Originally posted by: FAMS
Janhavi i take time to open up so yes i am a very privaye person plus few bitter experience of life had put me into a shell which only very few persons can break.
I liked the initial Mithila part of SKR and than stumbled upon the tnread of Shruthi and your discussions. Have been following your thread but still can't post much from my end.
fouzia you took my words very differently...😆
for me to understand ppl its not needed to know the personal experiences at all.
what governs understanding are thoughts. and how one expresses thots on IF? Thru character analysis, through scene analysis. isn't it? and the thoughts on the characters give a sneak peek into the minds of the writer. like what makes his/her brain tick...
shruthi, charvi, savitha,srutha,geena,supriya,jaya and everyone here share a part of their mind here.
if u share your personal experiences here, we will know u.
but if u share your thoughts on the show, we understand u.
so technically we don't know each other but we feel and understand each other...
its like ram and janaka...
as a kid ram heard stories about janaka from vashishtha and he knew janaka.
but when he meets janaka and the latter shares his thoughts he starts understanding him.
coming to being private and introvert... am an extreme in this case 😆
i guess not even ppl around me know and understand me so well the way you all do...
i started sharing my life here once i felt assured that i won't be ditched...
as charvi says ganga is action... if u meet me in real, u'll always find me doing one or the other thing in a very absurd way... i have my own reasons but i'll never disclose it. only one or two ppl understand that... and those who have the intuitive connection with me will understand me... if u meet my classmates or college mates maximum of them will tell u am egoistic and arrogant... and tell this to those who know me, they'll laugh on your face 😆. i am a paradox in myself. quiet at times and forcing at others.. again with knowledge and reasons... just like charvi says..
cmn to sharing my life here, i don't but i felt like.. maybe my mistakes shall be a lesson to others. fortunately haven't had any bitter experiences here yet...😆 and one thing you must know i never take shit from anybody...😆 even if bashers arrive i'll make them nau do gyaarah from here...😆
i'll tell you about yday.. i do have a habit of connecting with ppl of IF on different sites as fb or twitter.
and yday was like a shocking surprise for me...
one friend whom i met on IF and connected on fb. well we didnt knew each other but juz a formality... and we hadnt followed the show much so were not in touch for long time..
yday she msgd me on fb juz like that... and formally i went on what's going on wagara wagara... she told that her life had become a mess. she didn't open up much but one clue was enough for me... and it related to my experience so well. i narrated her my story juz to make her comfy. i did what i cud in the hope that my talks shall help her...
i don't know how much i justify myself with my experiences but one thing i got to know was that i can be a good counselor...
and this thread as per me is very safe. maybe my intuitiveness helped me to figure out that and open the book of my life..
so in a nutshell i want to say that life experiences are not a compulsion to share. what matters are the thots. the thots about scenes, characters is enough to give away the thought process of a person and that makes us understand them.
and this is what has worked out for me... everyone's thots made me believe that we are similar in many ways. and i ges that confidence made me share my life here. and my confidence made some of them join me in this journey.
again if i share my life, it is not compulsory that you too share your life... after all its skr and thoughts on the show are more important than personal experiences... 😃
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