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Posted: 9 years ago
DD I too feel the same about fouzia.. n no don't ask me why.. because I cant pinpoint either but just feel that😃
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: sshirley

Anita and DD, totally agree with both your points..

DD - u said if Bharat had been consulted the result would hv been different.. how?
I also agree that Bharat would have handled this matter differently since he's like ram. But my question is how Bharat or Ram (if he had been there) would have handled it?


This is only and only in line with SKR..

Ram modified the tradition of killing the horse of ashwamedha yagya.

Bharat went against parampara and maryada.
What more can I say? 😉😉

Ram would have followed prakriti and convinced the praja, the way he did during ashwamedha.

Cmn to bharat, he is one emotional person... But again right in terms of prakriti...

His presence definitely would have changed smthn..

But u need to c what's active on the palace front..

It is sanskriti in the face of mandvi and shatrughna..

Bharat and urmila are reflections and hence prakriti.. And both are out. Bharat is away and urmila is asleep.. BINGO!!!!!

Mandvi and shatrughna are shadows.. And what marks the existence of shadows? Its the perception...

Shadows can be acknowledged easily as u can find them following footsteps of the individuals.. But to mark reflections one needs a deeper understanding... They are not readily noticeable. You need to mark their minute details.. And bharat is acknowledged the same once he does the tyaag. Now urmila will be acknowledged the same when she does her share of tyaag...
The sleep is going to stir everyone out of their deep slumber of agyaanta.

You acknowledge things when they are absent..

And now prakriti as a whole is out of ayodhya's palace...

And c the irony.. The state will be with sanskriti for 14 long years.. And once the prakriti is back, they fail to acknowledge it because of half knowledge and myopic vision...

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: Ankita.11

Yes..a thought provoking question...izzat and all are evils of our mindset..most important is self-respect,not bowing down before evil..Izzat is not the conditions that have been set up by few orthodox humans.it is keeping our morality right at all times at all conditions

Sorry to interrupt and no hard feelings. I am not sue whether I may be right or wrong but all I can say is this:
The question here is not a superficial word Izzat connected to once celibacy. That was said like that to keep the people in their control. Guys those are the days (off course even today) where people gave at most importance to the institution of marriage and one man, one woman concept ( sorry, I am not talking about Bigamy). And the celibacy was practiced till such time the girl and boy were married and become husband and wife. Guys whether the lady initiate or the man, the stigma was attached to lady as she is the carrier and on many occasions, used to get pregnant and had to bear the brunt of the family and society. Whether the cloth falls on the thorn or thorn falls on the cloth, the cloth is the loser as it will be torn and not the thorn. If I have to say in blunt language, in those days "after pills" were not available for a lady to get rid of the chances of getting pregnant, so to keep her safe, the elders would have used the word izzat and that is followed even now.
By calling izzat, that generation saved themselves from the unwanted pregnancy, some disease caused because of having ..x with multiple people.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: daydreamers


This is only and only in line with SKR..

Ram modified the tradition of killing the horse of ashwamedha yagya.

Bharat went against parampara and maryada.
What more can I say? 😉😉

Ram would have followed prakriti and convinced the praja, the way he did during ashwamedha.

Cmn to bharat, he is one emotional person... But again right in terms of prakriti...

His presence definitely would have changed smthn..

But u need to c what's active on the palace front..

It is sanskriti in the face of mandvi and shatrughna..

Bharat and urmila are reflections and hence prakriti.. And both are out. Bharat is away and urmila is asleep.. BINGO!!!!!

Mandvi and shatrughna are shadows.. And what marks the existence of shadows? Its the perception...

Shadows can be acknowledged easily as u can find them following footsteps of the individuals.. But to mark reflections one needs a deeper understanding... They are not readily noticeable. You need to mark their minute details.. And bharat is acknowledged the same once he does the tyaag. Now urmila will be acknowledged the same when she does her share of tyaag...
The sleep is going to stir everyone out of their deep slumber of agyaanta.

You acknowledge things when they are absent..

And now prakriti as a whole is out of ayodhya's palace...

And c the irony.. The state will be with sanskriti for 14 long years.. And once the prakriti is back, they fail to acknowledge it because of half knowledge and myopic vision...


Well said

So Bharat would have tried to convince the praja

But then like the ppl said would it have set a bad example n others would have followed?
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: deejagi

Sorry guys, I can't do a thorough analysis today as I am sure if I start to do , I may not stop it and currently I have no time with me. just having my lunch after an hectic half day in Office and post lunch will be more taxing. So just thought of peeping and landed square into the pool of debate.

Ok just few words here about Shathrugan and his justice. Sorry I will not quote Prakrithi & Samskriti here but just plain thoughts.
The question what would have happened if he had given the ruling in favor of the girl? As mentioned by the citizens, that would have opened up all new perspective on the institution of marriage and family. Today the girl and her father claimed that she was innocent and just to save her life from the swirl wind, she stayed with a man for few days alone and nothing wrong transpired between them. But she has no alibi to support her words or justification, not even her father knew what happened during the course of those days except for her explanation. As a father he accepted the same on face value and since he knew his daughter, he even believed her. But to give a Judgment, one needs witness and these people don't even have the man in question with them and that would have saved them a bit. After hearing the case, the first thing Shathrughan did was check with the Sr. minister who had served the state for longer than his age about what is the punishment for such crime or mistake and the minister said with command that she should be banned from state and sent to forest. the way it was voiced was like she should be sent to forest for ever and may be that was how it was practiced during Dasharth or his ancestors regime. But Shathrughan after seeing the girl and also after analyzing the factors and to prevail the Harmony of the society , gave his judgment of 2 years term in forest at state expense and security. A nominal punishment so that others don't follow the same.
When I said others, I didn't mean the women alone, it can be men as well. Whatever happened now unknowingly will happen knowingly and they can cover up the case with some other excuse. Even if a man abducts some lady and later claim he did nothing and no harm was caused to the lady, the court will have to agree to him as they will have to give justice based on his favor. The punishment was an eye opener for others to not to commit such mistakes.
And Shathrughan could not go to Bharath and asked for his advise as he had to proclaim the judgment then and there. Had Bharath been available at the court and if Shathru had ignored his presence and went ahead with his declaration, then he should have been condemned but not now. Shathru did take the opinion of the elder minister who had served his father for long and at whom the subjects kept the respect on high pedestal.
Sorry guys, need to end here. let me see, if I can do justice to Lakshman & Sita debate or action & reaction, may be later.


Jaya thank u for giving the other side. *high five* same thots here also.. But I ges I was too much into sanskriti prakriti..

And yes that's the very reason I didn't blame shatrughna. He gave a nominal punishment to the girl with protection...

To announce decisions one needs proofs and witnesses... But shatrughna did pay heed to the Father's words. He gave a nominal penance...

But c when u see the whole scene as a larger picture it comes across that shatrughna is at fault. And this can be the reason that yday's episode might have gained thumbs down...

But when we see the details we notice that what shatrughna did was Ram's knowledge ( giving the girl protection) and acted as per lakshman's way ( following rajdharma or giving punishment)

I had drawn a parallel between sumantra and bharat during the time of ram's coronation announcement. The walk of siya ram on the streets.. It was sumantra who accompanied them...

Again today it was sumantra who gave advise..

If bharat would have been there the scene would have been totally different... "Emotions"...

And c the way shatrughna announces the decision.. It wasn't a stern decision... It was smthn that he was compelled to do in the name of what has been going on for years but he offers his own twist... A nominal punishment with protection.. But did the father realise this?

I connect this with rishi mudgal's scene.. Both shatrughna and lakshman had disturbed his tapasya. He was angry. But once he hears their stand he is ready to help them...

Shatrughna today applied both wisdom and action.. But was the recipient ready to understand?

And this myopic vision is going to take sita in a tough place...

Today the myopic vision of the other praja made the Dhobi's girl a victim and tomorrow the myopic vision of the dhobi will make sita the victim.. And when this happens I want shatrughna to have the fb of this sabha...
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Posted: 9 years ago
Jaya Nice take yet another perspective to consider
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: sshirley


Well said

So Bharat would have tried to convince the praja

But then like the ppl said would it have set a bad example n others would have followed?


Cmn to convincing part...

Ram ko koi takkar nahi h iss maamle mein...

But as ram is absent bharat would have tried right?

But the praja is as it is angry on him for Ram's exile, though he wasn't his fault... So do u think, bharat would have been able to convince the praja?
Even when bharat is a reflection of ram, they both differ in a way...

Bharat is an emotional person in comparison to ram...

Recall what he had told to mandvi.. He took the decision mandvi asked him to justify and c how helplessly he says I don't have an explanation... I don't have the "tark" to justify my actions...

What bharat did was "samarpan". Thru mahadev we got to know the reasons to his actions... By giving up the throne he has adhered to prakriti...

If bharat would have been here, it would have been different in terms that the decision would have been to extreme end.. Juz like his leaving palace... His reasons were justified for himself but shatrughna failed to understand them. Vashishtha failed to understand them. The tym shatrughna enters the ground with his points vashishtha's eyes have that spark of pride...

Bharat's logic can work only when ram is around... His emotions can be put at rest only by ram... And c how, its ram and sita who understand bharat in and out. Not once did they misinterpret any of his actions.

Actually jaya's post made me rethink...

Shatrughna by giving nominal punishment is trying to strike a balance between prakriti and sanskriti. I.e Ram's knowledge and lakshman's actions...

If bharat would have been there, it would have different... Yes.. For me it would have been towards the extreme. Whereas shatrughna is trying ro play at the mean position...
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: daydreamers


Jaya thank u for giving the other side. *high five* same thots here also.. But I ges I was too much into sanskriti prakriti..

And yes that's the very reason I didn't blame shatrughna. He gave a nominal punishment to the girl with protection...

To announce decisions one needs proofs and witnesses... But shatrughna did pay heed to the Father's words. He gave a nominal penance...

But c when u see the whole scene as a larger picture it comes across that shatrughna is at fault. And this can be the reason that yday's episode might have gained thumbs down...

But when we see the details we notice that what shatrughna did was Ram's knowledge ( giving the girl protection) and acted as per lakshman's way ( following rajdharma or giving punishment)

I had drawn a parallel between sumantra and bharat during the time of ram's coronation announcement. The walk of siya ram on the streets.. It was sumantra who accompanied them...

Again today it was sumantra who gave advise..

If bharat would have been there the scene would have been totally different... "Emotions"...

And c the way shatrughna announces the decision.. It wasn't a stern decision... It was smthn that he was compelled to do in the name of what has been going on for years but he offers his own twist... A nominal punishment with protection.. But did the father realise this?

I connect this with rishi mudgal's scene.. Both shatrughna and lakshman had disturbed his tapasya. He was angry. But once he hears their stand he is ready to help them...

Shatrughna today applied both wisdom and action.. But was the recipient ready to understand?

And this myopic vision is going to take sita in a tough place...

Today the myopic vision of the other praja made the Dhobi's girl a victim and tomorrow the myopic vision of the dhobi will make sita the victim.. And when this happens I want shatrughna to have the fb of this sabha...

DD I am not sure if there was different justice would have prevailed had bharath been in the sabha and him considering the girl as innocent. I think since it is Shathru, the girl got only the nominal punishment while it would have been totally reverse if it were bharath. I know may may not agree with me on this but he goes by the hearsay.
See he had some intuition that something bad happening at Ayodhya and at that moment they got a call to return. He enter the city and saw people turning their face on him and it made him feel uneasy. then he enter the palace and found his father dead and he didn't even once asked for his mother, the favorite wife of his father and her absence from the scene but he asked for his brothers and SIL. (he has some fixed view like a horse with eye shield). What he did next, he heard the story from his wife and rushed to his mother and berated her and banished her, disowned her. I am not saying what he did was wrong but for a prince of a noble state, for a disciple of Bramharshi vashist, he should have had the patience to hear the other side of the story before proclaiming the punishment. Why he did that, not just because his father is dead and his brothers are in forest but because he will be framed as the culprit of this situation. The people will call him cheater.
In a nutshell, he gives more importance to society than the person.
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Posted: 9 years ago
Jaya u do have a point... It's not about agreeing or disagreeing at all.. 😃
There was the point where bharat's emotions overrule...

He was first affected by the praja turning their heads around, this was not enough the next shock comes dashratha is dead. This doesnt seep in much, the next realization ram sita lakshman absent...

Do u expect the man's mind will work in this state?
I was happy he noticed Ram's absence first.. I was reminded of a scene there.. The garden scene where bharat is painting and kaikeyi asks him who will he choose? He replies he'll choose her as his ram bhaiyya will want him the same to do...

The next.. Truth cmn out.. Mandvi telling him.. Do u think if kaikeyi would have recited him the story, his stand would have been different? I don't think so.. Either way he would have disowned kaikeyi not because he was framed as culprit but because her stand invited the calamity on everyone...

Do u think what kaikeyi did was right? What manthara did was right?

In that sense even manthara was like a mother figure whom shatrughna drags out.. He also has a heated argument with kaikeyi...

Bharat's first shield first focus will always be ram because he has dedicated everything to him.. And dedication comes with emotions and not logic...

Yes, if bharat would have been there the scene would have been different, extreme and disastrous also...

He would have decided taking emotions into account...

And I feel it would have been the girl he would have chosen.. Juz c mandvi tells bharat agrees and blasts off kaikeyi... He didn't require proof... He would have done a similar thing with the girl...

And this would have resulted in unrest and turbulence in the society isn't it? A quick result.. Isn't it? Or a short term one...

Cmn to shatrughna's decision.. It seems everything is at peace now but again this will cost them in the long run...

Ram banishing sita will assure the balance in the praja for the time being.. But sita going back will be a permanent loss that the kingdom and ram will have to bear...
Edited by daydreamers - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
@ DD, I am not saying what Kaikeyi did was right or bharath's stand to disown her would have changed after hearing her out. But he presume things even before hearing it out. Even in case of his marriage, he presumed Mandavi was not happy with the announcement and went to Ram and said it and also when he talked to her also, he didn't wait for her to say a word, he said, he will take the blame and will tell his father to stall their marriage. So he always makes the decision in haste.

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