NIharika Being Selfish!

Hey guys..

I think Niharika is doing injustice with Arpita.. When everyone thought Rudr died and Shivam came in..even though she didnt want to be married to him but to get back at Anktrish she did..than she grew to have feelings for Shivam..So its ok for her to re-marry but Dhruv can't?

I understand the circumstances are different. I miss Vedika and her character so much..however, Arpita is just as sweet and innocent..and if Vedika is no more, why cant Dhruv move on in his life? Niharika is just being to childish..Vedika lives in Dhruv's heart and she will always be apart of him..HOwever, he does need to move on into his life and have a mother figure for Krishna. I hope Niharika realizes that.. I really want Dhruv and Arpita to live like husband and Wife because they both derserve each other..mind u..no couple like Vedika and Dhruv but since she is no more..LIfe needs to be lived on..

any comments?

Originally posted by: Zaynah

Hey guys..

I think Niharika is doing injustice with Arpita.. When everyone thought Rudr died and Shivam came in..even though she didnt want to be married to him but to get back at Anktrish she did..than she grew to have feelings for Shivam..So its ok for her to re-marry but Dhruv can't?

I understand the circumstances are different. I miss Vedika and her character so much..however, Arpita is just as sweet and innocent..and if Vedika is no more, why cant Dhruv move on in his life? Niharika is just being to childish..Vedika lives in Dhruv's heart and she will always be apart of him..HOwever, he does need to move on into his life and have a mother figure for Krishna. I hope Niharika realizes that.. I really want Dhruv and Arpita to live like husband and Wife because they both derserve each other..mind u..no couple like Vedika and Dhruv but since she is no more..LIfe needs to be lived on..

any comments?

I completely agree with you!! What Niharika is doing cannot be justified in any way. We all know that she loves her sister, but by keeping Arpita and Dhruv away from each other she is doing an injustice to their relationship. Vedika was a really nice person, and she would have wanted Dhruv to be happy with Arpita. Niharika is so selfish sometimes😡😡!! She should learn to be happy for others. For once in her life, she should start thinkning like Vedika and change her mentality. I don't hate Niharika as such, and here I'm not comparing her to Antariksh or whatever...but sometimes what she does just angers me a lot. I believe that she does not have the ability to judge what is right and what is wrong! And I dont mean any offense to anyone or their opinion regarding Niharika😊! Cheers😊!!

I agree in most cases...but Niharika is not doing this out of selfishness...its just that Vedika's death was a big shock for her and it is not something easy for her to overcome...Vedika is the reason for most of Niharika's doings...Vedika was her life...but now that she is gone...she doesnt want to see the family forgetting Vedika in any way..and it makes her jealous seeing Arpita kind of taking Vedika's place

i agree u are right niharika can do things but cant she let other people di it why god she is very selfish in these kinds of things

I completely agree with whatever you have said... Before all this could happen, Nih was angry at Arpita and could not stand her bcos she was the daughter of BP, who was supposed to have killed Ved.. So that was fine then. Nih's blood used to boil when she saw Arpita , bcos she could not stand the fact that Dhruv had married the girl whose father was responsible for Ved's death.. all was ok, we could understan what Nih was going thro' then..

But now, when all things have been proved, when she very well knows that BP was innocent, Arpita is really innocent, and that she is just a prey to circumstances and fate brought her close to Dhruv..., Nih should definitely change.. But no, Nih is the same, angry with Arpita as before..

I ask just one thing.. When Nih who lived for so many months with Shivam (who was the killer of Ved) can now get her life back, forget the past and move on with Rudr, why cant Dhruv do the same thing? When Nih very well knows now that Arpita is really a nice girl and can definitely keep Dhruv happy, why is she protesting to this relationship? Why is Nih behaving like this? When Nih can forget the fact that she lived a part of her life with Ved's killer(Shivam) and can move on with rudr, as though nothing happened, then why is it that she expects Dhruv to live his life alone remembering Ved ?

Why is it that Nih has biased feelings when it comes to Dhruv's happiness? I really hate the thought process of Nih now, bcos Dhruv too has a right to live his own life.. Yes, it is a fact that Dhruv can never forget Ved, he can probably never give Ved's place to Arpita. But dont we all think that Dhruv and Arpita need to start a relationship now and be happy? Come on Nih, please dont be so selfish.. Please.. 😕

Niharika is Selfish whether ne one agrees or not bcos i have alsways stated in this forum from the beginning that i don't like Niharika and she is a seflish character okay maybe she is the only outspoken person but what happened with shivam (tab kun nahin apna mooh kola waise tho baat baat par arpita ko bolti rehtin jab shivam ne tumhe torture kiya that thab kya hua?)

well neway totally agree with you she is doing injustice but that is what she does half the time and luckly the other half the time it is just a coincidence that she is doing something nice

i could say that some times her character can be related to reality because we got to believe that humans do make mistakes and sometimes there is some selfishness involved but what ticks me the most is that when she asked dhruv to marry vedika if she marries antariksh

well obviously i am happy that dhruv and vedika got married because they are my favorite but if you think from the point of view of Dhruv it is sad and how when she sees vedika recovering she decides she is going to backout and how she betrays antariksh and makes fun of him and how can you sleep with someone else when you are a wife of someone else that is disgusting and that is making fun of a husband and wife realtionship and then i hated the part where she uses Rudr as a pawn against Raizada's because antariksh kicked her out. i felt bad for rudr in those days

but what would you expect antariksh forgiving you no way whatever antariksh did was great uptil the part where he raped her

he needed to learn to control his anger and that was wrong on his part

and how she lied about her baby to rudr and told him that it was antariksh and not that other dude who she had slept with ...uggghhh

well i could go on except i am really sleepy and i have school and work tomorrow maybe i could finish it tomorrow well that is if i remember, which i think i won't but lets see

good night everyone

~Gagan~

sorry if i offended any niharika fans, but as kirti she does a wonderful job of acting i must say she really made me hate her😆but isn't that what a character with negative shades should do?

Sree I agree with you, Nih can live happy but Dhruv cannot. He dreserves to be happy and if he finds love again, well good for him and Aripta seems to be a nice girl. I think Nih. needs to focus on her life and let Dhruv live his. Its not like her sister went on a holiday and is expected back so she is seekign her sister interest, her sister died, Dhruv needs to be happy. Well Said Sree

Despite everything u all said i stil feel she isnt selfish, it will be hard for her to see Arpita in Vedika's place...a place which belonged to Niharika's sister...we are all a witness to Nih-Ved's love...it was very unique sis love..thats why amybe she feels anger towards arpita... but im sure with time it'll settle down...

I stil luv Nih... 😳