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sumedha93

@sumedha93

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Posted: 9 years ago

Comments and suggestions welcome 😊

Like many I always thought why Ram left Sita ? Was it right ?

Here I tired to give my reason for his decision. This is my point of view of what they both were thinking, no offence to anyone.

The night when Ram left Sita.

Ram in his room in Ayodhya - Ye kerna aavshyak tha yadi mai aisa na kerta toh aaj jo baat ek dhobi vayakat ker raha tha wo kal saara nagar kehta aur mujhay wo sweekaar nahi hota. Aaj tumhe van bhej ker maine bhavishya mai tum per lagne waale saare dosho se tumhe mukt ker diya. Aaj ke baad koi bhi kabhi bhi tumhare charitra per ungali nahi utha paayega. Mujhay gyaat hai ki aane wale samay mai log mere iss nirnaya ki ninda kerenge parantu wo mujhay maanya hai. Aane wali pidhi mujh per ek acche pati na hone ka dosh lagayegi parantu aaj ke upraant koi bhi Sita per ek acchi patni na hone ka aarop nahi laga sakega. Mujhay gyaat hai ki tum se aadhik charitravaan koi aur stree kabhi nahi ho sakti aur aaj ke upraant sabko ye gyaat ho jayega. Tumhara maan, samaan aur swabhimaan banaye rakhne ke liye ye anivaarya tha.

Sita sitting in an Ashram in the forest - Ye aapne kya ker diya ? Mujhay surakshit rakhne ke liye, meri garima banaye rakhne ke liye khud per dosh le liye. Aaj mujhay van bhej ker aapne mere charitra per uthane waale sabhi prashno ko sadaiv ke liye samaapt ker diya. Aaj ke upraant koi mere upar kisi prakaar ka dosh nahi laga sakega per aap per prashana uthenge. Aane wale samay mai log aapke iss kritya ki ninda kerenge. Apne iss nirnaya se mujhay toh aapne surakshit ker diya par swayam ko prashno se gher liya. Main ek acchi patni thi ya nahi ye prashana kabhi utpan bhi nahi hoga per aapke ek acche pati hone per prashana baar baar utpan hoga aur aap baar baar Agneepareeksha dene ke liye baadhya honge.

P.S - When Ram kept Sita's idol in ashwamedha yagya he proved the world that he never doubted her chastity and integrity.

Edited by sumedha93 - 9 years ago

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 9 years ago

Beautiful Sumedha. Yes I had put my thoughts in another thread on this. Yes not only Ram protected Sita from gossip mongers, but took a big blame on himself. Exactly the way he wanted. Sita's purity stood vindicated over the years and the world went on questioning Ram did he protect her. Did he stood up to the vow he gave to her in front of the sacred fire.

The fact is he stood up, but in his own way managing the conflict of being a husband and a king. He took the personal pain of separation at one end, but at the same time isolated the gossip mongers by keeping the golden idol of Sita for Aswamedha, making it very clear to the world he never suspected her purity even for a second.

But unfortunately the world or the men took his action as punishing the victim and allowing the perpetuator of the crime go free, when they said Sita was banished because Ravan took her. So a woman has to suffer for a man's crime.

His very act of protecting his wife's purity and chastity, has been used by patriarchal society to subjudicate the woman is the irony of the whole thing.

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sumedha93

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
Beautiful Sumedha. Yes I had put my thoughts in another thread on this. Yes not only Ram protected Sita from gossip mongers, but took a big blame on himself. Exactly the way he wanted. Sita's purity stood vindicated over the years and the world went on questioning Ram did he protect her. Did he stood up to the vow he gave to her in front of the sacred fire.

The fact is he stood up, but in his own way managing the conflict of being a husband and a king. He took the personal pain of separation at one end, but at the same time isolated the gossip mongers by keeping the golden idol of Sita for Aswamedha, making it very clear to the world he never suspected her purity even for a second.

But unfortunately the world or the men took his action as punishing the victim and allowing the perpetuator of the crime go free, when they said Sita was banished because Ravan took her. So a woman has to suffer for a man's crime.

His very act of protecting his wife's purity and chastity, has been used by patriarchal society to subjudicate the woman is the irony of the whole thing.

Thanks 😊

I wasn't expecting you to reply almost immediately.

Glad you liked it 😃

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Sruthi

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Posted: 9 years ago

Beautifully written ! I was always interested in this part of the story !
Ram just didnt relieved Sita from all the Bashing , bt he took it upon himself.
There are a lot many things in the epic that we should learn .

thnx for PM , I would have missed this wonderful stuff.😳

Love,
Sruthi

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sugunmanas

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Posted: 9 years ago

Nice medha😃
sorry i didn't notice your os otherwise i would have replied earlier
Nice take👏
Ram and Sita both really had great trust on each other.
so nice
keep writing dear😃
iss baar iss topic pe lambi os likhna😳
thanks for the pm
agli baar jarur pm karna😃

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Frosty_Moon

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Posted: 9 years ago

Beautifully written dear..
Their love, trust on each other is unconditional and incomparable...
Ram.keeping sita's idol at ashavmegh yagya proves his love and trust for her and make realize others who think wrong of Sita...

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sumedha93

@sumedha93

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: DilMereSuntaNhi
Beautifully written ! I was always interested in this part of the story !
Ram just didnt relieved Sita from all the Bashing , bt he took it upon himself.
There are a lot many things in the epic that we should learn .

thnx for PM , I would have missed this wonderful stuff.😳

Love,
Sruthi

Thank you. This is just my point of view of what happened.

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Sanavi

@Sanavi

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Posted: 9 years ago

Nice POV.
but I still doubt whether there could have been a different way to please the gossip mongers. Punishing Sita for this ,according to me , was the easiest way out.

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