Are makers faltering ? Or is it deliberate ? (DT Note pg. 11) - Page 9

Hello everyone,

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

of course if one is a playboy or philanderer kind of a person then , they can fall in and out of love multiple times without any reason. And it happens in real life as well. But if one is a good decent committed type of a person then there are always reasons. Those reasons may be superficial , deep , wrong , shallow etc but there are always reasons. We may or may not want to accept those reasons. But reasons are always there. In season 1 from what the makers showed reasons were superficial like beauty and cooking etc. But reasons were there. If it's with out any reason then that person is in simple words a philanderer or a play boy kind of a person and such a person shouldn't be in a committed relationship. Because you never know when that person may decide he/ she doesn't want to do it anymore. If Mishti is that kind of person then she loves Ruhaan without any reason today then tomorrow she can also fall out of love with Ruhaan without any reason. Even Ruhaan can stop loving Mishti and start loving Pari without any reason. Hence such people should clearly not be in a committed relationship because they can easily fall in and out love without any reasons. Personally I don't think Mishti and Ruhaan are like that. Hence people are looking for reasons.

I don't believe in that there is any serious compabilty issue between veer and mishty. if there is really compabilty issue then why mishty and veer has not discuss about this yet

look like mishty want to cover up her mistake by saying usne kabhi veer se pyar ki nahi

combality issue hota to ek baar mishty aur veer ko family se compabilty issue ke baare me discuss karni chahiye but they have not discuss yet that means there is no compabilty issue

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Aj ka episode ke precap mai ruhaan kafi besharam laga muje . Apne he friend ke samne usi ke naak ki niche uski fiance ke sath double meaning wala line bol kar baat kar raha tha .

Ruhaan lost all the respect in my eyes today . He was talking shamelessly in double meaning about his feelings for mishti under the nose of veer .

I didn't like what Mishti is doing! What is with these relationship mends? There was no ruhaan and no juzbaat crap pre engagement. Now, this would be emotional cheating if she has someone else in heart and something in mind. This conflict has to be cleared.

Originally posted by: anshvi

Veer had cleared it long back that Mishti is free to do whatever she wants after marriage ! For him marriage is not a bondage but ! Mishti can be the way she is now even after marriage

Also there was no indirect pressure...He asked Pari to handle works as Mishti had work overload and he asked Mishti if she was okay with. the decision

It was Mishti who lied to him

Rest of the points have already been discussed

Originally posted by: arshifan2012

It's really not this complicated. If you're having feelings for someone other than your partner, you never loved them in the first place. Mishti never fell in love. Veer cares about her and she mistook that as love. My guy bestie loves me to death but as a FRIEND. It's a thin line and those who have a certain amount of experience will be the only ones who will be able to differentiate between the two. Her feels for Veer are of friendship masked as love. Ruhaan is the guy she's FALLING for (let her realise she's in love because she's still miles away from that) and he might actually be the only guy she properly loved. She loves Veer, but she's not IN love with him.

About Veer not pressurizing her, he passive aggressively got her to give Pari all the work and Mishti wasn't pleased. He WAS NOT suggesting, he was TELLING her. This is like a leading question asked by the opposition of a party to their witness where the answer to the question is given in the question itself. He said "it's okay na?" Which doesn't leave much room for Mishti (who's already too obedient around him) to say no. Whether this was cleared or not, he shouldn't have a say in what Mishti does with her business. That's her thing. Veer is her fiance and even if they do get married, I wouldn't want him to dictate her on her business matters. She's smart enough. She's capable enough. Let the girl do what she wants.

Originally posted by: arshifan2012

It's really not this complicated. If you're having feelings for someone other than your partner, you never loved them in the first place. Mishti never fell in love. Veer cares about her and she mistook that as love. My guy bestie loves me to death but as a FRIEND. It's a thin line and those who have a certain amount of experience will be the only ones who will be able to differentiate between the two. Her feels for Veer are of friendship masked as love. Ruhaan is the guy she's FALLING for (let her realise she's in love because she's still miles away from that) and he might actually be the only guy she properly loved. She loves Veer, but she's not IN love with him.

About Veer not pressurizing her, he passive aggressively got her to give Pari all the work and Mishti wasn't pleased. He WAS NOT suggesting, he was TELLING her. This is like a leading question asked by the opposition of a party to their witness where the answer to the question is given in the question itself. He said "it's okay na?" Which doesn't leave much room for Mishti (who's already too obedient around him) to say no. Whether this was cleared or not, he shouldn't have a say in what Mishti does with her business. That's her thing. Veer is her fiance and even if they do get married, I wouldn't want him to dictate her on her business matters. She's smart enough. She's capable enough. Let the girl do what she wants.

She is smart and capable. So why doesn't she say anything? Why this facade?
Why expect him to speak up on her behalf about engagement ring?
She has to speak up.

If a couple are truly in love where both of them have found everything they've ever wanted in each other ...then it's highly unlikely they will fall out of love ...because when you are satisfied and have everything you want and need then there's no reason to look elsewhere for love,..that's why lots of people have very happy successful marriages that lasts until death does them part. And we all have seen and witnessed this. The marriages that stand the test of time ..and even when there are hurdles ..they still support and stand together .. So I think in order for a relationship to end or for one partner to fall out of love there has to have been something that the one partner was not getting from the relationship...and often the partner who's being rejected ..will say but we were happy ..why did he or she leave me for someone else...like we had Mauli ask Kunal..but if we had to ask the partner who did the walking out or falling out of love ..he or she is very likely to give us multiple reasons why the relationship ended or what he or she was not getting anymore from the relationship..So I think there usually are reasons why break ups happen..but the makers here are not explaining this to us ..we were never shown properly why Kunal fell for nandu and what he found lacking in his relationship with Mauli...we all mAde our own assumptions..

Originally posted by: Indira1211

If a couple are truly in love where both of them have found everything they've ever wanted in each other ...then it's highly unlikely they will fall out of love ...because when you are satisfied and have everything you want and need then there's no reason to look elsewhere for love,..that's why lots of people have very happy successful marriages that lasts until death does them part. And we all have seen and witnessed this. The marriages that stand the test of time ..and even when there are hurdles ..they still support and stand together .. So I think in order for a relationship to end or for one partner to fall out of love there has to have been something that the one partner was not getting from the relationship...and often the partner who's being rejected ..will say but we were happy ..why did he or she leave me for someone else...like we had Mauli ask Kunal..but if we had to ask the partner who did the walking out or falling out of love ..he or she is very likely to give us multiple reasons why the relationship ended or what he or she was not getting anymore from the relationship..So I think there usually are reasons why break ups happen..but the makers here are not explaining this to us ..we were never shown properly why Kunal fell for nandu and what he found lacking in his relationship with Mauli...we all mAde our own assumptions..