rituals and vows seriously for that point of time ( otherwise it shown that she believes and have faith in symbols, even if their was a fake marriage, and thats why she was upset when sanakar fills her maang ), so while taking pheras and performing other rituals, swara wasn't in the right state of mind but sanskar out of his unconditional love towards swara, must have took rituals and vows seriously as he was very well aware that this is actual wedding taking place in front of sacred fire, priest and family and friends.

I will not agree with the sanskar should go ahead and should take the decision of divorce, why should he? he loves swara and do want her in his life . if swara wanted to to go out of this wedlock then before setting her free, sanskar should make her realise how much he loves her and wanted to be with her.

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