According to Ragini, she wants Lakshya's love but never did she mention once about her interest in being a Maheshwari bride, did she? No! Knowing the fact that the Maheshwaris are traditionalist, highly conservative ones with old school notions, she is trying to transform accordingly to safeguard her from the taunts of the society. Maybe she is marring the picture of Ragini that the Maheshwari family once held as their perfect daughter-in-law so that they can accept Swara with ease??
Love can be in any form... Maybe an acknowledgement about her existence is what Ragini is trying to seek from Lakshya??
P.S.- As a SanGini and SwaraYa fan I'll be glad if the plot turns out to be this!!😆