Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham
so i read the written update and i agree with Swara, everything is happening too quick. I think DP may have orchestrated this to make Swara and Laksh realize how different their upbringings are and Swara won't be able to really adjust there. look guys i have stopped caring about this show cos frankly its a piece of rat feces. but heres the thing, what Swara said, i can't believe I'm about to say this, she's right 100%. She shouldn't have to change herself more than she has. and its not a character flaw she's being asked to change but rather her whole character. what ragini has asked her to do in order to manipulate laksh is the truth of the Maheshwari house's expectations from her. DP has accepted her but not unconditionally. i don't want laksh and swara to be together like this. swarya were something else and they're making it something else, her clothes don't define swara but they're a part of her way of life, which should only be changed when she feels like it. it shouldn't be something she should have to do to win her place that she should have by the virtue of Laksh's love for her and by her good deeds. I'm sure she hasn't eaten fish since her parents got married in the G house, so she's already done that. as far as her clothes are concerned, it should be HER choice what she wears, whether she takes the pallu or whether she eats non-veg (which she doesn't anymore). laksh's shona and shona's lucky are gone, I've accepted but i just don't care about swarya if the essence of who they are is lost. thats what is happening.
I'm feeling really sad for swara today. swara can see through everything around her- its her gift and curse. i think she'll see through ragini's villainy as well. she can see through laksh's family unit into the inside and she knows that AP still cringes when she hugs her, that she's not allowed in their kitchen. that won't change no matter what she wears. she can see through laksh, she also knows how much he loves her but also sees that if she's herself, then he'll be alienated from his family because of her and she loves him too much for that. she's a lot more perceptive than laksh has ever been. she can see that ragini still loves laksh and she'll always be the more easier choice for laksh's life with his family. she knows she'll break his heart, but she knows ragini and his family will heal it. she knows laksh would never make this choice. he'll fight till the end for his love so she's making the decision for him. giving him an easier life instead a life of struggle with herself. she can see her precious love story, but she can also see that the world around her, people she loves like her world won't let it breathe freely. she can see her precious sisterhood and knows its already lost. and all because she's her, she's swara- the daughter of her parent's mistake, the grand daughter of two strong women's strength, the lover of a conflict. she's good when she sacrifices for everyone but not good enough for anyone to sacrifice for her.
teju di,u said everything.whatever i saw of today's epi,it is clearly visible that swara has started to see through ragini's facade.and after reading ur post,even i understood that we don't want a pallu-laden swara beendni and an ahem dikra-lakshya,NO,that's not we wanted to watch.
and now i wonder:why did swara fall in love with lakshya??he's not that strong or brave to stand against his family and ask them to accept swara unconditionally after swarya shadi.maybe whatever snacker did was right,even if his family had accepted his gf,she'd be taunted for being a bengalan each day and even if she tries to change,she'd lose her identity in the process and that's not what snacker/a true lover would wish to see.lakshya is better off with a girl similar to parineeta bhabhi[not rags,NO,she's nuts and too selfish,worse than her dadi.]
i didn't sign up to watch a saas bahu saga[can tune into SNS for that anyways.] and nor do the patience to watch a clone of ssk and uttaran.well,for a character like swara,all a true swara fan,is just get over with sacrifice drama,move on[yes,compared to ipkknd,swarya love story is too shallow.],maybe find a sacha pyar plus a gud family who treats her with no kind of differentiation[being an RS show,i know its not possible,she'll land in DP mansion itself😆.]phir bhi,kehne ke liye toh keh sakti hun na.
seriously,i have completely lost interest in swaragini[and i question myself,WHY DID I EVER START WATCHING THIS??].really disappointed.waisey bhi,after rangrasiya fiasco,totally lost any emotional connect with serials.maybe the reason i still hang around is not to miss out wonderful set of friends here,esp sans,u,sophie,matreyee,dida,bushra,roopal,angela and so on.
ps:u started watching badtameez dil??if yes,do tell me ur views on it.
