Originally posted by: matreyee
gr8 post teju di leaving very little room for disagreements..i guess u r aware i among the ppl who have always asked for a better story line for ragini ..just like the writers i believe a lot of ppl on this forum show clear signs of character bias when it comes to swara..there r others who believe that ragini's development is directly related to accomplishing lakshya's love..i disagree with both these groups.
Me too! Ragini is a fine character. she just needs a good track to make her blossom which is why i was excited about Sanskaar's entry even more so than sangini happening! romance is necessary but the cvs had already created what i believed to be a great chemistry in swarya! ragini could've taken her time and eventually gotten a romantic track! they could've focused on her individual development. swaragini's life didn't need to be intertwined in such a complicated manner!
i am always irked by the thought that the writers fail to balance two major leads on indian shows..they r just unable explore their characters in a rational manner...i like the fact that ragini is flawed she is not perfect ..she has her set of strengths and weaknesses which hopefully she will overcome in this journey . that can't b said about Swara, such is the obsession of the writers with this character that they portray her as an individual who CAN NOT do anything wrong..every decision or opinion expressed by her is perfect. i think that minimises any chance of development leading to stagnation. it is a major reason y i never liked characters like tulsi or parvati
I can't tell you how irked i am right now by Swara's i know it all attitude. being bindaas and being oversmart are two very different things. its important to distinguish between the two. that being said i love swara but the confident girl she was, not this overconfident overprotective dadi amma. i hope laksh does ruffle her feathers and she ends up in an actual conflict of the heart and understands that human emotions don't work like a robot's, things don't happen a certain way just because we think it'll happen a certain way, that we all have strengths and weaknesses and we all have to fall and rise up again by ourselves. i feel like she knows her parents' story but she doesn't really feel her parents' story. she needs to be shaken up emotionally. but thats also just my swarya brain kind of wanting to see a torrid angsty affair happen since I'm not getting the sweet slow and beautiful love story swarya would've been if the cvs hadn't done all this tamasha. 😆
..every individual has a grey shaded personality they can never b black or white. coming to ragini if i start to make a list of all those things i dislike about her story line it will never end ..i am hoping that the writers do find a way to help her overcome these flaws and not ignore them. as of now we r aware that ragini is a girl who has never made any decisions on her own ..she is a puppet guided by her dadi and unfortunately the writers r doing very little to change that..i do not want anyone to help ragini see what's gd or bad for her...i think she should b capable of doing that on herself..neither do i want lakshya being guilt tripped to b with her..she deserves better...yes lakshya's insensitivity towards her drives me insane and i am hoping against hope that there comes a day when she reliases that he is no prince charming and she does not need him or anyone else but herself.
agreed! everyone is basically playing puppet master to ragini the doll and its the most annoying thing to watch! like laksh, ok whatever happened you said stupid things when you felt helpless and i'll give him that- dadi left very little choice and Swaragini's silence at that time didn't help, but now tell ragini the truth first! why tell swara? this doesn't concern her! its yours and ragini's marriage! you want to give her the right to make a call for your life because you love her? fine! don't extend that right to ragini's life! and swara, please back off and let laksh handle this, the most you can do is tell ragini the truth, not make the call for her, she and laksh both have the right to make an informed decision. you can't suffocate her like that. dadi...theres nothing to say. aisi dadi ho toh dushman ki kya zaroorat?
ragini's character has a lot of scope of redemption.if handled properly her journey can b very interesting from being a love struck helpless girl to being a confident and an independent individual. but that can only happen if romance is not the central theme of her SL..i don't want her to b reduced to a love interest for one of the maheswari brothers. i am aware of this upcoming triangle between varun,helly and namish making it pretty clear that ragini will always b a second choice
where did you hear that? a segment or anything? idk about that, it was old news that may not be true. but i'll be damn pissed off if it were- why must every person be in love with swara? what was she born in milk and honey? laksh loves her makes sense, y sanskaar who still has no sense?
if that happens then defo quitting, swarya or no swarya.
..that is something i am fearing . however i am hoping that this time she won't b that weak desperate ragini and will make the guy (whoever it is) work for her love.