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Posted: 10 years ago
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Okay, sorry for the following negative post but I have to say it...

how can you be in romantic love with someone who you don't find attractive? Nothing Yuvraj said today implied that he was physically attracted to Suhani. It sounded more like, "Oh, I understand the power of inner beauty now which is why I am able to love you."
I don't know about the TV world, but in real life, physical attraction is a really big part of a successful, loving relationship. That's just how it is. It's the cold, hard truth.

Please don't misunderstand me. I'm not trying to say that I can't believe Yuvraj would ever be attracted to a girl like Suhani or if he wasn't attracted to her in the beginning, he wouldn't be now. That's not what I'm trying to say. Maybe it's my naivete, but I can't imagine how someone who doesn't find their partner physically attractive can still be intimate with them.

Familiarity and close quarters do wonders for physical attraction. So, yeah, I believe that Yuvraj could find her attractive enough to get intimate with now, but I just hope it's addressed in the months to come that he wants her for more than her "khubsoorat dil" or else that he's realized you don't have to be fair to be physically beautiful.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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But there were instances earlier where he looked 'attracted', no? Where physical closeness with her affected him. The ones on top of my head are:

1. Recently in hospital scene, he was falling and she held him... he got conscious of that.
2. Pittu day... when her hair hit his face and he grabbed her... after that they went stutter-stammer...all hot and bothered... Yuvraj kinda looked lost, puzzled at his own reaction.
3.Even during Mrs. Allahabad times, when she came dressed, he was smitten, and even told her she's looking good.

He did find her attractive time and again but dismissed because she wasn't fitting into the conventional idea of it which Dadi drilled into him.

Edited by drummedup - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Beauty is very relative term - sometime u get attarced at first sight, sometime u take time to get attracted physically to each other. It is very relative.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: drummedup


But there were instances earlier where he looked 'attracted', no? Where physical closeness with her affected him. The ones on top of my head are:

1. Recently in hospital scene, he was falling and she held him... he got conscious of that.
2. Pittu day... when her hair hit his face and he grabbed her... after that they went stutter-stammer...all hot and bothered... Yuvraj kinda looked lost, puzzled at his own reaction.
3.Even during Mrs. Allahabad times, when she came dressed, he was smitten, and even told her she's looking good.

He did find her attractive time and again but dismissed because she wasn't fitting into the conventional idea of it which Dadi drilled into him.


Yes, I agree with you, but I feel like none of that was addressed during the confession scene. I always thought that Yuvraj was started to feel physically attracted to her (based on the scenes you mentioned and others), but today's confession kind of made me think otherwise.

I would have appreciated if he even said something like, "I want you... in every way" (although I imagine that's a little awkward with so many people around haha).

I just felt the implication today was that Suhani is still physically "ugly," but she won Yuvraj's heart because of her personality. It just didn't sit well with me. Maybe they should have written the scene a little differently. Like "I see now that you are beautiful in every way" or something.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I want to add one more thing here, the love (mutual) just started, I hope they take this slow and steady... their relation/equation just changed, there ought be some awkwardness, doubts, even friction... I hope they won't jump onto each other or act like eternal lovers... 😆 Just like how Yuvraj kept it real today(he even confessed he doesn't know how to handle such relations - honest n understandable!) I hope they give time for their relationship to bloom into something solid and real.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well he told her that in his eyes she is the most beautiful girl now...also the physical attraction has been suggested in some scenes already...that's what that drunken episode was all about too...he in my opinion showed he wants her in every way that day...and so even in his sober state he does desire her physically...I just think he's someone who needs to feel LOVE to act on his physical desires...now he knows in his own words what is love and that he can't live without her, it will make the physical connection stronger...they have hugged many times and he's looked like he's attracted ...now it's a mutual love and a new phase for them so he will definitely show her all kinds of attention. To want someone's heart & lifelong companionship first adds that purity to the relation...in front of the family he couldn't tell her that he wants her in other ways.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: drummedup


I want to add one more thing here, the love (mutual) just started, I hope they take this slow and steady... their relation/equation just changed, there ought be some awkwardness, doubts, even friction... I hope they won't jump onto each other or act like eternal lovers... 😆 Just like how Yuvraj kept it real today(he even confessed he doesn't know how to handle such relations - honest n understandable!) I hope they give time for their relationship to bloom into something solid and real.


I agree. I want to see some awkwardness too. This is a huge change for both of them. They also haven't been sleeping in the same bed for months. It absolutely should be weird for both of them to be in close proximity again and they should take the time to get to know each other in a deeper way before getting physical. I would really hate to see an automatic, unrealistic suhaag raat as if they were eternal lovers. It wouldn't make sense. Also, they're both implied to be virgins, so that should also lend some awkwardness to that eventual scene.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: IKEAwizard


Yes, I agree with you, but I feel like none of that was addressed during the confession scene. I always thought that Yuvraj was started to feel physically attracted to her (based on the scenes you mentioned and others), but today's confession kind of made me think otherwise.

I would have appreciated if he even said something like, "I want you... in every way" (although I imagine that's a little awkward with so many people around haha).

I just felt the implication today was that Suhani is still physically "ugly," but she won Yuvraj's heart because of her personality. It just didn't sit well with me. Maybe they should have written the scene a little differently. Like "I see now that you are beautiful in every way" or something.


I get it. And you are right.

I think they wanted to redeem what he said during the competition... publicly accepting what he also now believes is important.That's why they added it here.He was desperately shouting " I'm not shallow anymore" through those dialogues. I think they did not realize it could come out sounding like what you've pointed out.

I hope one of the days, he casually says something which'd show his attraction towards her in all senses.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: yanks28

Well he told her that in his eyes she is the most beautiful girl now...also the physical attraction has been suggested in some scenes already...that's what that drunken episode was all about too...he in my opinion showed he wants her in every way that day...and so even in his sober state he does desire her physically...I just think he's someone who needs to feel LOVE to act on his physical desires...now he knows in his own words what is love and that he can't live without her, it will make the physical connection stronger...they have hugged many times and he's looked like he's attracted ...now it's a mutual love and a new phase for them so he will definitely show her all kinds of attention. To want someone's heart & lifelong companionship first adds that purity to the relation...in front of the family he couldn't tell her that he wants her in other ways.

Beautifully said Mehwish👏👏😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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No proper built up love. So nothing makes senses and seems flat. Yuvraj was romancing rohan a bit too much this whole time for me to take him serious. Quite frankly its like I am seeing a new yuvraj pretending to be good. I am sure he will bounce back to his awful stupid self soon dnt worry lol. So even though sahil acted well I could not connect with what they were showing. Bt the great dialogues saved the episode. I think this was sahil not so much yuvraj it was just good acting. I think we have seen desire in him 2 or 3 times when he was allowed to in the past so it is not as if that is missing. They just have not shown it. Well now that they are in a r/ship hopefully they will show it. I dnt knw maybe for me I wasn't over the top of the moon ab the episode coz I felt like suhani's dialogues were a little too late and I didn't like rajshri's acting in the 1st few min when she started talking but she eventually started doing well. Bt 1 thing I found very weird I dnt knw whether its coz of the way the dialogue was translated for my subtitles. But he said that she was the most beautiful person. Why did they not say girl? Or did they and they put it wrongly

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