Originally posted by: dunceHat
Hey Naam Ada and mahimahi! I don't intend to upset Yuvani sentiment...personally I like them too!
But
Agree to all the points! except BOLD all the more reason he would and should act in time!
There were infinity opputunities for him to act/speak! If it was anything to with his comfort or his own ego, he would use all possible lung power be angry and loudđđĄ and even push and knock things!...In Suhani's case many SSELs and you too, in addition to the other appearances related stuff... seems to think that him allowing her to use the room (without moving and touching anything) is the biggest favour! So I am just trying to understand, why I am not able to look at things similarlyđ
and Soumya is BF who did this, therefore snakey...and YU at the outset of marriage had every intention to trouble SU and dump her(...Something about her struck a chord (not the sanctity of marriage like you mentioned) sometime and decided to be committed to marriage! Once committed, the strength he gave SU is nil compared to what he saw SU give him and his family...What he gave to his marriage ---well, It was very much like...beggers ko alms dena-typeđ and I hate that!
Oh sweetie, i am not upset... sorry if you felt i was being aggressive.
You are right he yells and screams when its his own ego and he didnt when it was Suhani, which is one of the stupid things about him.
As for the beginning, he thought Suhani was in on the plan when her father blackmailed him and when Soumya played with his heart but when he found out she wasnt, he changed his views about her.
As for Dadi and knowing her, he all about respect. He hated Suhani father for the blackmail but he kept his respect when and how much was really needed.
Many would think why did he yell at Suhani when Dadi told her the truth, the day of her birthday, about Yuvraj not wanting to marry her. His and her personal life was being splattered in front of his family. I wouldnt want my family to know if me and partner do not have a husband and wife relationship. I get she was hurt but they is a time and place to talk about it. She was also unknowing adding fuel to the fire. He couldnt lie and he needed to shut her up before it got worse and of course Dadi fake sickness, he unknown to Dadi plans. All he knows is that Soumya wants him.
About the touching things, many people are like that. Its just who he is. I wont put that his stupidity list.
About Suhani strength, like he mentioned before Suhani knows how to take a joke, he knows her strength and weaknesses. He is there when he knows she will break down. When she found out about Soumya marriage to Krishna, he gave her strength. Right now he is unable to give her strength because he has his own plans and if his plans back fires due to others he cant do anything. We cant control people, so sometimes what we think is right could become wrong because of outside source.
Edited by naam-ada-likhna - 10 years ago