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Posted: 9 years ago
A friend ,philosopher and guide is what each one of us require at some time or other. A Chandra Gupta Mauraya needed a Chanakya to succeed in his dreams ;A Rani Lakshmi Bai needed her Tantya Tope to help her break the shackles of society to follow her destiny, Hanuman played that role to perfection whether it was for Sugriv -Roma or an unknown boy .
@ Mili I always wanted to do a fine arts course but life had set me on a different course. But I never could let go of the dream to paint. After a lot of years I met a retired gentleman who used to teach grown ups about art. He himself had had a regular job ,provided for his family. Now that he his children were independent he had gone back to his first love{his words not mine} and he told me that even though he was not formally trained in the arts, he could never let go of his dreams and had practiced on his own whenever he could find time in his busy routine. He gave my first set of colors and paints and encouraged me to paint. We moved from Dublin{where I met him} before I could learn anything substantial from him. But those paints and his words
sort of spurred me to take the first step and after four years of self study and numerous mistakes I did manage to get something credible on the canvas. So Mili don't ever give up on your dreams however impractical or impossible they may seem at this moment. Have faith in God and your dreams and somehow he will show you the way. All the best.
Coming back to the episode I am back to my often repeated question why is that a woman's options are always limited admittedly for her safety when a man does not even need to limit his thoughts and actions however inappropriate they are for society. The questions were in Sita's eyes today and Lakshman represented the society which imposes these limitations on her personal freedom.
Savita

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: LakshMila

Yup,Today's epii was my answer.

What made me realize it was that there was noone to tell the child what he aspired was also right.
My parents dont pressurize me,all they want is that I shouldn't suffer like they've done.They just want me to have a high status job so that I could live a perfect life.The problem that arises is that my aspiration is way too high and uncommon for the society I live in.My parents are rational and realistic,both of them are teachers.I still think what my family and friends will think on seeing me connected to TV.
And as I told you before,most of my relatives still think I am good for nothing 🤢 Screw them.
As for money,it really is 'NECESSARY' but not everything.


Mili do u realize this? We are replicas of each other 😃

Am a dreamer my family is realistic.

But I understood this thin line..

Being realistic doesnt mean compromising one's dream. And this is where belief plays a vital role.

Again its so great na we don't have family pressures 😃 cmn to relatives I don't give two hoots 😆

In fact I don't give a chance to anyone to interfere 😆

I agree to even this. "Money is a necessity" but ppl are hypocrites who make u c that money is everything. I have seen ppl change color... I have seen double faced ppl who changed with money.

For me money is a necessity but I need to give it back to those who have hurted me beyond limits...

For me what a "name" gives you "money" can never give you..

And that's what I work on.. To be a better person everyday..
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Shivam...


Ya , something in my case too

Failed my Class 11th as was not interested in non med , was busy on my computers hacking courses , but one thing was there , what i was interested in , I did it with sheer dedication

And in the end it did pay me dividends in form of my Mtech degree , good thing was a lot of support from my friends , two of them ended up the same way like me



Shivam ppl like you really inspire me.. 😃

Suno sabki karo dil ki.. Ultimate!!!!

Bas don't hack anybody's account here 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: daydreamers


Shivam ppl like you really inspire me.. 😃

Suno sabki karo dil ki.. Ultimate!!!!

Bas don't hack anybody's account here 😆


Hey , Thanks for That

Dont Worry , I am a hacker , not a cracker , u all are safe here 😆😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
Janhavi just watched Ram- Siya's scenes again.I just realized that those glances between them seemed more like an acknowledgement that she would have to cross that threshold if both of them had to fulfill their mission. Ram had a strange expression on his face and it was not that there they go again one but more like this protection is a futile one...Let us see how it plays out tomm.
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Posted: 9 years ago
Guys it was a good episode yesterday. Hanuman and the kid. The dialogue of the guru, I will cover in the separate post.
But what I would like to put here is Lanka and Siya-Lakshman. How much I am loving the representation of Lanka and the dynamics of Siya-Lakshman. That Siya-Lakshman dynamics is the undekha roop of Ramayan. No I have not read anywhere such a dynamics. The play of Prakriti and Sanskriti. It is remarkable and my full marks to CVs for that dynamics.
Now remember what did Sita do when she knew there was a problem. She thought some things experience only can teach. And from that experience Lakshman starts learning the hidden meanings of prakriti, starts respecting the knowledge of his bhabi.
Lakshman should have allowed his bhabi to experience the sanskriti, its threat, instead of creating the bandhan for her safety. Because once you experience the threat of sanskriti you will be aware, you will observe you don't need bandhan , but you will be within the maryada.
Here bandhan shows Lakshman's lack of trust in his bhabi's ability to protect herself. Which most men do. They think we women cannot protect ourselves. Lakshman will get his proof how a woman can protect herself when Sita raises the kids all by her own. But we need to understand that Sita is a mature one , one who knows Prakriti and the threats of Sanskriti and knows to deal with both. Just like Lakshman who with the knowledge of Prakriti is able to fight the war in Lanka.
I saw people telling about betrayals, taking advantage of innocence etc. Understand that Lord is giving you experience so that you have the discerning ability. If somebody fooled you, introspect why did it happen, what you didn't observe about the person. The mistake is with us. When you correct that you will be able to understand people better. Every betrayal, every taking advantage is a lesson. I always tell my innocence died with B-Tech. Baki jo bacha tha corporate world took that also. I have learnt to make deals. Always two sided. I have learnt to accept my selfishness and have accepted others are selfish also.
I always try to give the other person the choice. The way they make the choice I exactly make my choice. If you want me for money, yes the deal will be like that. If you want me as an individual with my knowledge you can choose that way. I will be like that.
I can wear a simple salwar and talk to people in underprivileged background to follow their dreams. I can have a coffee from thattukada or chat from a way side shop.
I can wear the most elegant designer salwar and saree with accessories and walk in a corporate party also talking about Chinese and continental dishes.
I can do heart to heart talking, I can also do animate talking. It is as per the demand of the situation.
Learn to be a chameleon whose color changes as per the surroundings. For that you need to understand the surroundings, understand people. Take every negative experience as that learning opportunity. Never allow these experiences to take away the goodness in you. But use them as an opportunity to recognize and deal with badness in this world.
Now the next part Lanka. Today Sulochana's question are you putting something in Kumbhakaran's food made me think once again of my analysis last day. Controlling the power. Giving no knowledge to the power. A sleeping Kumbhakaran represents power without knowledge.
And Sulochana keeping that sword on Meghanad's heart. She says if you want to hurt someone you will keep sword there. She is gonna hurt meghanad before the crucial battle. She is gonna make him emotionally weak with her attack whatever that is.
And why did Sita make no issues when protection was given to them till mudgal came. There it was not Sita alone. They had to take care of an unconscious Bharath and the other 3 ladies. There was no one and they were getting attacked. Hence the protection was accepted.
In current situation there is no visible threat. But Sita should have known as she has been already attacked twice. First time Ram came, second time Parvati came, so an attack can happen.
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Posted: 9 years ago
Shruthi finally got tym to read ur post after so long 😆
Yes, siya lakhan is a treat.. Absolute treat.. Am loving them from that debate... Its like a broken record now. Am enjoy them more than SiRa 😃

Cmn to Lanka I didn't hear the dialogues clearly . But ur analysis is wow.. 😃

I won't be able to analyse till next month I suppose.. Exams are dancing on my head..
And yes the dandak protection and yday's protection we are on same pg 😛

Cmn to ppl taking advantage.. U quoted ryt.. B.E has killed my innocence too 😆 but I ges its after 12th everyone's innocence is killed.. Its like a ritual..

Well thankfully I sensed things early.. And I became the same as my frenz were with me...

If am expressive here for a reason. I know some are genuine here. But meet me in person you'll find a diffn individual.

As I got to know ppl were double faced I became the same to them. Meet them say hi say bye after that juz get lost. No contacts at all.. I don't get attached easily. But some things really shocked me till core of how can ppl forget so easily? They showed partial amnesia. I did the same. Even today I have a closed knit circle of 2 or 3 ppl.. And I know they'll never use me..

Regarding others I have built a wall around myself. My funda is similar to yours... Tit for tat...

They showed me my place. I show them their place 😆

And yes one adapts with surroundings. A simple cotton outfit or a designer dress I'll be juggling between them always..

The ppl showed me money was imp than friendship.. Now I only speak the language of money with them.

You help me once I'll help you 10 times. U ditch me once, I'll show u my darker side. Bas!

To such ppl I do come across as unapproachable..

I guess that's why we connect. As I said earlier, the thought process. Ours is quite similar when it comes to sanskriti 😆


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Posted: 9 years ago
Yes DD most of the people in this thread has similar thought process. We want to express. Not take everything sitting down in the name of tradition or whatever.
And we want to take affirmative actions, own the actions if only the society could let us. The common concern is the bandhan in various forms for everyone. Want to know how to break bandhan, but not maryada.
Thinline between selfishness and freewill. Everyone has gone through the loop of emotional struggle one way or the other. Maybe that's why we all connect.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

Yes DD most of the people in this thread has similar thought process. We want to express. Not take everything sitting down in the name of tradition or whatever.

And we want to take affirmative actions, own the actions if only the society could let us. The common concern is the bandhan in various forms for everyone. Want to know how to break bandhan, but not maryada.
Thinline between selfishness and freewill. Everyone has gone through the loop of emotional struggle one way or the other. Maybe that's why we all connect.


U know I came across a beautiful line from an old show

"Iss duniya mein sabse bada rishta dard ka hota hai"

It is so true..

Pain connects everyone if we are open to share it 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
Guys need help. Some girl Sanjana has taken my posts and put it in tellyupdates as her own
Please read her comments and this 2 posts of mine
Please go and comment there. It is a copy cat thing. It is not hers 😭😭😭. Arrey taking a lot of effort to write something. Atleast when I see a copy cat I want to report it.

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