Change in character arc - Page 3

Originally posted by: ria_9

what if it is a one day guilt only?? if he comes clean to whom he backstabbed and genuinely asks for forgiveness then why not..

I was just asking not justifying him.

Originally posted by: Haalim

No I'm not offended, I said other people might get offended.

Look I belong to a different community so my perception about things may be different.

For me the difference between Kunal and Ruhaan is Kunal was a married man and he started having physical relations with another women that too out of wedlock. If I go on with my belief he needed to be stoned to death but that's my belief. But that doesn't mean he couldn't have been forgiven. No mistake is big enough that cannot be forgiven if the person really wants to rectify and yeah that's my perspective for the same.

that quite dangerous belief di. 😮 I have already forgive him jab mouli jiske shaat usne bura kiya uske forgive kardiya tho main kon hoti hu. I believes in forgive and forget, kisi ke liye apne heart me hate lekar kud ka hi nokshan hota hai.

But what's the compression between Kunal and Ruhaan?

Originally posted by: HeartBeat321

that quite dangerous belief di. 😮 I have already forgive him jab mouli jiske shaat usne bura kiya uske forgive kardiya tho main kon hoti hu. I believes in forgive and forget, kisi ke liye apne heart me hate lekar kud ka hi nokshan hota hai.

But what's the compression between Kunal and Ruhaan?

It's like we muslims believe in afterlife so for a person to not get punished there, such sins get a punishment in this world only. But it is only practised if we are under a muslim ruler and if the person is proved guilty in court. No common man can give such punishments.

And I already said no mistake is bigger enough to not get a forgiveness.

There's no comparison actually. He's not a married man, he was not pursuing her and he's feeling guilty. Let's see what's in store for us.

Originally posted by: Haalim

It's like we muslims believe in afterlife so for a person to not get punished there, such sins get a punishment in this world only. But it is only practised if we are under a muslim ruler and if the person is proved guilty in court. No common man can give such punishments.

And I already said no mistake is bigger enough to not get a forgiveness.

There's no comparison actually. He's not a married man, he was not pursuing her and he's feeling guilty. Let's see what's in store for us.

yes, he was not pursuing her but when he get to know that she also feels the same for him he get cold feet and gulity. Abhi tak he is in one side love ship, uske koyi suffer nahi hota but now mishti also likes him which in a way breaking veer's heart. Jitna bhi bole hai tho dil ka softy he. I really hope he realize it soon ke yese mishti ko avoid karne kuch nahi hoga, jab mishti veer se pyaar hi nahi karti veer kabhi khush nahi rahega mishti ke shaat nahi mishti rahege and came back and took the responsibility of his feelings I am gald finally i see that guilt jho main Ruhaan me dekhna chati thi.

Originally posted by: HeartBeat321

yes, he was not pursuing her but when he get to know that she also feels the same for him he get cold feet and gulity. Abhi tak he is in one side love ship, uske koyi suffer nahi hota but now mishti also likes him which in a way breaking veer's heart. Jitna bhi bole hai tho dil ka softy he. I really hope he realize it soon ke yese mishti ko avoid karne kuch nahi hoga, jab mishti veer se pyaar hi nahi karti veer kabhi khush nahi rahega mishti ke shaat nahi mishti rahege and came back and took the responsibility of his feelings I am gald finally i see that guilt jho main Ruhaan me dekhna chati thi.

As this show is more from Mishti's POV I want her to take a stand for her feelings and break up with Veer first. After that I want Ruhaan to apologise to Veer though he could not have controlled his feelings but he could have atleast tried to leave the place. But I'm glad he's owning his mistakes. Better late than never.

Originally posted by: Haalim

As this show is more from Mishti's POV I want her to take a stand for her feelings and break up with Veer first. After that I want Ruhaan to apologise to Veer though he could not have controlled his feelings but he could have atleast tried to leave the place. But I'm glad he's owning his mistakes. Better late than never.

that's what I want, Mishti to break up with Veer first. After that Ruhaan to ask for forgiveness to veer in a way he did betray veer feeling uske haath me nahi thi but he did loose the control over himself(again I understand him but that doesn't make it right) I don't mind veer punch him too haq banta hai uska. Veer deserves the truth and apology from both of them. Without mistake of his he is suffering, I know kisi ke haath me nahi tha but fir bhi galat hua hai uske shaat.

Originally posted by: HeartBeat321

that's what I want, Mishti to break up with Veer first. After that Ruhaan to ask for forgiveness to veer in a way he did betray veer feeling uske haath me nahi thi but he did loose the control over himself(again I understand him but that doesn't make it right) I don't mind veer punch him too haq banta hai uska. Veer deserves the truth and apology from both of them. Without mistake of his he is suffering, I know kisi ke haath me nahi tha but fir bhi galat hua hai uske shaat.

Yes that's why people need to be very sure before jumping to marriage. Poor guy is suffering without any fault of his. But it's better that this situation arose before they got married as it becomes more complicated after marriage.

Yes both owe a sincere apology to him.

Loved your post !

Veer - I feel he was never dominating as such coz he never FORCED Mishti to do something...He asked Mishti to hand over the work to Pari coz he wanted her to be burden free and then he even asked her if she was okay with it...I also felt that he is giving his 100% to the relation, he tries to be there for her...When she cut his calls he felt bad but never blamed Mishti or fought with her for her behavior...When Mishti asked him to not ask her anything he literally obeyed....when she asked him to undertand her , he said that he understands her and hence is with her....At the date also Mishti left and he didn't get angry but rather got worried...Next day also he asked her if she was okay and she lied...He gave her space, he obeyed whatever she asked him to do and he is worried about her...As per Mishti she was very happy with Veer before...As per Mishti Veer is loving and caring ! We have already seen how much he cares about her family as well when he came running in order to help Radhika and even helped Arnav in getting a job.....Mishti might not be in love with him but Veer surely is in love with her and in real life any girl will be lucky to have a partner like her in my opinion...No one will leave a guy like him for another guy as per me.....The only person I relate to and feel bad for is Veer.

I wonder if he will also like Muali will keep thinking about what went wrong their relation....if he will self doubt and keep thinking what mistake did he make that Mishti left him for his best friend...Will he also go through a heartbreak and keep doubting himself.....One can only wonder and feel bad for the guy.

Mishti - She is coming across as selfish....Today also she lied to Veer....She wants to talk to Ruhaan first...but why ? ....Does she need a confirmation that he also loves her...and if doesn't then she will stick with Veer? Is Veer really only an option for her now ? A back up ? She claimed to love him not long ago....She made promises of an eternity, professed her love for him and was and still is committed to him ! He is the same guy who she admitted not once but twice that he is so loving and caring and they were so happy ! This guy deserves at least honesty from her end if nothing else. It's an irony that the girl who always was so afraid of going through a heartbreak will make someone else go through the same pain and heartbreak !

Ruhan - He was always clear that he might be betraying Veer but he can't betray his own feelings..He often felt that Mishti felt something for her...He was never guilty of loving Mishti...Even in yesterday's epi he said the same thing that he will choose his own feelings over Veer and waited for the confirmation that Mishti loves him and was even elated ! So, today all of a sudden out of the blue why is he worried about Veer ! He is getting what he wanted so why this sudden change ! What else was he expecting Veer to do...hug him for what he did ? I feel no sympathy for him ! Is this the writers' way of trying to white wash him ! Gosh this is again reminding me of season 1 though comparisons are not allowed.

Pari -Veer - To be honest their pairing has always intrigued me ! I am open for them if they happen organically ! If their relation can be built on love, care, understanding and trust rather than physical attraction ....Pari is afraid of commitment doesn't know what true love is....Veer is someone who believes in commitment.....Pari needs someone who can teach her the real meaning of true love n make here realise the value of relations n commitment and Veer does fit the bill here........2 heart broken people can come together n heal each other ...Veer is not Pari's jeeju coz Mishti isn't going to marry him.

But makers won't show this as they have a very different notion of what true love is and also there isn't any time left

Mishti should have broken up long back. Har cheez ka sahi time hota hai to make it look dignified. Now break up or no break up, mishti looks cheap, selfish and big time opportunist.

I want to see what she tells veer? Gutsy enough and honest enough to say dude sorry but I fell out of love with u and fell in love with your friend. We don’t have any heart to heart talk bas aankhon aankhon mein pyar ho gaya. So bye bye.

There is no decent explanation unless she lies. And that’s no big deal for her, fakeness pe toh she built the whole relationship with veer.

Originally posted by: Haalim

Veer: Veer is a very nice guy, no doubt a lot of girls prefer such kind of guys as their partners. But the problem with such guys is that to make them understand your feelings of joy and happiness, you need to voice the same. Look e.g he saw how Mishti left the restaurant even when she was the one who had planned the date he didn't even ask her the reason. No doubt he is caring enough that he came next day to check if she was okay but he still didn't ask her why she left. That obviously doesn't make him a bad guy but that makes him a bit ignorant.

Ruhaan:From today's scene it's clear that the guy was okay with having feelings towards his friend's fiance even if it meant that he was deceiving him but the moment he thought Mishti too was getting involved with him he thought it was like pursuing Mishti behind his friend's back.

He imagined Veer saying he was pursuing his fiance behind his back not he has feelings for her. That's what understood from the scene.

Ps I already posted this once but it didn't get highlighted. This layout is a pain 😥

mishti ordered veer not to ask her anything.. thats y he didnt ask.. otherwise he fully understands that mishti is quite upset and absent minded now a days..