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Adhya

@Agni_Jytsona

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

The thing is both the girls acts extremely dumb at times one for god knows what reason thinks that punishing the wrong doer is revenge

And the other acts dumb most of the times which lands her in trouble she assumed that her father in law is behind her mother s humiliation so now instead of finding proof she goes on her revenge spree her sister asked her to not to blame anybody without a proof she never asked her not to try and find a proof but only if Meghna understood this

It's sometimes hard to believe that these girls are really IIT and IIM toppers so well educated but still lack common sense

Kunal is impulsive too

Karan is the only sensible male lead who never acts on impulse and at the same time possess the ability to stand for right things 👏

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha
The thing is both the girls acts extremely dumb at times one for god knows what reason thinks that punishing the wrong doer is revenge
And the other acts dumb most of the times which lands her in trouble she assumed that her father in law is behind her mother s humiliation so now instead of finding proof she goes on her revenge spree her sister asked her to not to blame anybody without a proof she never asked her not to try and find a proof but only if Meghna understood this

It's sometimes hard to believe that these girls are really IIT and IIM toppers so well educated but still lack common sense

Kunal is impulsive too

Karan is the only sensible male lead who never acts on impulse and at the same time possess the ability to stand for right things 👏

Lol.. yeah they all do stupid things at times. But I think that's natural for any human being. Plus Tv characters have to do dumb things to have dramatic plots. 😆

Personally, Karan also does stupid things. I was very annoyed with him for the whole wedding debacle. He made a decision to go through with the wedding then its wasn't right to try to kick Naina out of the car and think that loosening the wedding knot voids the marriage. That marriage took place in front of all of Naina's society. He was basically putting Naina in the same position that they was trying to save Meghna from. How is that any better? In all that nonsense why didn't he think to call Daddu? Why didn't he talk sense into Kunal before the wedding? Then when he was stuck in this marriage he should've just been honest with Naina instead of trying to be mean to her. I know he doesn't like anyone pitying him... but this was about Naina's life.

What I like about the show though is that all 4 lead characters are good people. They all have their own character flaws but that's what gives them depth.

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Ammy

@--Amulya--

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: adhyakumarijha
During the loan track meghna was giving stupid reasons for not telling kunal but here there is a valod reason
Plus as hinted in last night s epi naina is always therw for her sis she has always saved meghna from prob and she will continue to do that

For me its rather the opposite, Meghna wasn't hiding that loan issue from Kunal its rather she din't find the right time to disclose it to him and even if she hid it, I found those reasons valid, Meghna's pride got hurt at that time as she was rejected by Sharda and a person needs time to reveal such painful incidents even if its to your partner, moreover its about her mom means her private life which I might not be able to easily share with my partner. But now I think Meghna should have said it to Kunal right away when she started having suspicions as its about his dad and he deserves to know it.

Naina is trying to be compulsively good in nature and is almost forcing Meghna to be the same. While being good in nature is fine but being the same to even those persons who keep hurting you is not fine as per me, being too good can be mistaken as incapability or helplessness and can be further misused.

Edited by --Amulya-- - 8 years ago

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Adhya

@Agni_Jytsona

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

For me its rather the opposite, Meghna wasn't hiding that loan issue from Kunal its rather she din't find the right time to disclose it to him and even if she hid it, I found those reasons valid, Meghna's pride got hurt at that time as she was rejected by Sharda and a person needs time to reveal such painful incidents even if its to your partner, moreover its about her mom means her private life which I might not be able to easily share with my partner. But now I think Meghna should have said it to Kunal right away when she started having suspicions as its about his dad and he deserves to know it.

Naina is trying to be compulsively good in nature and is almost forcing Meghna to be the same. While being good in nature is fine but being the same to even those persons who keep hurting you is not fine as per me, being too good can be mistaken as incapability or helplessness and can be further misused.

Well if one brings pride and honour while dealing with ones family its actuall very sad plus after marriage u

Our partner becomes part of our family and our private life becomes their private life

Plus i don't know from where the issue pf pride and honour comes when the person you are dealing with is your mother because if something of that sort happems with i will keep trying and trying i don't how many times my mother rejects because at the end of the day she is the most important person in my life and she had every right to reject me, scold me, in matters which she feel is not right

And about naina i think she was being sensible when she said that cannot just go and accuse somebody without any proof plus being bad didn't really help meghna did it???

Though i dont agree with naina s theory of "revenge" she does needs to find the correct definition of it and as you said stop acting over nice because that ofcourse will not help her

And about meghna she just needs to tone down a bit and act like a normal person would act in such situation that is to go find the proof and not try to act like villains do

Edited by adhyakumarijha - 8 years ago

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Ammy

@--Amulya--

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

ofc mom is the most important person in one's life but still we can get hurt even by her especially when she makes us feel that the hardest thing we did for her is useless, Meghna knew that she might face problems at her in-laws about the loan but still did it for her mom and when she realised that her mom wouldn't allow it then I think any child's pride would be hurt that even when she achieved so much in life she can't make her mom's life easier, sharda isn't that type of person who rejects at 1st but gives in later to compulsion, her no is a no.

I wasn't even talking about revenge, I don't believe in an eye for an eye and Meghna got it back for her impulsive nature. I like the new version of Meghna, NK isn't too much of a bad person and I think he can change easily if guided properly.

In partnership I believe honesty is important but sometimes we're in compulsion to do things which our partner wouldn't like, we know that its gonna break the hell loose and if we disclose it to our partner even then I think its foolishness. Kunal is too cool of a hubby to give his wifey such tensions and so if I were in Meghna's place I would run to him for every small damn thing.

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: --Amulya--
ofc mom is the most important person in one's life but still we can get hurt even by her especially when she makes us feel that the hardest thing we did for her is useless, Meghna knew that she might face problems at her in-laws about the loan but still did it for her mom and when she realised that her mom wouldn't allow it then I think any child's pride would be hurt that even when she achieved so much in life she can't make her mom's life easier, sharda isn't that type of person who rejects at 1st but gives in later to compulsion, her no is a no.

I wasn't even talking about revenge, I don't believe in an eye for an eye and Meghna got it back for her impulsive nature. I like the new version of Meghna, NK isn't too much of a bad person and I think he can change easily if guided properly.

In partnership I believe honesty is important but sometimes we're in compulsion to do things which our partner wouldn't like, we know that its gonna break the hell loose and if we disclose it to our partner even then I think its foolishness. Kunal is too cool of a hubby to give his wifey such tensions and so if I were in Meghna's place I would run to him for every small damn thing.

Agreed Amulya. I really think Meghna should've told Kunal mostly because I think it would've prevented Meghna from doing something rash. Whatever it was Kunal and her would've dealt with it together.

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