*Ashish Sharma/Ram* AT#47 Kahan Chupe Ho AS.. - Page 112

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

Thanks for sharing it Twinu!!!🤗

He never fails to surprise me.Every time I come to know something about him my respect for him increases.

Originally posted by: -Mano-

More than this

I am irked by separate marriage laws

what is with this Religious marriage law

Should laws not be same for everyone?

As if other laws of every religion is followed diligently

They just like to have certain law that favors them

Just tell me

How many Muslim countries are out there,

Do all have the same law?

If it's about beliefs and sentiments

then it should be same throughout the world as it's the same religion

when that's not the case then why not accept the laws of a nation that u live in

If I find certain practices ridiculous or superstitious in my religion

I am all for the change

Won't say blindly that it's our Religion and our sentiments

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Coming to ragging I have a different view. Though I am completely against the physical and emotional extreme assaults that happen, some light hearted things does help you in the long run. Shedding inhibitions the most. In my first year I had faced questions from my seniors. They had asked me to sing, someone has proposed me. What I found was if you take it sportingly they leave you and post fresher's day they turn out to be your buddies too guiding you in the college. Just giving a respect with the fact they are one or two year elder to us solves more than 85% of the problems. Most problems is faced by students who barge in asking who are you, I wont do that etc. Then their ego also will get hurt and they too react. Though there are exceptions in extreme cases by personal experience studying in a professional college for 4 years had taught me most seniors are not sitting there to bully you. They love to have some harmless enjoyment, a feeling of being a senior etc etc and if you just give them that, they will leave you and will support you too. I have not gone to any juniors for ragging as I didnt had time, but was just talking about why it happens.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@aditi most of the religion has changed with times. If you look from minority perspective most of the other minorities are doing very well.

Christians, Parsis, Jains, Buddists, Sikhs. All these communities are adopting the new things for betterment.

My christian friend was telling now church accepts court divorces and dissolve the church marriage which was not the case some 20-25 years back.

Now they are debating on celibacy for their priests/nuns and thinking whether marriage can be an ethical option than facing scandals

Parsis if I understand right due to paucity of space are cremating their dead. Jains generally dont eat onions and all. But I have friends who have turned veggies because the work and movement across cities, countries make it impossible to stick to your strict plan.

So my question why progressive change cannot happen for one community. Here is where the vote bank also comes. Because the concerned is not minority, but the second majority in India

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@aditi I am not talking theory. This is what me and many of my friends experienced in first year of engineering college. And when I look back now i laugh at those memories. Because it was funny. In train one senior guy made me sit through his sob story of three girls ditching him. I just had to nod my head and tell " chetta potte( let it go bhaiyya)". Then seniors will question us if we come very much fashionable and give us imposition too.We got imposition for cutting the class and watching the movie Alaipayuthe as seniors caught us. When I look back I feel it ensured my first year I didnt spend time on dressing up or fooling around but on studying and the marks scored in first year was always the fall back when you went beserk in third year.

Third year you were more mature too to go beserk.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Interesting funda read it

http://www.ndtv.com/india-news/9-year-old-girl-forces-company-to-change-juice-packaging-1660455

How many times when addressing people where we dont know the gender masculine is used than feminine.

I have always questioned the ceremony that happens in the 8th month for the pregnant lady. All the mantras are for getting a male child. So what if it is a girl. Shouldnt it be for the health of the child and mother and safe delivery for mother rather getting a child of specific gender.