Q!!If Soumya is Snakey then HOW or WHY is Yuvraj not SnakeRaj?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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If Soumya is Snakey then HOW or WHY is Yuvraj not SnakeRaj?

Of course, we do call him that already, but I get the feeling that many ssel-ites think of him as alright...so, I'm curious if it is only because of gender; just like dadi who is into color discrimination are we here into gender discrimination?

YU is vamping through his actions without revealing/discussing, so why do many people think he is good? HOW? He's male therefore sab galti maaf? REALLY? I think the same censure we do for snakey YU too rightfully deserves!
He too keeps a pleasant face while doing crap-stuff just like Soumya does!
If the CVs want to show him as a hero, they better set right a lot of things about this DUD-ness bordering on EVIL-ness due to un believable amounts of apathy despite a well-oiled support system in terms of Sharath, Pratima and brothers; Even evil dadi somehow so-called-evil-loves this evil character. We want a HERO not a villain powdered off and presented as HERO!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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So, YU are you also blind to not see ANY of the MANY things you experienced and saw first hand(I have v big list so removed it) or Are the CVs expecting audience to go blind? and NOT see that you saw and know all this?

and my Q to dear SSEL-tes is-

HOW and How much really is YU different from Snakey? Yes, snakey is into team-work at times and goes solo at times so we all know that she colludes with vamps!

whereas, YU is vamping through his actions without revealing/discussing,

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I consider Soumya to be snaky because she is basically doing what a snake does, spread poison and that is what she is doing in her "best friend" life. As for Yuvraj he isnt, I know he has done his share of stupid and moronic things but it does not compare to Soumya at all. Both are different because they are relative to Suhani in different ways.

Yuvraj is her husband, who doesnt love her but was forced into the marriage. I had questioned the reason for sticking in the marriage after the loan passed but then i thought, hello is a marriage not a girlfriend and boyfriend relationship that breaks easy. Also Yuvraj and Suhani are poles apart, two different personality. Their are going to clash. Yuvraj knows Dadi more then Suhani so he would by default fall onto Dadi side. Yuvraj is quite because he doesnt want Suhani to break down so he trying to find a way to get behind her back. But if other are spoiling his plans then what can he do.

Soumya is her "best friend". She knew her since childhood and still she tries to ruin her life, why, because she is under Dadi influence. Like Yuvraj by default will fall to Dadi side, Soumya should be falling onto Suhani but she doesnt. What type of childhood friendship is tht? Suhani was only her best friend because she made Soumya feel pretty but now the "ugly duckling" has a better life then her so she wants it. She ready to steal a married man away from her best friend, no one can be worse then that, i am sorry but not even a witch like Dadi. If she wanted she could of talked it out with Yuvraj and asked him if he wanted to leave Suhani and then told Suhani, simple divorce that it but nope she had to stab her friend in the back and now is also playing game behind Yuvraj by playing on his feeling for Suhani.
Edited by naam-ada-likhna - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: naam-ada-likhna

I consider Soumya to be snaky because she is basically doing what a snake does, spread poison and that is what she is doing in her "best friend" life. As for Yuvraj he isnt, I know he has done his share of stupid and moronic things but it does not compare to Soumya at all. Both are different because they are relative to Suhani in different ways.


Yuvraj is her husband, who doesnt love her but was forced into the marriage. I had questioned the reason for sticking in the marriage after the loan passed but then i thought, hello is a marriage not a girlfriend and boyfriend relationship that breaks easy. Also Yuvraj and Suhani are poles apart, two different personality. Their are going to clash. Yuvraj knows Dadi more then Suhani so he would by default fall onto Dadi side. Yuvraj is quite because he doesnt want Suhani to break down so he trying to find a way to get behind her back. But if other are spoiling his plans then what can he do.

Soumya is her "best friend". She knew her since childhood and still she tries to ruin her life, why, because she is under Dadi influence. Like Yuvraj by default will fall to Dadi side, Soumya should be falling onto Suhani but she doesnt. What type of childhood friendship is tht? Suhani was only her best friend because she made Soumya feel pretty but now the "ugly duckling" has a better life then her so she wants it. She ready to steal a married man away from her best friend, no one can be worse then that, i am sorry but not even a witch like Dadi. If she wanted she could of talked it out with Yuvraj and asked him if he wanted to leave Suhani and then told Suhani, simple divorce that it but nope she had to stab her friend in the back and now is also playing game behind Yuvraj by playing on his feeling for Suhani.


totally agree..👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mahimahi188

totally agree..👏

Hey Naam Ada and mahimahi! I don't intend to upset Yuvani sentiment...personally I like them too!
But
Agree to all the points! except BOLD all the more reason he would and should act in time!
There were infinity opputunities for him to act/speak! If it was anything to with his comfort or his own ego, he would use all possible lung power be angry and loud😈😡 and even push and knock things!...In Suhani's case many SSELs and you too, in addition to the other appearances related stuff... seems to think that him allowing her to use the room (without moving and touching anything) is the biggest favour! So I am just trying to understand, why I am not able to look at things similarly😊
and Soumya is BF who did this, therefore snakey...and YU at the outset of marriage had every intention to trouble SU and dump her(...Something about her struck a chord (not the sanctity of marriage like you mentioned) sometime and decided to be committed to marriage! Once committed, the strength he gave SU is nil compared to what he saw SU give him and his family...What he gave to his marriage ---well, It was very much like...beggers ko alms dena-type😕 and I hate that!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: dunceHat

Hey Naam Ada and mahimahi! I don't intend to upset Yuvani sentiment...personally I like them too!
But
Agree to all the points! except BOLD all the more reason he would and should act in time!
There were infinity opputunities for him to act/speak! If it was anything to with his comfort or his own ego, he would use all possible lung power be angry and loud😈😡 and even push and knock things!...In Suhani's case many SSELs and you too, in addition to the other appearances related stuff... seems to think that him allowing her to use the room (without moving and touching anything) is the biggest favour! So I am just trying to understand, why I am not able to look at things similarly😊

i uderstand wat yu r tryin to say..but yuvraj shud't be compared wwith snaky..that's the thig wich i dun agree wit yu.. watever he is doing its for suhani's sake and watever snaky is doin dat is her selfishness ..so i dun think yu hav give dat name to yuvraj..😊<peace>
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It's as Ada said. Yuvraj lacks intent, and also lacks intent to harm. You can accuse him of many things, including the selfish self-involvedness of snaky, but he has a good heart (or so it seems) , he hasn't been dishonest, only failed to be honest enough to tell su the whole truth.
Snaky is the worst possible antagonist--a snake in pretty clothing, someone who is so low-down and deceitful that she even lies to herself. Again agreeing with Ada, her previous friendship was a myth; it was exposed when she was faced with the choice of thrusting the knife into her friend and chose to do it. I give BQ's influence little weight (what was she going to do if snaky refused? FORCE her? ), so it was snaky who shamelessly went after the guy so dear to her friend, ignoring marriage-warriage, who not just thrust in the knife, but twisted it around. And her disloyalty towards su in so many ways shows it's not just yuvraj who's the bone of contention, it is snaky herself, the opportunist, underhanded, greedy and a born cheat.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anita_m

It's as Ada said. Yuvraj lacks intent, and also lacks intent to harm. You can accuse him of many things, including the selfish self-involvedness of snaky, but he has a good heart (or so it seems) , he hasn't been dishonest, only failed to be honest enough to tell su the whole truth.
Snaky is the worst possible antagonist--a snake in pretty clothing, someone who is so low-down and deceitful that she even lies to herself. Again agreeing with Ada, her previous friendship was a myth; it was exposed when she was faced with the choice of thrusting the knife into her friend and chose to do it. I give BQ's influence little weight (what was she going to do if snaky refused? FORCE her? ), so it was snaky who shamelessly went after the guy so dear to her friend, ignoring marriage-warriage, who not just thrust in the knife, but twisted it around. And her disloyalty towards su in so many ways shows it's not just yuvraj who's the bone of contention, it is snaky herself, the opportunist, underhanded, greedy and a born cheat.

Oh no no no Anitam! (oops addressed earlier to mahi by mistake)
Yuvraj had all the dadiconda and snakey styled tricks. He employed them quite liberally too. making SU sleep on the floor, screaming at her, shouting at the slightest things, physically always had a menacing posture when he spoke to her, he took her out and left her.
It was only when dadi started insulting him for his choice, he went on the defensive and supported SU on the outside and continued to harass her inside. This went on for a while.
If ever he was a gentlema,, even given the same circumstances of marriage, his behaviour would be different and so would his communication!
He had every intention to dump her!
It was at the time of Vrat when he read her softcopy diary at the caf, he realized that both he and SU were victims and softened a bit. Her influence and friendship kinda mellowed his jaanwar type of behaviour. it is a fact well-groomed as his appearance was, he had atrocious manners and incredibly self-centred personality (just like snakey)
But he still intended to dump her. Somehow by Diwali, it was shown that he decided to not let go of SUhani and his intention was to stay committed! At least now coupled with his changed personality and his friendship(if not love) for his wife, he had many chances to stick to her but did not!
Edited by dunceHat - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with Dunce!
Soumya is negative, obviously! But Yuvraj is not like her nor better than her. I would jot down some points.

  • Before YuvAni marriage, he was utterly rude to Suhani even after marriage his behaviour didn't change easily.
  • He never takes as stand for Suhani, even if he knows she is right.
  • He never ever does anything for this Snakey problem inspite of "knowing" everything!
What hurts me the most that even after all this, he is called the "main lead"!

I too like him, but the way CVs are portraying him, he is much of a sidelined useless character.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: dunceHat

Hey Naam Ada and mahimahi! I don't intend to upset Yuvani sentiment...personally I like them too!
But
Agree to all the points! except BOLD all the more reason he would and should act in time!
There were infinity opputunities for him to act/speak! If it was anything to with his comfort or his own ego, he would use all possible lung power be angry and loud😈😡 and even push and knock things!...In Suhani's case many SSELs and you too, in addition to the other appearances related stuff... seems to think that him allowing her to use the room (without moving and touching anything) is the biggest favour! So I am just trying to understand, why I am not able to look at things similarly😊
and Soumya is BF who did this, therefore snakey...and YU at the outset of marriage had every intention to trouble SU and dump her(...Something about her struck a chord (not the sanctity of marriage like you mentioned) sometime and decided to be committed to marriage! Once committed, the strength he gave SU is nil compared to what he saw SU give him and his family...What he gave to his marriage ---well, It was very much like...beggers ko alms dena-type😕 and I hate that!


Oh sweetie, i am not upset... sorry if you felt i was being aggressive.

You are right he yells and screams when its his own ego and he didnt when it was Suhani, which is one of the stupid things about him.

As for the beginning, he thought Suhani was in on the plan when her father blackmailed him and when Soumya played with his heart but when he found out she wasnt, he changed his views about her.

As for Dadi and knowing her, he all about respect. He hated Suhani father for the blackmail but he kept his respect when and how much was really needed.

Many would think why did he yell at Suhani when Dadi told her the truth, the day of her birthday, about Yuvraj not wanting to marry her. His and her personal life was being splattered in front of his family. I wouldnt want my family to know if me and partner do not have a husband and wife relationship. I get she was hurt but they is a time and place to talk about it. She was also unknowing adding fuel to the fire. He couldnt lie and he needed to shut her up before it got worse and of course Dadi fake sickness, he unknown to Dadi plans. All he knows is that Soumya wants him.

About the touching things, many people are like that. Its just who he is. I wont put that his stupidity list.

About Suhani strength, like he mentioned before Suhani knows how to take a joke, he knows her strength and weaknesses. He is there when he knows she will break down. When she found out about Soumya marriage to Krishna, he gave her strength. Right now he is unable to give her strength because he has his own plans and if his plans back fires due to others he cant do anything. We cant control people, so sometimes what we think is right could become wrong because of outside source.
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